The current and the former met like this, and when they saw Sun Zhijun and Nie Yusheng meet, they suddenly remembered this problem.
I think that if such a thing happens in reality, the worst situation is nothing more than a fight, the best situation is nothing more than a smile on the face, nothing more than that.
But things like former and incumbents becoming friends are basically impossible.
In "There Is You in This Life", Nie Yusheng is a full predecessor, but Sun Zhijun cannot be regarded as a complete incumbent (after all, he did not talk to Jing Jieshun), but the two of them became friends who hooked up with each other.
At first, I thought that Tan Jing had married Sun Zhijun in order to give her children a hukou, but later I learned that in fact, the two of them were not married at all.
(Of course, such a plot setting is also more conducive to our acceptance, if Sun Zhijun has married Tan Jing, if Tan Jing still has to get entangled with Nie Yusheng, it will make people feel a little uncomfortable.) ）
If he marries Tan Jing, the two are husband and wife in name, as husbands, "raising sons for others" is not a matter of course, but it is the right thing to pay for the family.
Even Tan Jing's husband is not, but still wholeheartedly for Sun Ping, enough to prove that in Sun Zhijun's heart, Tan Jing is the most important, there is no way to get her response, just take good care of her children, although many people in the barrage are cursing Sun Zhijun, but from this point of view alone, Sun Zhijun is really a good man.
As for Sun Zhijun's hatred for the Nie family, it comes from two aspects: one is because of himself, when Sun Zhijun was injured, he also had a certain relationship with Nie Dongyuan; as for the second, it was because of Tan Jing, over the years, tan Jing suffered so much, Sun Zhijun all looked at it, and naturally hated Nie Yusheng, the initiator.
Screenshot of the TV series "This Life Has You"
Because of this identity, but also because he was really busy, Sun Ping rarely appeared during the period when Sun Ping was hospitalized.
However, if he does not appear, he will already do something big.
When the child was just hospitalized, Sun Zhijun and Nie Yusheng met for the first time, in front of Nie Yusheng, Sun Zhijun can be said to have played his "husband's role" enough, deliberately putting his hand on Tan Jing's shoulder, showing the harmonious relationship between husband and wife, which made Nie Yusheng very unhappy.
Nie Yusheng did not know that after he left, Tan Jing immediately alienated Sun Zhijun, and the two almost quarreled.
The second time they met, because Tan Jing did not consult with him to operate on the child, he beat Tan Jing for the first time, and later beat Nie Yusheng.
It is precisely because of this slap of Tan Jing that Nie Yusheng and Tan Jing had close contact for the first time after seven years of separation, which also indirectly contributed to the breakup of Nie Yusheng and Shu Qin.
In order to operate on the child, Sun Zhijun went to Nie Yusheng to kneel down and apologize, and to our surprise, when Nie Yusheng helped him up, he threatened Nie Yusheng to cure Sun Ping.
That night, Nie Yusheng went out to buy supper and met Sun Zhijun, and found that he owed food stalls for three months, so he took the initiative to help pay in advance.
Nie Yusheng frankly asked Sun Zhijun and Tan Jing for a divorce, and was even willing to take out a sum of money as compensation, how could Sun Zhijun ask for five million yuan, and asked him if he would marry Tan Jing.
Some people say that Sun Zhijun's practice is blackmail, and I do not fully agree with such a statement, no matter what really happened that year, but in my intuition, talking about his father's death and Sun Zhijun's injury, Nie Dongyuan has something to do with it.
It was not so much that he was blackmailing Nie Yusheng, but rather that he was testing Nie Yusheng's sincerity.
But I never thought that these two guys would sit together again and drink and chat, and even help fight together like good friends.
That night, it was still the food stall, and the two of them began to envy each other until they were half drunk.
"I sometimes envy you, you don't have to do anything, you just stay like this, talk about jing every day thinking about the person you are, not me." 」
Hearing Sun Zhijun's words, he suddenly burst into tears.
For a woman who did not love himself, he waited bitterly for seven years, but never entered the heart of the other party.
Tan Jing loves Nie Yusheng very much, so even if she is forced to break up, she still has to leave traces of her and Nie Yusheng's love, "This child is my only relative", and it is also a testimony to her love with Nie Yusheng.
