In October 2013, Yujiang County, Jiangxi Province, was about to usher in the joy of a bumper harvest as in previous years. When the first rays of the morning sun shine on the village of Nixia in the county, every household is busy cooking, and the smoke of cooking makes it a very ordinary day.
However, when an uninvited guest appeared at the door of Ni Xiying's house in the village, the noise and cries resounded throughout the family, and the whole village also boiled.
Who is this uninvited guest? Why is it causing such a big stir?
This uninvited guest is Ni Xiying's husband, who has been missing for ten years: Ni Fasheng. In the past ten years, Ni Xiying, a woman, has experienced the ups and downs of life from great compassion to great joy.
When he went out to work with his husband with joy and was ready to earn money to support his family, he was "separated from her husband by yin and yang" from then on.
Faced with the dilemma of life where her in-laws need to be taken care of and her children need to be raised, Ni Xiying still endures grief, shoulders the burden of life, and acts as the pillar of the whole family.
In this process, the appearance of the second "husband" Lao Feng strengthened Ni Xiying's confidence in living, and the two reunited and came together to live together for ten years.
Nowadays, Ni Fasheng "returns from the dead", and the originally peaceful life of Ni Xiying's family has set off ripples.
How should Lao Feng deal with himself? Do the children still recognize this father? What is the final outcome of this family?
Thousands of miles of gold panning, but encountered "accidental disappearance"
In 2003, Ni Xiying's family was very poor, seeing that every household in the village had built a bungalow and his family was still a dilapidated brick and tile house, the young Ni Fasheng was not willing, so he and his wife Ni Xiying discussed going to Guangzhou to work together.
At that time, Xiao Ting and Xiao Guo, who were still young, were entrusted to the care of their grandparents and became left-behind children ever since.
After coming to Guangzhou, Ni Fasheng and Ni Xiying were particularly desperate, saving money and frugality, just thinking of making more money to go home and build their own new house.
The weather is unpredictable, a SARS poured out the couple's dream of earning money, and the SARS epidemic in 2003 made all walks of life deeply affected by the epidemic.
Ni Fasheng and Ni Xiying soon lost their jobs, and their savings were almost spent, so Ni Xiying advised her husband to return to her hometown first and then consider the long term.
How could Ni Fasheng, who was accustomed to working outside the home for many years, be so easily overthrown, he said to his wife: "I must earn enough money here and then go back, build our family's house, and no longer be ridiculed by the neighbors."
Seeing that Ni Fasheng was so stubborn, Ni Xiying had to return to his hometown alone.
No one expected that this difference would be ten years.
After returning home, Ni Xiying did not receive a single message from her husband, Ni Fasheng, even if it was a letter or a phone call.
During this period, Ni Xiying asked her cousin who sold vegetables in Guangzhou to help inquire about the news, and even went to the police station to ask how to find, but in the end she was told that she could not find it.
Ni Xiying could only silently wait for the news of her husband, facing the expectant eyes of her in-laws and children, and this strong woman left helpless tears.
At this time, Xiaoting and Xiaoguo were also ridiculed by their classmates and playmates in the village for not having a father, and their young hearts were slightly hurt.
Life is short, but the harvest is the second spring
Ni Xiying's family thus acquiesced to The disappearance of Ni Fasheng, ni Xiying alone also got up early and worked hard, and one person took on the heavy responsibility of taking care of her in-laws and raising her children.
With her own diligence and the help of her in-laws, Ni Xiying finally built her own bungalow. Although there is only one floor and there is still debt, after all, the family's life has improved.
Although Ni Fasheng still has no news, the family also silently accepted his "death", and the family, which was originally filled with grief, gradually returned to normal.
At this time, Ni Xiying was young, and from time to time some people in the village came to say kisses and advised her to remarry. In the face of people who come to meet each other, Ni Xiying will also be carefully selected.
Finally, in 2008, Ni Xiying met her second "husband". He was still acquainted with when he was working in a factory, his name was Lao Feng, he was divorced, and he had a son.
Two people who had experienced the vicissitudes of their marriage came together and formed a new family.
The two discussed that if they no longer had children, they would treat each other's children as their own, no longer receive a marriage license, and live together like this.
Old Feng is particularly fond of Ni Xiying, all kinds of dirty work are rushed to do, Xiaoting and Xiaoguo are also specially taken care of, and also teach them to learn skills, often take out to play, Old Feng is also regarded as his new father by the two children.
As for Ni Xiying's in-laws, Lao Feng was also as filial as his parents, and also gave up the largest room of the bungalow to the old couple.
Old Feng paid off the debt for Ni Xiying and built the second and third floors of the bungalow with her. The family's life gradually became richer.
However, when Ni Fasheng "came back from the dead", such a peaceful life was broken.
