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"There is you in this life" Sheng Fangting: Carrying too much life is doomed to be unable to be truly happy

A lot of people are cursing Sheng Fangting, and I can understand this. After all, in the whole story, it has always been Sheng Fangting who is stirring up trouble and making everything unmanageable.

But if we look at it from another angle, we also have to admit that Sheng Fangting is really powerful.

From a complete outsider to the control of the Pingyuan Group, although in the end it was Nie Yusheng who voluntarily gave up and the betrayal of Secretary Quan, in less than a year, he was able to do this step, and this scheming and strategy was really rare.

I even think that if the script is torn down and rewritten, and the whole story is unfolded with Sheng Fangting as the protagonist, perhaps most people will like Sheng Fangting.

In the story that we can see, Sheng Fangting started from the special recruitment of Tan Jing, to the use of Tan Jing's hatred for Nie Dongyuan, and then to the acquisition of stocks in the hands of retail investors, Sheng Fangting moved step by step to see the tricks and tricks, almost without flaws.

From the mentality of the people to the decision-making of the mall, every step of Sheng Fangting seems to be unrelated, but in fact it is interlocked, not to mention that Nie Yusheng has never experienced in the commercial sea, even if it is an old fox like Nie Dongyuan, it may not be his opponent.

In other words, this guy is a full businessman, and his whole life has existed for business wars.

However, we have to admit that although in the later story, Sheng Fangting got everything he wanted, in my intuition, he was not really happy, because along the way, he lost too much.

As a drama chaser, I can't empathize with Sheng Fangting's psychology, but I think that after many years, when I look back on this life, he may have a trace of regret.

Because judging from Sheng Fangting's performance when he was a child, he was also a simple and happy child.

"There is you in this life" Sheng Fangting: Carrying too much life is doomed to be unable to be truly happy

Screenshot of the TV series "This Life Has You"

I have always stubbornly believed that all this was caused by Nie Dongyuan himself.

In that year, Nie Dongyuan abandoned Sheng Fangting's mother and son, and in order not to be sad anymore, Sheng Fangting's mother took him out of the city.

If his mother had not died later, Sheng Fangting might have been happier, but with the departure of his mother, Sheng Fangting would have become a person.

What really happened that year is not explained in the plot, but I think that Sheng Fangting's childhood must have been unhappy.

Other children have a complete family, every time they participate in the activity, their parents can cheer for him, but Sheng Fangting does not, whether it is success or failure, he can only share it with his mother.

To him, the word "father" is just two words in the dictionary.

After his mother died, he was alone in a foreign country, studying alone, living alone, no matter how many grievances he encountered, he could only bear it silently.

Because his mother always cried, he only had hatred for Nie Dongyuan.

As he grew older, as his ability became stronger and stronger, this hatred became the driving force, because of hatred, he worked hard to snatch the Yuanyuan Group from Nie Dongyuan's hands, because he knew that the Pingyuan Group was Nie Dongyuan's painstaking effort, and only by taking away what Nie Dongyuan cared about most was the biggest revenge against Nie Dongyuan.

After thinking about this, I also understand why Shu Qin broke up with Sheng Fangting in the past——

A person who has too much hatred in his heart cannot love a person wholeheartedly, on the one hand, the ultimate hatred, on the other hand, the crazy warmth of teenagers, always switching between two different identities, naturally there is no way to devote himself wholeheartedly to a relationship.

In such a situation, it is inevitable that Shu Qin and he will break up.

"There is you in this life" Sheng Fangting: Carrying too much life is doomed to be unable to be truly happy

Years later, Sheng Fangting returned to China and met Shu Qin again.

Once a lover with a heart-to-heart, but now he is just a stranger, for his whole plan, he can't even say a word "I haven't seen for a long time".

It is undeniable that Sheng Fangting is here for revenge, but people are not grass and trees, who can be ruthless, in the face of former lovers, to say that there is no wave in the heart, even if he believes it himself, I can't believe it.

After all, for him, the years of falling in love with Shu Qin were also his happiest times.

The happiness of the past has disappeared, and now there is only one thing left, we often say that Shu Qin at this time, the heart has already poured heavy rain, but I think in Sheng Fangting's heart, there must be waves.

Just for revenge, he had to bury all this wave in his heart.