In the past seven years, Tan Jing has been very bitter, but Sun Zhijun has been happy-
It was Tan Jing who made the decision, but it was sun Zhijun, who was also young, who could take care of her. A sentence of "You are assured to live, and I will take care of you for you." After saying these words, the young Sun Zhijun burst into tears. But whenever possible, who wants to love a woman of their own, pregnant with someone else's child?
Although we all know that feelings cannot be forced, and love is not that you have to respond to you when you pay the other party, we have to say that such a non-reciprocal payment is really valuable.
Because of the man's self-esteem, so over the years, he swallowed all the grievances, never mentioned to outsiders, every time he faced the child, he always held up a smile.
At this point in the development of things, he could also see that it was sooner or later that Tan Jing and Nie Yusheng were reunited, and it was better to talk about it earlier, if Nie Yusheng could really treat Tan Jing sincerely, he could also let go.
Although he was reluctant to talk about Jing, he preferred to talk about Jing and live a happy life.
Hearing Sun Zhijun's words, Nie Yusheng disagreed.
"How good your life is, your wife is talking quietly, what a good life, I have not lived a day like this."
It can be seen that Nie Yusheng's words are from the heart, of course, when Nie Yusheng said this, he was only standing in the perspective of love, if he really swapped roles with Sun Zhijun, I really doubt that he could not last for a few days.
What's worse is that Sun Zhijun also stabbed him specifically, "Moreover, I still have a son, you say angry people." ”
"I call him son, he calls me Dad, you call him, does he promise you?"
Seeing Sun Zhijun's anxious white face, he thought of being funny, and he felt painful, he guarded Tan Jing for so many years, in exchange for Tan Jing's sentence "Thank you, brother Jun", it is estimated that only Sun Ping's "Father" is left.
"I am a person who has failed to do things and is also a very failed person, but in this matter, I am the most qualified to scold you." When our family Jing'er gave birth to a child and was bleeding heavily, where was your old husband? After her father died, where were you when the creditors forced her to sell the house..."
Two men who are enemies of each other seem to have some sympathy for each other at this time. After three rounds of drinking, they fought with the next table together and fell into the rain together...
Because of the quiet talk, in the past seven years, both of them have suffered.
At first glance, sun Zhijun and Nie Yusheng both endured the pain of "asking for it but not being able to do it". No one has to envy anyone. No one needs to despise anyone. But in fact, Sun Zhijun suffered far more bitterly than Nie Yusheng.
Although Nie Yusheng lost Tan Jing, in Tan Jing's heart, he always kept his place, but Sun Zhijun, there was nothing, everything was just his self-touch.
Because he knew the truth of that year, that night, Nie Yusheng went to find Tan Jing and stayed at Tan Jing for one night, as for Sun Zhijun, he did not go home as always.
Some people say that all this was done voluntarily by Sun Zhijun, and he could not blame others at all.
Perhaps, in Sun Zhijun's heart, all this is what he is willing to do, but Tan Jing has been enjoying everything that Sun Zhijun has given, but only left a sentence of "Thank you, brother Jun", which ended all this, how to look at it feels a little awkward.
I admit that the events of that year made Tan Jing become love incompetent, but when she faced Nie Yusheng again, she changed back to her and responded to his tenderness.
That night, Nie Yusheng slept very peacefully, because Tan Jing had always been with him, but where was Sun Zhijun at this time? Is it in the shed of the construction site, or is it walking around alone in the snow, imagining the picture of the woman she loves the most, snuggling with her sweetheart, or...
But one thing is for sure, this night, Sun Zhijun was sleepless.
Thinking of this, I couldn't help but sigh, Nie Yusheng envied Sun Zhijun for staying with Tan Jing all these years, but Sun Zhijun envied Nie Yusheng for living in Tan Jing's heart all these years.
Perhaps, this is the truth in the relationship, we all long to meet such a person, hand in hand for a lifetime, but many times, the person we meet later, the heart has always left a corner for others.
Fortunately, most of us are not talking about quiet, even if we still can't forget in our hearts, we can still separate the past and the present, and in a responsible attitude towards each other, we have re-accepted the new life, even if we don't love, we won't hurt.
(Originality is not easy, if there is a reprint, please indicate the source.) ）