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The moment the two people choose to come together, they have the idea of going on with each other, even if they know that feelings are changeable and people's hearts are easy to disperse, they are still convinced that they will be the lucky one, and believe that with the feelings of both sides, it is possible to realize the hope of white head to old age.
It's just that with the passage of time, after the two people have been together for a long time, the vows they once made have gradually been consumed by sudden changes. What was once determined, in the end, has slowly turned into unbelief. I used to think that as long as two people love each other, they can resist all difficulties, but later they found that the original feelings are the most vulnerable things, and anything can easily break it.
When two people are in love, they really feel that he is the person they have identified in their lives, but when they are separated, they really feel that they can live well without himself. However, after breaking up, many people use a long time to lengthen their memories and cannot extricate themselves for a long time.
Some people are really strange, when they are in love, they always try to make things difficult for you, and all kinds of behaviors are pushing you away from him, but after you really leave him, you play a deep look.
Probably people are like this, when they have it, they don't know how to cherish it, but after they lose it, they begin to remember his goodness. It's just a pity that there are very few lost and recovered in this world, and few people will wait for you in the same place.
Of course, there is no shortage of two people after the breakup are still thinking about each other, as long as you have not forgotten, you will try everything to know what he thinks of you, the man has these three performances, which means that he is still thinking about you in his heart. If you haven't forgotten him, don't miss it.
Find a way to get in touch with you
In today's networked era, if a person really wants to contact you, there will always be a way, the reason why he does not contact you, not because the phone is broken, or because the work is too busy, or do not want to contact.
Some people have your contact information, but they don't contact you once a year, and some people he would rather go to the circle of friends to like others than reply to your message.
Someone who doesn't like you, even if you stand in front of him, he won't look at you more, and the person who likes you will find a way to get in touch with you even if the two of you have been disconnected for a long time.
A boy has not been able to forget the ex after the breakup, when the first breakup, in order not to see the heart, all her contact information was deleted, but missed to the bone, and began to regret his original impulse.
Inadvertently in the girl's friend's live broadcast room learned a little bit about the whereabouts of the girl, so he repeatedly turned around to find the girl's contact information and got in touch with her.
If a person has a heart, he will grasp any clue at any point, thus extending the news about the person he misses, and is not willing to miss any way that may contact her.
The man who tries everything to get in touch with you, he has always had you in mind. How cruel it was when I deleted you at the beginning, and how much I regretted it when I thought of you countless times later. He also wants to find you, try again, and see if there is any possibility between them.
Keep what's relevant to you
Memories can easily fade with the passage of time, but objects are the most memorable things. No matter how long it has been, the person may have been gone, but the item can always be retained.
When two people are together, there will always be some special romantic memories, some memories that belong to each other will be woven together, and some unforgettable objects will be left behind, as long as you see that thing, you can remember the person who was once.
For example, the photos taken by two people together, or a certain thing made together, or a small object given to them by the other party, these things are related to him, as long as they see it, they can't help but think of him.
Many lovers will do a very ritualistic thing when they break up, that is, throw away everything about him, and generally speaking, such an act means to completely break off relations with him and completely remove the other party from their own world.
And some people are reluctant to throw away things about her, because their hearts have not completely let go.
In "There Is You in This Life", when Tan Jing and Nie Yusheng were together, they made up a red rope for him, and the two people were separated for seven years, and in these 7 years, Nie Yusheng never untied this red rope, even if it has faded, it is still worn as always.
This red rope carries Tan Jing's love for himself, but also carries the sweet memories of two people together, he is unwilling to untie, but also means that he has not let go of the love for Tan Jing in his heart.
The man who still has objects about you after the breakup shows that he is still thinking about you in his heart, thinking of people through things, and when he sees something about you, he will think of you.
Delay in falling in love
Many people's love is like a gust of wind, the wind blows away, and before a relationship is over, they hurry to find a home for themselves, and seamless love is a blasphemy against the old people.
Cai Kangyong said: The sadness after the breakup is the greatest respect for a relationship.
The empty window period after the breakup is a basic ritual that should be done after a relationship, and those who can find a home immediately can only show that he does not love his ex at all, and such a person leaving early is a relief to himself.
Some people are as thin as sand, some are as affectionate as water, some people are not willing to leave a certain amount of time to pay tribute to their predecessors, and some people will spend a long time waiting for each other to turn back.
Everyone who is reluctant to start a new relationship is because there is still an old person living in their hearts. It is said that a person is very good, but in fact, behind the scenes, she has been silently paying attention to the person who cannot be forgotten, and longing for her to be able to turn back.
I always feel that if I fall in love, it means that the two people will never have a chance again, afraid that one day she will come back, but there is no place around her. It is also because he lives in his heart that he can no longer tolerate others, and it is difficult for others to replace his position in his mind no matter how good they are. Since there is no way to empty your heart, it is better to be alone.
If a man does not fall in love after breaking up with you, it is not because he has not met some better people, but because he is still thinking about you in his heart, and he has no way to choose to settle.
Some people come back to you long after the breakup and try to get back together, not because they still love you in their hearts, but because they go around and find that only you are the one who is the best for him, because there is no better way back, they come back to you.
Those who are seamlessly connected in the relationship, it is easy to find someone to replace you, do not believe his so-called can not let go of you such a nonsense.
The person who really can't let go of you, he will definitely have a long window of emptiness, which is a basic respect for your relationship and for you.
Those who have not been in touch for a long time and suddenly come back to you should be careful, generally have a plan, if a person really can't let go of you, he will not not contact for a long time, will definitely try to find you.
Not all the dispersion can be put back to good, if you do not put down the person has the above three performances, it means that he can not put down, it is better to work harder, maybe there will be a good ending.