Changes in feelings between the opposite sex are often related to matter. Just like if a woman doesn't like a man, she generally won't easily spend a man's money and won't owe a man anything. Because for women, she does not want to be involved with this man, naturally there is no interest relationship with men, so that men misunderstand something.
But in fact, different women have their own ideas about material things. Some women don't spend men's money because they don't like men, and some women have other minds.
The relationship between the opposite sex is not as simple as we can see, and the minds of some women are not easy for men to guess. If a man wants to know what a woman is thinking about when she is not willing to spend your money, he has to observe the woman's attitude toward you and know how to understand the woman's personality.
Only when men understand the woman's mind can they know how to get along next, and they don't have to misunderstand the woman's mind, causing some behaviors that are not conducive to each other.
Wovinag said, "Habit is everything, even in love." ”
A woman's mind is often revealed in her behavior habits. Therefore, men cannot define the woman's mind by their own assumptions. But learn that a woman's reluctance to spend a man's money is mostly these psychologies. In the process of getting along, men should learn to observe and correspond to women's minds.
01 The simplest point is that women don't like you and want you to feel her indifferent attitude.
When men have a good feeling for a woman, they often test the woman's mind through some material temptations. Just like men will take the initiative to invite women to dinner, and when they encounter some suitable opportunities, they will give women some gifts.
In such a situation, if the woman does not accept the man's kindness, the man will understand the woman's mind. If the woman accepts, the man's heart will naturally think: "She must have a good feeling for me and is willing to continue to develop, so that there will be such behavior."
For this, the woman's heart naturally understands it. If women really have a good feeling for men, they will naturally know how to hint at men in this way, so that men can be more active and brave.
George Bernard Shaw once said: "Love is not charity, so you can't give generously." ”
Both men and women must understand this truth. If you don't like a person in your heart, don't easily accept the kindness of the other party and spend the other party's money. Otherwise, it seems to take advantage of some of the advantages in front of you, and you will lose more in the end.
Women have such a habit in front of a man, and men should also think about whether she does not like you at all, and will reject you in such an indifferent way, so that you don't waste your efforts.
02 She loves you very much and knows how to hurt you, so she is not willing to increase your burden because of money.
Some women's pursuit of love is very pure, and in their eyes, they don't care about men's material conditions at all. All they cared about was whether the man's heart was truly in love with her. As long as she feels the sincerity of the man, the woman will also pay her twelve points of sincerity to treat this feeling.
The more she loves a man in her heart, the more women will naturally think about this man. What women want is not only the happiness in front of them, but also the beautiful and stable future of the two people. For this future, women will willingly wronged themselves and do not want to increase the burden on men because of themselves.
They willingly follow men through hard life, as long as men have a self-motivated heart and are willing to work hard and struggle. As long as hope is seen in this love, women often do not care how much money men can spend for themselves, even if it is worth it.
Leo Tolstoy said: "If a girl wants to marry a rich man, it is not love, property is the most insignificant thing, and only if it can withstand the pain of separation is true love." ”
When a woman is unwilling to spend a man's money, but her heart is deeply in love with this man, in fact, men can feel it. When encountering such a woman, men should also cherish it well and strive hard.
03 Women are inferior because of their financial conditions and want to tell you in this way that you are equal.
In love, some women may enjoy the man's giving and the man's material conditions. But some women have strong self-esteem and want each other to be equal in love, especially when it comes to money, even if women's conditions are not as good as men's, women will like men to know that they are equal.
Just like in the TV series "There Is You in This Life", Tan Jing's family conditions are general, after being with Nie Yusheng, although they really love each other, for Tan Jing, she hopes that they are equal to each other, so she does not like Nie Yusheng's money.
Such a situation is also very common in life. Men like a woman, naturally want to give what they think is the best to women, especially on the basis of their own economic conditions, men will not consider the value, only hope to use this way to let women know their intentions.
However, for women, the greater the gap between each other, these behaviors of men will add a great burden to women's psychology, always feel that they are taking advantage, for fear that in the future, men will think that she is with him because of money.
Therefore, a man should understand that if a woman obviously loves you very much, but is not willing to accept your material giving, it means that in her heart, she hopes that you are equal between you, and this material giving can also be equal.
When the opposite sex gets along, men should feel what psychology she does not want to spend your money through some of the woman's habits, some behaviors, and her attitude. Knowing a woman's mind, you know how you should do it.