In marriage, there are many women who feel that since they have married this man, they have become relatives who are honest with each other and talk about everything. Then I naturally have the right to know everything about men's past. In this way, it often touches the bottom line of men. And smart women, who know how to score inches, know what can be said and what should not be asked.
01. Men's ability to earn money. Most men, there will be some machismo in their hearts. Therefore, sensible women rarely talk to men about his earning ability, especially if they do not compare him with other men. You know, a man is working hard for your little family, no matter how tired, he insists. So women don't complain about men's earning power, maybe your intention is to spur men by comparing with other people, but the more you do this, the more men will feel that you are looking down on him, which will affect the feelings between you.
02. Men's emotional experiences. In fact, everyone, before getting married, will have more or less had several emotional experiences. But after marriage, the past becomes the past and does not need to be mentioned again. But some women, always curious about men's past emotional experiences, always want to know what happens between men and their predecessors, and will always grasp this topic. Doing so will only make men feel that you are making unreasonable trouble and will have a sense of disgust to you.
03. Never say bad things about your in-laws. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a problem since ancient times. There are more or less differences in the thinking of the older generation and the young people, resulting in more contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In daily life, some women have been wronged in front of their in-laws, and they will go to the men to complain, perhaps without knowing the seriousness, saying that the in-laws are not. Women who have this behavior are really not emotionally intelligent. You know, in a man's heart, no matter how much he loves you, your parents are always in the first place. You say in front of him that his parents are not, it will only make him embarrassed in the middle. Prolonged time will cause disharmony in your marital relationship.
Therefore, in marriage, no matter how good the relationship between husband and wife, women should not talk to men about the above three topics. Because some words, once they are spoken, they cannot be taken back. This does not help between you and your husband and wife, but it will affect the feelings between your husband and wife.