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01. Preface
The kitchen is the battlefield of many women, and it is the place where she "made a contribution".
Every day in the kitchen, taking care of the family's three meals a day, as if this is her job. There are even women who have filled their lives with their youth on the three-foot stove.
In a marriage, judging whether a man loves a woman deeply can actually be seen from the "kitchen".
The kitchen seems to be just a place of life, but it can reflect the temperature of a couple getting along, and can reflect whether a woman is loved and cherished.
The kitchen cooks dishes, but it is a place of love.
Women cook for men, where there is a woman's care, thoughtfulness and love; men cook for women, there is surprise, romance and warmth.
The more a man loves a woman, the more he will go into the kitchen.
Men are willing to do housework, like to cook, do not feel that the kitchen is a battlefield for women alone, give women more understanding and respect, the more stable the marriage will be.
In fact, whether a woman is blessed or not, look at her "kitchen" to know.
02, women who never let men into the kitchen are very tired
In marriage, women who "contract" the kitchen down often live very tired.
Whether a man loves to go into the kitchen or not can see his attitude toward housework and whether he loves his wife.
Nan Jianlong in the TV series "Little Shede" is with Cai Juying, and it seems that he loves Cai Juying. In fact, looking at the lives of the two after marriage, Nan Jianlong always loves himself.
With Cai Juying, she is coveted by her meticulous care.
Because, she can go down to the kitchen to cook his favorite meals, know all his preferences, be diligent with his hands and feet, and be able to cook a large table of meals by herself.
But Nan Jianlong didn't have much sincerity towards her.
Every week, Cai Juying is busy in the kitchen alone, and he never goes into the kitchen to help. The meal was on the table, and Cai Juying was always busy in the kitchen, and the last one to eat was on the table.
Men do not love a woman, and only then will they give all the trivial things in the "kitchen" to the woman.
And women, in marriage, big packages, at home, give everything, but it is often difficult to be cherished.
Although the kitchen is small, it can see the place of women in the hearts of men.
The more men care about women, the more they always go into the kitchen to see if she needs help and if she needs someone to do it.
03, the more a man loves a woman, the more he likes to go into the kitchen
Men, deeply in love with a woman, are willing to cook delicious food and please the woman's stomach.
Fang Zhijin in "An Jia" returned to his home, helped the family solve the problem, and stayed at home for two or three days, too busy to eat a good meal.
The mother only had her brother in her eyes, and only wanted to let his brother eat and dress warmly, but she never shared a little love with her.
Back in the shared house where he lived with Xu Wenchang, Xu Wenchang did not say anything, but made her a bowl of delicious noodles, all of which she ate clean, and tears fell.
From these foods, she felt the warmth and tenderness from this man.
Men care about a person, care about a person, and always care about whether she has enough to eat, whether she is hungry or not.
In love, the more a man loves a woman, the more he likes to go into the kitchen, and the more he likes to make food to fill a woman's stomach.
There is such a sentence in the movie "The Godfather": "A man can be outside with a sword and a sword, but the dining table is the holy place of life, as long as you sit in front of your family, all you have to do is to play the role of your loving father and husband, and give your family warmth and happiness." ”
A man who loves a woman deeply will go into the kitchen full of joy and make a few dishes with his heart, just so that the woman can show a satisfied smile.
Two people sharing good food together, sharing love, sharing good times together. That is a blessing, a kind of affectionate companionship.
04, the more women have a position in the family, the more men enter the kitchen
Love, from three meals a day, spreads out.
Two people fall in love, and the kitchen becomes a sweet, happy place. If a woman loves too much and is not cherished, then the kitchen will become a place full of women's sadness and sadness.
If a man really loves a woman, he will show it with real actions.
He is willing to take on the responsibility of taking care of women in his daily life, and will not leave all the trivial things in life to women to do alone.
Men would be willing to share the housework with her, cook together, and wash dishes together.
Men are willing to live an ordinary and happy life with women, and are willing to feel the fireworks of this world. As long as two people are together, no matter what they do, they will be full of romance.
Men love someone deeply and don't want to make her too tired and put too much pressure on her.
Back home, I boiled three dishes and a soup with a woman, while cooking, I chatted about the sky, fought with my mouth, told jokes, and lived a sweet life.
The more a woman has a position in the family, the more men will be willing to go into the kitchen, share the housework, and let the woman feel loved.
05. Summary
Whether a woman is blessed or not, look at her "kitchen" to know.
Two people together, it is nothing more than three meals a day and four seasons.
If a man is willing to go into the kitchen and create a home atmosphere with his heart, so that the life of two people is healthier, warmer and happier, it is an expression of love.
Whether a woman is blessed, loved and cherished, what kind of attitude a man has towards her, look at the kitchen, it will be clear.
A woman enters the kitchen to tie a man's heart with good food. In fact, when men enter the kitchen, they also want to make each other's lives more colorful, so that women can live comfortably and have a higher happiness index.
A man's willingness to cook food shows that he loves life, is willing to pay for his family, and hopes that his lover can experience more warmth from the family.
At the same time, men like to go into the kitchen, but also care and care about women.
In marriage, two people grow up together, take on everything together, and the happiness index will be higher.
For the rest of your life, if you fall in love with someone, please help each other, share the trivialities of life, and make the days better and better.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.