In the recent hit TV series "There Is You in This Life", Nie Yusheng and Tan Jing were a pair of lovers who were in love with each other seven years ago, because some things between their parents caused a lot of misunderstandings, resulting in the two people having to choose to break up.
Because of the deep love that they once had, even after seven years, the two still loved each other. In Nie Yusheng's heart, although Tan Jing left him fiercely seven years ago, making him mistakenly think that Tan Jing had never loved him, in the past seven years, Nie Yusheng had never stopped loving Tan Jing.
He tried to forget countless times, and convinced himself to start over countless times, but in the end he could not let go of the relationship. This kind of love, as Hugo said: "For love, what is the year?" It's both a minute and a century. It is said to be minute because in the sweetness of love it is fleeting like lightning; it is said to be century because it is the eternal life of happiness after it has built life in us. ”
Nie Yusheng's love for Tan Jing seemed to be a kind of immortality, although middle age was mixed with a lot of pain, but from beginning to end, he was unwilling to let go.
For Tan Jing, it is also a very happy thing to be deeply loved and worried by such a man. Meeting such a man is also enough to prove that her original choice was right, and she also met the man who deserves to keep her loving.
In a woman's life, it is not easy to meet such an infatuated, long-term man. If you meet this person who loves each other deeply, women should cherish it well, and once such a fate is missed, it is difficult to meet again.
How a man loves a woman deeply is how it is, in Nie Yusheng's body, we can see some. It turns out that a man is deeply in love with a woman, and these manifestations are obvious and cannot be faked.
01 Even if you are very indifferent on the surface, behind the scenes, you can't help but care for each other and understand each other's lives.
Sisus said, "The bitterness and pleasure in love are always fighting each other." ”
The emotions that love brings to a person are very complicated, and many times, even if the heart wants to reject the other party, the behavior can't help but get close to the other party and understand the other person's life.
Just like Nie Yusheng, even if he had been hurt, he couldn't help but approach Tan Jing. Knowing where Tan Jing is, pretending not to care on the surface, but unable to control himself in behavior. Knowing where Tan Jing lives, he often goes to see her quietly, or even pretends to pass by, hoping to get some news from the other party.
A man, as long as he is deeply in love with a woman, even if on the surface he can pretend to be very cold, a look of complete indifference. In his heart, after all, he still can't change the fact that he loves each other deeply, and this deep love is enough to disturb men's thoughts, enough to make men always think about this woman and care about this woman.
Women want to see a man's heart, don't always look at his face, see the way he deliberately snubbed you. It's about looking at those who "inadvertently" care and care about you.
02 When you see each other getting along with other people of the opposite sex, you will be lost and inexplicably angry.
In "There Is You in This Life", when Nie Yusheng saw Tan Jing and Sheng Fangting together, he was obviously jealous and very unhappy. When he saw Tan Jing again, he couldn't help but say some cool words.
Schiller said: "True love is single-minded, and the field of love is very narrow, so narrow that it can only accommodate two people to survive; if you fall in love with several people at the same time, it cannot be called love, it is only an emotional game." ”
As long as a man is deeply in love with a woman, in the world of this love, he will no longer allow a second man to appear. Even if two people simply say a word, the man's heart will be very unhappy, and even jealous of it.
Women should know that no matter how cold a man is in front of you, as long as he loves you deeply, he cannot do nothing about your things. When he sees you with other members of the opposite sex, he will also lose control, will be uncontrollably angry, afraid, afraid that you really don't have him in your heart.
03 The request made by the other party, even if it is rejected at the time, will not be able to resist the other party after that.
Tan Jing needed money, but the people around her had no one to help her anymore, no way, she had to find Nie Yusheng, hoping that he could help him again. Hearing such a request, Nie Yusheng directly rejected her, and his attitude was very tough and indifferent.
Such an attitude seemed to be that in Nie Yusheng's heart, he didn't care about Talking About Jing at all. However, it didn't take long for Nie Yuan to be unable to convince himself to remain indifferent, and he quickly prepared money to help Tan Jing.
As long as a man loves a woman deeply, how can he really ignore it? Even if the rejection was very decisive and crisp at that time, it will not be long before the man will regret it, and he will not be able to help the woman and meet the woman's requirements.
What kind of mind men have, women can not only look at men's temporary performance. Maybe he has rejected you, but that is just he is hiding his heart, and when he can't control this love, his deep love for you will also show.
Women should know that men love you deeply, and it is difficult to maintain sanity in front of you all the time. As long as you observe a little more and discover some of his behavior, you can know that he is in front of you, these performances are actually very obvious, do not easily ignore.
Men should also understand that love is encounterable and unattainable, and when they meet the woman they love deeply, they must cherish it well and strive for this happiness.
Remember what Plato said: "Since you love, why don't you say it, some things are lost, and you can never come back!" ”