In the drama "There Is You in This Life", the most ironic scene is that Sun Zhijun kneels down to Nie Yusheng.
After Tan Jing and Nie Yusheng broke up, they were pregnant with the child in their stomachs and "married" Sun Zhijun.
The child is named Sun Ping with Sun Zhijun, tan jing hopes that his son is safe and secure, and this child has all the hopes of Tan Jing for the second half of life.
Such a "family of three", in the eyes of outsiders, is full of "violation of harmony".
Tan Jing is gentle and elegant, intellectually generous; while Sun Zhijun is drunk and loves to fight, he is a scoundrel who knows that his child has congenital heart disease and makes his family a miasma.
Tan Jing and Sun Zhijun's quarrel, even the neighbors can hear clearly, Tan Jing's friends are not accustomed to Sun Zhijun's "bad behavior", not only prevent Sun Zhijun from seeing the child, but also repeatedly persuade Tan Jing to divorce.
Tan Jing said: "What you see is only the appearance, he is actually very good to me, he was not like this before." ”
Everyone else thinks that Sun Zhijun is not worthy of Tan Jing, but they don't know that Tan Jing did not marry Sun Zhijun at all, and that Sun Zhijun and Tan Jing's "marriage" was nominal, and he was the one who sacrificed the most.
Tan Jing left Nie Yusheng that year because of the grudge of the previous generation. Talking about the death of Jing's father, Nie Yusheng's father Nie Dongyuan could not get rid of it, which was the pain of her life.
Nie Dongyuan's project went wrong, and more than a dozen workers died on the construction site, including Tan Jing's father, Sun Zhijun also injured his "lower body" in this accident and lost his "sexual" ability.
Nie Dongyuan's light fluttering sentence of "work injury" has turned over this page, Nie Dongyuan's career has hardly been affected, and the lives of Tan Jing and Sun Zhijun have been completely changed.
Tan Jing's father not only lost his life, but also shouldered the responsibility of the accident, the workers' families sought out Tan Jing's claim, Tan Jing is only 20 years old, and she is pregnant, she simply can not cope with such a scene.
Nie Dongyuan gave Tan Jing 5 million yuan and persuaded her to leave Nie Yusheng.
This money is not a breakup fee, but a sealing fee.
Tan Jing needs to use money to clean up the aftermath, 5 million is not enough, Tan Jing had no choice, but also sold the house, he stood up with a big belly and was homeless.
It was Sun Zhijun who accompanied Tan Jing, protected her safety, and gave her a home.
Sun Zhijun said: "When the child is there, we will be born, and I will give you a pocket." ”
Sun Zhijun did exactly what he said.
With Sun Zhijun's "pocket bottom", Tan Jing did not suffer from strange eyes because she was pregnant before marriage, the birth of the child was famous and part, the child's surname was Sun, and Sun Zhijun was called Daddy.
Tan Jing was bleeding heavily during childbirth, and it was Sun Zhijun who gave her a blood transfusion; the child was born with an illness, and it was Sun Zhijun who spent all his savings and paid for the hospitalization of Tan Jing's mother and son.
Sun Ping, born in a sound and complete family, was raised to be well-behaved and sensible, and could not do without Sun Zhijun's efforts.
But Sun Zhijun is good to Tan Jing, Tan Jing has no other ideas about him, relying on each other for 7 years, Tan Jing is only grateful to Sun Zhijun.
Sun Zhijun loves to talk quietly, but he does not have the ability to love.
On the one hand, the damage to his body was a hidden pain in his heart; on the other hand, he knew that there was still Nie Yusheng in Tan Jing's heart.
Sun Zhijun never spends the night at Tanjing's house, but he often goes to visit his children; when Sun Zhijun and Tanjing quarrel, they will teach Sun Ping to cover his ears and prevent him from seeing the heartache and helplessness in the adult world too soon.
Sun Zhijun raised Sun Ping as his own son.
