The TV series "This Life with You" finally ushered in the finale, Sun Zhijun was killed, Nie Dongyuan died of illness, Quan Yucheng also received the punishment he deserved, Tan Jing and Nie Yusheng finally became dependents, many people said that they had not yet watched the addiction.
This TV series is adapted from the original novel "Love You is the Best Time" that I thought, after watching the TV series, I think the adaptation is good, and the plot of the TV series is more in line with human nature and reality.
Many people say that the ending is too hasty, but I think it is just right, because life is like this: many things are unexpected, but they are reasonable.
The 6 truths of life revealed in the play should be seen through early and less entangled.
1, let go, easier than retaliation
Sheng Fangting's desire for his father's love since he was a child was very strong, and the person he most wanted to see every day was Nie Dongyuan, who studied hard and hoped that his excellent results would be recognized by Nie Dongyuan.
Nie Dongyuan disappointed Sheng Fangting and his mother, and finally abandoned their mother and son, and also planted the seeds of hatred in Sheng Fangting's heart.
He got the Yuanyuan Group, but he was not happy in his heart, because his purpose was not money, fame and status.
What he wants is fatherly love.
Nie Yusheng, who also had "hatred" for Nie Dongyuan, chose to let go when he faced hatred.
He thought that his father loved his mother the most, but he did not expect that he had a three-year-old brother, Nie Yusheng, who had lost his mother since childhood, and was disappointed in his father.
He did not choose to take revenge, although he did not understand, but he finally chose to reconcile himself, he loved the brother he had never met, full of kindness, as a sibling.
In the original work, Nie Yusheng donated bone marrow to Sheng Fangting and wrote him a letter telling him: We are both father's children, blood relatives, brothers and sisters... You should be my closest person in this world.
To let go of hatred is to forgive oneself.
Letting go is easier than revenge, hatred makes you lose yourself, it's too late when you see through, and your past self is really ridiculous.
Living in hatred, you will not receive the love of others.
Shu Qin, after all, failed to impress Sheng Fangting.
2, earn more money, will make your life easier
In the play, an 8-year-old boy named Feng Feng was stabbed in the body by 4 steel bars in the factory, and his life and death were at stake and he was in urgent need of surgery. But the conditions at home are not good, and his parents are worried about medical expenses.
After Nie Dongyuan read the report, he decided to bear all the medical expenses of Feng Feng, and he really helped Feng Feng's family.
Wang Yuling wanted Nie Dongyuan to be kind again, let him also fund Pingping's surgery, she knew that Tan Jing was not willing to ask for help from others, Wang Yuling also wanted to help Tan Jing, if it could be done, it would be great.
Nie Dongyuan said: In this hospital, there are still quite a lot of situations.
The meaning of this is that the euphemism refuses, and there are too few people in the hospital who can see a doctor without worrying about money, and he can't save it.
In the original book, there is also an unfortunate child who, because he has no money, can only go home and wait for the known unknown:
It was a very cute little baby, only six months old, who was transferred to their hospital because of a particularly complex congenital heart disease. In order to treat their children, the young parents have sold their country houses and borrowed from relatives and friends, but they still can't pay for the operation. Yesterday, when he finally asked to be discharged from the hospital, the young father held his hand, and the corners of his mouth were straight up: "Dr. Nie, thank you, the baby is not blessed, just let her come to this world in vain." We really can't do anything, we can't cure it, go back and have another one. ”
Fear of getting sick and not being able to cure illness is a portrayal of most families, 200,000 is not a thing for some families, and for many families, borrowing from relatives and friends may not be able to get together.
When complaining, touch your wallet more, have time, and earn more money.
I don't love money very much, but with money, I can give my loved ones a better life, but also increase my ability to resist risks, and when something happens, money can alleviate pain to some extent.
Ninety percent of your concerns can be solved with money, the remaining nine percent can be solved with more money, and the last one percent, we are all the same.
3, life, more important than self-esteem
Tan Jing's image in the hearts of the audience is not pleasing, especially in the first half, her son Pingping is hospitalized in urgent need of surgery expenses, and she can bear not to tell the truth.
Wang Yuling did not know the truth, she also tried to ask Nie Dongyuan for help, even if it failed, she tried. If Wang Yuling knew the truth, according to her personality, she would have asked the Nie family for money a long time ago.
PingPing's illness should have been cured long ago, and Tan Jing delayed Pingping's illness for an uncertain hatred.
In the face of life, self-esteem is really not worth mentioning.
There are many people who never bother others, and the first time he opened his mouth to borrow money, I am afraid that it was because his family was sick.
