Plato said, "Love, only love, can make a person dare to give his life for the person he loves; this is something that not only men can do, but women can do." ”
After a man completely falls in love with a woman, he naturally can't help but approach the woman, to attract the woman's attention, and even to pay for the woman without hesitation. Thinking of a person in my heart, I hope to be able to make the other party happy and happy through my own efforts, and at the same time see my sincere attitude.
In the face of love, each of us is actually like this, and we do not want to be controlled by love, but we often cannot control our behavior in behavior. The more a man loves a woman, the more likely it is that he will lose control because of this love.
Just like in the TV series "There Is You in This Life", Nie Yusheng, played by Zhong Hanliang, was very indifferent to Tan Jing at the beginning, and even if he met, he would not say anything more. But it didn't take long for us to see him trying to restrain his emotions. In fact, in his heart, he has always loved Tan Jing deeply, and this deep love has made him still remember Tan Jing after seven years.
This obsession made Nie Yusheng constantly lose control. Even if he said that he would no longer help Tan Jing, in fact, in the end, his sanity was still overcome by love, and he couldn't help but care about Tan Jing and help Tan Jing in behavior.
Love lives in a man's heart and is difficult to get rid of. As long as a man is deeply in love with a woman and obsessed with this woman, it is easy to "get out of control" at these times.
01 As long as it is a woman's request, men will uncontrollably agree.
Love is very easy for us to be fascinated, and it is precisely because of this that we in love are easily out of control. When you see someone you like, your heart will be inexplicably happy, and it is easy to lose yourself in some cases and be blinded by love.
Although we will try to tell ourselves that even if we love someone very much, we must maintain our principles and maintain our sanity. But in the end, love will still make us lose our principles, even desperate for love.
This feeling, as Jo Ford put it, "Love is the tyrant of the heart; it makes the intellect unclear and the judgment unclear; it does not heed advice, and it runs straight in the direction of madness." ”
Men are often unprincipled in front of the women they like, and in many things, men will be willing to break their own principles for women. It's like encountering something that men have never done before, but at the request of a woman, men will be willing to do it, challenge themselves, or change their previous image.
Although in front of outsiders, it is very out of control for a man to behave like this, but this is also the magic of love, and it is also difficult for men to control.
02 When I miss a woman, men will frequently contact women, and even drop everything to go to the woman's side.
Leo Tolstoy said: "I will have this love in my eyes divided into two halves at this time: half is her, where everything is joy, hope, light; the other half is everything without her, where everything is bitterness and darkness." ”
In love, we actually all have such feelings. As long as we love someone in our hearts, when we see each other, we will be full of joy and feel that our whole world has become bright and interesting. When you can't see each other, you will feel that the world is dark, your life is boring, and you always feel that something is missing.
For men, love can also give them that feeling. Especially when a man completely falls in love with a woman, he will never forget this woman, and under such affection, men will naturally often suffer from lovesickness. When he can't see a woman, the man will miss it madly and will want to see the woman he loves as soon as possible.
Under this thought, men will generally contact women more frequently, and even when they miss it most, they will drop everything to go to the woman's side. This kind of out-of-control behavior occurs when a man develops because he loves this woman too much.
03 When getting along together, men tend to ignore their feelings and only care about women's thoughts.
Swedenborg said: "Love exists in the desire to give, and regards the pleasure of the lover as one's own." ”
After a man is obsessed with a woman, in his heart, it must be such a feeling. Because he loves this woman deeply, he will care about women's feelings; he will hope that women are happy and happy; and he will hope that the happiness he brings to women is even more.
When getting along with ordinary friends, men tend to care a lot about their feelings and will have their own personality and personality. But when he is with the woman he loves, men will involuntarily ignore their feelings, see only the woman's emotional state in their eyes, and only get used to caring about women's feelings.
This state of selflessness of men does reflect the loss of control after a man falls in love with a woman. Generally speaking, men appear to have these out-of-control behaviors because he has already loved a woman to the point of obsession.
Wovinag said, "Habit is everything, even in love." ”
Men have love in their hearts, and in this love, some habits are often formed. Some behaviors seem to have gotten out of control, but this is also the most common manifestation of men after encountering love, and it is also the most direct and obvious manifestation of men's deep love for a woman.
When the opposite sex gets along, if a man has these out-of-control behaviors, the woman should understand that he actually loves you deeply and has been obsessed with you.