It is undeniable that along the way, Sheng Fangting has been using Shu Qin, especially Shu Qin and Nie Yusheng to fall in love, but I think that letting the person he once loved the most fall in love with his "son of an enemy" and even get married and have children is still somewhat diaphragm.

That day, Shu Qin asked him for his opinion, and he said that when he let Shu Qin make up his own mind, his heart would definitely have waves.

Compared with his reluctance to Shu Qin, he knows what he should do the most, and I even feel that in his heart, he must feel that he is not worthy of love.

Such self-denial is not a very happy thing.

Fortunately, in the drama version of the story, Shu Qin's friendship with Nie Yusheng was not Sheng Fangting's idea, he was always just using nie Yusheng and Shu Qin's friendship, otherwise, it would be too unfair to Shu Qin.

But I think that the more the story develops like this, the more painful Sheng Fangting's heart becomes.

"There is you in this life" Sheng Fangting: Carrying too much life is doomed to be unable to be truly happy

In the later story, Shu Qin returned to Sheng Fangting's side again and offered to marry Sheng Fangting.

Although when Nie Yusheng asked him if he had ever loved Shu Qin, Sheng Fangting did not answer, but I think that in his heart, he still loved Shu Qin, otherwise, he would not have taken the initiative to propose marriage to Shu Qin's parents, and he would not have bought the house opposite Tingyuan for Shu Qin.

It is precisely because I can't respond to you emotionally, so I have to compensate you with materials, but such compensation is not worthy of Shu Qin's affection at all.

Sheng Fangting understood these truths, but because the hatred in his heart was too strong, he would not be able to see his true heart clearly.

Although many of the contradictions between Nie Yusheng and Tan Jing were created by Sheng Fangting, in my intuition, Sheng Fangting did not want to hurt Nie Yusheng.

However, because Nie Yusheng was Nie Dongyuan's son, he had to stand against Nie Yusheng.

Of course, the biggest blow to Sheng Fangting throughout the story is Nie Dongyuan's will, in which Nie Dongyuan split his shares in two, so that his two sons have the same inheritance rights.

He thought that his father had abandoned him and would not leave anything for himself, but he did not want to be equally important in his father's heart, and even the medals at his games had been regarded as treasures by his father for many years.

I think that the moment I got the medal and the will, Sheng Fangting's heart must have mixed feelings, but everything was too late.

But I think that if life were to start again, Sheng Fangting would probably make the same choice, after all, the harm that Nie Dongyuan had left him by abandoning their mother and son was really too great.

Obviously, it is the mistake of the elders, but they have to pay for it, and this fate arrangement is really too cruel.

"There is you in this life" Sheng Fangting: Carrying too much life is doomed to be unable to be truly happy

Did Sheng Fangting forgive Nie Dongyuan, I don't think so.

It's just that at this time, Nie Dongyuan is no longer alive, and if he continues to immerse himself in the hatred of the past, it is completely useless.

Thinking about it carefully, Nie Dongyuan was not a bad person, but from the beginning to the end, he was not a good father, this was true for Sheng Fangting, and it was also true for Nie Yusheng.

Because of his prejudice and obsession, it caused the emotional tragedy between Nie Yusheng and Tan Jing.

Because of his negligence and entanglement, Sheng Fangting lived in hatred all his life, and did not learn how to love, nor learned how to be loved.

Although at the end, Nie Dongyuan left Sheng Fangting ten percent of the shares, but this also could not make up for the wounds in Sheng Fangting's heart.

I think that if he could have had more communication with Sheng Fangting in those years, things would not have gotten to this point at all.

In our real life, in fact, this is also the case, those who have unfortunate childhoods, when they become adults, they will always be like a hedgehog, both eager to get warmth from others, but when others are close to themselves, they will hurt each other.

Eager to be close, but afraid of being too close, such a life is doomed to not be truly happy.

But this is also good, when the story ends, Tan Jing and Nie Yusheng are reconciled, Shu Qin seems to accept Sheng Fangting again, Sheng Fangting got the Yuanyuan Group as he wished, Nie Yusheng continued to be a doctor to treat and save people, Sun Ping recovered his health, except for Sun Zhijun, it seems that everyone got the best ending.

However, whenever I think of the entanglement of their grievances along the way, I still feel a little uneasy. In particular, the departure of brother Jun has deceived us of countless tears.

"There is you in this life" Sheng Fangting: Carrying too much life is doomed to be unable to be truly happy

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