He took Sun Ping to find a folk remedy and drink garlic brown sugar water, which was extremely ignorant, but he really wanted to cure the child's illness.
Knowing that Tan Jing had signed a project agreement to reduce medical expenses in the hospital, Sun Zhijun ran to the hospital, and a fierce dispute broke out with Tan Jing.
Because of that new project, it was put into the clinic, and the risk was very high, Sun Zhijun said: "My son, you can't give them as experimental products." ”
Sun Zhijun loved his son and slapped Tan Jing for this, which was also the first time he had a rough conversation with Jing Jing.
Tan Jing's mouth was bleeding, Sun Zhijun realized that he was too out of control, and regretted it; Nie Yusheng just happened to be Sun Ping's attending doctor, he stood out for Tan Jing, and beat Sun Zhijun with his hands, the scene was chaotic, and Sun Zhijun was detained in the police station.
Tan Jing begged Nie Yusheng to forgive Sun Zhijun, because Sun Zhijun had "entered the palace many times" and if he did not get the forgiveness of the parties, he would be sentenced heavily.
Tan Jing went to Sun Zhijun again and asked him to apologize to Nie Yusheng, and Sun Zhijun apologized to Nie Yusheng "humbly" as Tan Jing said, and did not hesitate to put down his self-esteem and kneel down to Nie Yusheng.
Seeing this scene, at first he felt very incomprehensible, with Sun Zhijun's "rogue" personality, seeing Tan Jing and Nie Yusheng "ambiguous", he should say a few dirty words disgusting two people in line with his personality.
Only by carefully tasting Sun Zhijun and Tan Jing's "feelings" did he understand that Sun Zhijun knelt down to his "love enemy" Nie Yusheng, which originally had another deep meaning.
Sun Zhijun was once a "good man", in order to solve the problems of his co-workers, he went from place to place and worked hard; in order to take care of Tan Jing's mother and son, he also paid a piece of sincerity and assumed the responsibility of being Sun Ping's father.
But what did Tan Jing do to him?
Sun Zhijun looked for a home remedy for the treatment of the "lower body", Tan Jing said"How do you toss me, but you can't take the child to Hu", Tan Jing, only his son in his heart, never cared about Sun Zhijun's feelings.
Sun Zhijun thought that if he was kind to Tan Jing, he would be able to get tan jing in return, even if tan jing would not fall in love with him, he should be at ease to live with him, the two people can rely on each other, and there is a person who knows cold and knows hot around.
Talking about Jing's indifference and alienation, like a basin of cold water, poured out Sun Zhijun's expectations.
Sun Zhijun is a "good man", but he is not a "saint", he has his own "flaws", but also his "careful machine".
Sun Zhijun knelt down to Nie Yusheng and punched Tan Jing in the face, and Sun Zhijun used this extreme way to imply tan Jing: Nie's family is high, we can't climb high, you don't have to obsess about dreaming of compounding with Nie Yusheng.
In Sun Zhijun's heart, he and Tan Jing are two people with the same disease.
Sun Zhijun "cut off his son and grandson" because of Nie Dongyuan, tan jing lost his close relatives because of Nie Dongyuan, and Nie Dongyuan, including Nie Dongyuan's son Nie Yusheng, should be his common enemy and Tan Jing.
In order to defend his rights, Sun Zhijun looked for Nie Dongyuan for 7 years, but Nie Dongyuan was always perfunctory, and many times, Sun Zhijun could not even see Nie Dongyuan's face.
Nie Dongyuan is the "Nie Zong" in a high position, and his Sun Zhijun, including his brothers and his co-workers, are all ants who are not sorry to die.
This kind of class gap is a gap that Sun Zhijun cannot cross even if he is desperate.
Nie Dongyuan was "unkind to the rich," but Sun Zhijun had no way out to sue and was cornered; Sun Zhijun hated Nie Dongyuan, and he was looking for crooked ways behind his back and wanted to overturn the case again; on the surface, he still had to treat Nie Dongyuan and Yan Yuexi, who looked like a dog.