Lao Feng was pushed back and forth by Ni Fasheng's parents and was driven out of the house like a "little three", and the neighbors also thought that Lao Feng had stepped into the family and pointed out one after another.
Originally working hard for this family, taking care of the elderly and raising children, All this done by Lao Feng became worthless after Ni Fasheng's "return of the dead", and there was endless bitter water in his heart.
Are you our father?
When Xiaoting and Xiaoguo saw their biological father appear in front of them, they were both excited and full of resentment.
Excitedly, his biological father was not dead. The resentment is that such a reunion is ten years late.
In the past ten years, the sisters and brothers have suffered a lot, shed many tears of thought, and suffered many insults from their classmates.
They turned back and began to ask their father, "Why didn't you come back in the first place?" "Do you know how much suffering My Mother and we have suffered?" "Why don't you write to us?" "Do you know how much we miss you?" "Did you know that we were ridiculed by our classmates at school for not having a father?" ”
Faced with a series of questions, Ni Fasheng was speechless for a moment, after all, he owed too much to the two children.
After calming down, Ni Fasheng said that he had been looking for a job in Guangzhou at that time, and later his savings were spent, he lost money in business, and even became ill, preferring to drag himself outside and come back when the delay was good.
In the face of Ni Fasheng's calm explanation, it instantly caused a group of ridicule.
Xiao Guo asked directly: "Since this is the case, why don't you call us?" We all thought you were dead, but you let us know you were alive. ”
Xiaoting also immediately said: "When you come back, I feel that you have not said a word of truth, and you are running the train with your mouth full." Don't you just want to make a lot of money, so you don't want your mother and our sisters and brothers? Is money important, or is our family important? ”
In the face of his father, who was "resurrected from the dead", the sisters and brothers were always reluctant to accept him.
Is it to make money, or is there an affair?
In addition to Lao Feng, Xiao Ting and Xiao Guo's sisters and brothers, Ni Fasheng's "disappearance" hurts Ni Xiying the most. In the face of Ni Fasheng, Ni Xiying did not rejoice at all, but was full of resentment and anger.
In the past ten years, Ni Xiying has been in charge of the family's needles and threads, one food and one millet, and later with Lao Feng, the family slowly became peaceful.
How much suffering Ni Xiying suffered, how much sweat shed, how much grievance she suffered, and how many times she seemed so helpless.
All this, Ni Fasheng could not see, and even played missing, the harm caused to this family is beyond words.
Faced with Ni Fasheng's explanation that he was making a lot of money outside, Ni Xiying didn't believe it at all, and she even suspected that he had other women outside.
She remembered that in 2001, when Xiaoguo was not yet two years old, when she went to see him at the factory where Ni Fasheng worked, she saw a woman's underwear and long hair on his bed. Ni Xiying asked Ni Fasheng what was going on? Is there another woman?
Ni Fasheng explained that the co-workers and wives had slept here, and he was so honest, why could there be other women? Relying on his rhetoric, Ni Fasheng coaxed Ni Xiying into going.
Now, Ni Xiying believes that Ni Fasheng has another woman outside, so he is not in touch with his two children and plays missing. Nowadays, Ni Fasheng came back in despair, he must have been abandoned by other women, no money, no job, no looks, and he couldn't stay outside, so he returned here.
In this way, Ni Fasheng can not get rid of the suspicion or fact of having an affair, in the past ten years, Ni Fasheng is to make money, or to live a new life with other women, we do not know.
"My wife and children are mine!" In the face of his wife's anger, the children's non-acceptance, and Lao Feng's "intervention", Ni Fasheng fought with the support of his parents and insisted that his wife, children and the family house were all his own.
In the face of the doubts of neighbors, Ni Fasheng cleverly said that he and his wife did not go through divorce procedures, which proved that his wife was still his own, and Lao Feng was only the "destroyer" of his marriage.
Facing the three-story bungalow at home, Ni Fasheng also insisted that this was his own, although he had not paid a penny, but after all, it was also built by his wife, so it was still his own house.
Faced with Ni Fasheng's performance as a scoundrel, Ni Xiying could not bear it, and handed a complaint to the people's court in the city, requesting the court to rule on divorce.
After a careful trial, the court held that although Ni Fasheng was missing and at fault, Ni Xiying had not formally filed for divorce, so the two parties were still legally recognized as husband and wife. Since the two parties no longer have the basis for the existence of the marriage, the two parties are sentenced to divorce, and most of the house belongs to Ni Xiying, and a small part belongs to Ni Fasheng.
At the same time, in view of the fact that Xiaoguo is still a minor, Ni Xiying is responsible for guardianship, and Ni Fasheng pays 214 yuan per month for living expenses.
Although Ni Fasheng got half of the house, his irresponsible performance also broke up the original warm family.
Ni Xiying and Lao Feng can finally become a legally recognized couple, although they have lost some houses, but the originally peaceful family is finally reunited.