I see a lot of friends who are seriously ill at home on the Internet, are they willing to show their faces? I think no one wants to, but they still put down their face and self-esteem, and betrayed their most humble and unbearable side, hoping to get a little appreciation from netizens.
I don't think such people are spineless, I praise them for their righteousness, they don't give up, they still choose to take it upon themselves, as long as they can help their families, they don't care about the illusory "self-esteem".
Here I would like to remind friends that maintaining a healthy physique is to earn money and be healthy, that is the most valuable wealth.
4, children, if you can give birth, don't wait
Nie Dongyuan is a famous entrepreneur in the play, or the chairman of a listed company, with assets of billions. He also worked hard when he was young, he chose to abandon his son Sheng Fangting, and the more he got to the end, the more he felt that he was no different from ordinary people.
In the original work, Nie Dongyuan said: Before, I always felt that I was different from others, even if I was old, I would not be like those old fools. Now I know that I am really old, and my ideas are exactly the same as others. It is a great blessing that a person can live to be old, retire, and have nothing to do at home with grandchildren.
Those who have given birth to children themselves, who say that they regret it, and who advise you not to have children, do not listen; those who do not have children say that they are doing well, and persuade you not to have children, and you do not listen.
Regarding the matter of having a child, I think it is still up to you, when you are over that age and can't give birth, it is useless to regret it.
Lin Chiling announced the happy news of the baby on the same day Chinese New Year's Eve, Zhong Liti was repeatedly exposed to be pregnant with 4 children, and Chen Songling and his wife also passively chose Dink.
Some emotions are not satisfied with money, for example, watching the child grow up and making you understand the sentence: I am his father, I don't need him to love me, I just want him to live well.
Sheng Fangting still believes in the ending that the best person in the world for him is his mother, and I think he also thinks that his father is the same, but he is unfortunate.
The most selfless love in the world is that parents love their children, and as a parent, you can more easily understand the love of your parents for you, and in this way, it is passed down from generation to generation.
5, feelings, do not force
Sun Zhijun suddenly suffered a car accident and died, which makes people feel too sorry, he is not a bad person, he is just too obsessed with love, if he can not be so obsessed, maybe he can live well!
He spent 7 years, still did not feel Tan Jing, Tan Jing knew that it was impossible to talk to Nie Yusheng, and still did not stop loving him for a day.
Shu Qin knew in her heart that she had been used by Sheng Fangting, because there were still expectations in her heart, and she chose to marry him and leave him again.
These people are too emotional, if they are more rational, will they live less screwed?
Sun Zhijun is not "sexually incompetent" in the original work, in the TV series, although he "can't", but if he finds a divorced or poorly qualified woman to marry, it is still no problem to live a normal life.
Shu Qin's family has mines, her personal education and ability are good, such an excellent girl, the men chasing her are lined up, she is partial to Sheng Fangting.
Love, can not be forced, if there is a love marriage, I think it is lucky, if the person you love does not love you, I think there is really no need to wait for him to change his mind, too difficult.
Marriage, many people are looking at the character, family, personal comprehensive quality, two people together, in the treatment of relatives, I think a lifetime is also very happy.
Love can not be sought.
6, cherish, the rest of your life
"This Life with You" was once promoted under the name "The Rest of My Life", and I think both names are very good, the former is more in line with the plot, and the latter is more able to reflect the theme.
Man, say no, is gone; a misunderstanding, two people missed; tomorrow and accident, you never know which will come first; the past grudge, should not be carried forever.
Life is impermanent, and sometimes a miss is a lifetime.
Tan Jing and Nie Yusheng missed the best 7 years because of Quan Yucheng, and if they had spoken out, they might have been solved long ago.
Feng Feng went to see his parents during the holidays, and there was an accident.
Nie Dongyuan is worth billions of dollars, and he is inevitably attacked by diseases.
Do you still think your troubles are a thing?
A good friend has a bad relationship with her mother-in-law, and told me yesterday that this time when she went home for the New Year, her mother-in-law had a very good attitude towards her, and she didn't want to mention the past, after all, she was a family, and she would have to live together in the future.
People who can still sit and eat together will not have deep hatred, and the old accounts will let it blow with the wind! The days ahead are the focus of your life.
At last:
In this life, there are very few people who can accompany us to the end.
In this life, there are not enough friends to treat us sincerely, and there are not enough for you to squander at will.
The family, even more accumulated several lifetimes of fate, before cultivating to become a family in this life.
Feelings, can not escape, do not force.
For the rest of your life, cherish, life, yourself, and the people around you!
Author: Muzi
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