Anna Karenina: In married life, the basis of love is more important than material conditions

Leo Tolstoy once said that the whole meaning of marriage lies in trivial family life.

The essence of marriage is a bland and trivial daily life, and whether a marriage is happy depends on whether the couple can feel the joy and happiness from the heart in this marriage.

For couples who love each other, they have enough to drink, even if their material conditions are poor, they can feel happy in a poor life because of their love for each other.

In married life, the basis of love is more important than material conditions, especially for women, instead of marrying a person you don't like against your heart for material conditions, complaining about your unhappy life after marriage, it is better to choose to marry love and create your own happy life with your beloved.

In the Russian writer Leo Tolstoy's novel "Anna Karenina", the heroine Anna does not understand this truth, she first married Karenin, the husband of the old plank, because of the material, and after marriage, she felt that her life was very boring, chose to betray the marriage, and came together with the young and handsome Vronsky, and finally because of the disappointment in Vronsky, she ended her young life in a lying way.

It seems to me that Anna's attitude toward marriage is rash, and if she had been able to think carefully and not marry Karenin, whom she did not love, she would not have felt pain in this marriage, nor would she have troubled Karenin in the future of her life.

Choosing to enter into a marriage relationship with the person you love is both an act of responsibility for one's own life and an act of responsibility for one's other half.

One, in a marital relationship without a basis for love, a person will not feel happy.

Karenin's family is well-off, he is also a person with status and status in society, but he is also an old-fashioned and old-fashioned person, and his view of marriage is to be loyal and to end from one end, this kind of person may not be a good lover in the eyes of women, but a good husband in the eyes of the world.

Anna's parents died when she was a child, she met Karenin under the introduction of her aunt, and in the face of karenin's love from a superior family, Anna did not choose to refuse, but obediently married Karenin.

After marriage, Karenin was also very good to Anna, he tried his best to meet all the material requirements of his wife, he was faithful to marriage, he tolerated her shortcomings, and in addition to not understanding romance, he was almost a model of a good husband.

But all the goodness of Karenin is not worth mentioning in Anna's view, and the sufficient material basis does not make Anna feel happy, all she wants is love.

In my opinion, the reason why Anna's married life is unhappy is because she chose to enter the palace of marriage with Karenin without loving him, which made her feel the goodness of her husband after marriage, and she always felt that her heart was flawed.

Second, choose the person you love in your heart, even if you encounter worldly opposition, your heart is happy.

By chance, Anna meets the young and handsome Vronsky on the platform of the train station, and Vronsky is attracted by Anna's beautiful appearance and passionately pursues Anna knowing that she is married.

Compared with Karenin, Vronsky is young, handsome, and full of interest, which makes Anna's heart, which has long withered in married life, re-feel the taste of love, and she is attracted to Vronsky and falls in love with him.

After karenin knew about this, he chose to forgive his wife, he hoped that her wife would look at the children's sake and choose to return to the family and live a good life with herself, but Anna was unwilling to give up Vronsky, she was willing to give up everything she had for Vronsky.

During a Vronsky horse race, Karenin and Anna were invited as guests, and the surrounding audience was also a social figure with a face, but when Anna saw Vronsky accidentally fall off his horse, she still ignored her husband's decency and screamed, which made everyone around her turn their eyes to Karenin, which made him embarrassed.

In my opinion, the reason why Anna would rather betray the marriage, regardless of her husband's dignity and young children, than give up Vronsky, is that she feels that she loves Vronsky deeply, and Anna feels that she can pay for a sincere love, even if the price is great, her heart is happy.

Third, in married life, the basis of love is more important than material conditions.

Karenin was reluctant to dissolve the marriage with Anna, so Anna simply moved to Vronsky's house to live with Vronsky.

Vronsky initially loved Anna, but his mother did not have a crush on Anna, fearing that Anna would affect her son's future.

When Vronsky's enthusiasm for Anna gradually faded, Vronsky also became suspicious of his feelings for Anna, and he was no longer enthusiastic about Anna.

Anna's change of attitude makes Anna very painful, after all, she has given everything for this relationship, including a stable family, a loyal husband, a lovely child, and the most precious reputation...

But all of Anna's efforts were exchanged for Vronsky's lack of firmness in their feelings, and Anna, discouraged, chose to end her life in a lying manner.

In my opinion, the tragedy of Anna's fate lies in the fact that she was too hasty in choosing marriage, if she could choose a person she loved when she first chose marriage, perhaps she would not choose to betray her partner after marriage and make a mess of married life.

"Anna Karenina" tells us that if you want to have a happy marriage relationship, you must understand that the basis of love is more important than material conditions, and only by choosing love that makes you feel satisfied can you make yourself feel comfortable and happy in your future life.

The reason why Anna's life and love will fail is that she was too hasty in choosing marriage, and she formed a marriage relationship with Karenin without loving her, which was already doomed to her in this marriage relationship.

The enlightenment brought to us by Anna's life experience is that marriage is a lifelong event for a person, and only those who know how to choose marriage carefully and understand that love conditions are more important than material foundations can harvest happiness in married life.

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