Sun Zhijun thought that Tan Jing and him were like-minded, after all, when Tan Jing dumped Nie Yusheng, he was also resolute and ruthless.
Sun Zhijun said that to make some connections, you need to use money, but Tan Jing advised him to "don't think about the past things, continue to move forward", Sun Zhijun felt that he had been betrayed, he always reminded Tan Jing, "Your father is watching you in heaven."
The shame that the Nie family brought to Sun Zhijun and Tan Jing was not just that lowly "one kneel"?
Unexpectedly, Tan Jing not only did not go with him to find Nie Dongyuan to settle accounts, but instead had contact with Nie Yusheng, Nie Yusheng became Sun Ping's attending doctor, tan Jing's mother and son may withdraw from him at any time, and instead reunite with Nie Yusheng's family of three.
Sun Zhijun was afraid, afraid of losing Tan Jing, and also afraid of losing Sun Ping, in order to prevent Tan Jing from being kind and soft-hearted, and forgiving Nie Yusheng, Sun Zhijun used his own kneeling to remind Tan Jing and Nie Yusheng that they were not people of the same class, and he Sun Zhijun was the friend who had been with her for many years at the bottom.
Sun Zhijun stood up, attached it to Nie Yusheng's ear, and coldly said to him, "If you can't cure my son, I'll kill you." ”
Sun Zhijun's kneeling is his love for Tan Jing; his "threat" is his love for his son.
As a father, whoever does something to hurt the child, he can not spare lightly, he used violence to swear "sovereignty" over the child, even if Nie Dongyuan later did a paternity test, confirming that Sun Ping is the flesh and bones of the Nie family, Sun Zhijun did not spare, insisting that "he is my son."
The child is in the hospital and misses his father, but Tan Jing and her friends are worried that Sun Zhijun will make trouble when he comes, so the father and son will not see each other for a long time.
Nie Yusheng, on the other hand, can appear in the child's hospital room at any time, get close to him, and cultivate feelings.
Sun Zhijun, who was excluded from the country, was the most pitiful person.
Tan Jing persuaded him to say, "I will not change the name of the child, he will always be called Sun Ping", a stone in Sun Zhijun's heart only landed, and the heavy fatherly love that Sun Zhijun paid was also irreplaceable by Nie Yusheng, the biological father.
In the most difficult six or seven years of Talking about Jing's mother and son, it was Sun Zhijun who gave them a complete home, Sun Zhijun said, "I raised him for 6 years", but Nie Dongyuan laughed at him", "What have you raised, you fake father", Sun Zhijun was ashamed and angry, and once again used violence to vent his dissatisfaction.
In Nie Dongyuan's eyes, the child has a disease but has not received timely treatment, even the operation can not be done, Sun Zhijun, the nominal father, did not fulfill his responsibilities, he is not worthy of Sun Ping as a father.
In fact, in order to operate on Sun Ping, Sun Zhijun sold the gold chain around his neck, which was his last decency in the lower society.
Nie Dongyuan did not understand the suffering of the world, and did not know how much effort Sun Zhijun had made and how much price he had paid in order to be a good father.
Sun Zhijun and Tan Jing pretended to be husband and wife for 7 years, but they never got her understanding and support, she would be good to him, clean up the mess for him, help him clean up drunk, but this "good" is with politeness and alienation.
Tan Jing said that she had never married Sun Zhijun, that her son was her only relative, and that she could not find anyone to talk to her, so she did not hesitate to seek help from her boss, Sheng Fangting.
Sun Zhijun regarded Tan Jing as a family member who shared weal and woe, and Tan Jing never remembered Sun Zhijun at a critical moment.
Sun Zhijun gave Sun Ping a father for 6 years, but he had no ability and no money, and he could not keep Sun Ping.
At the end of the original work of "There Is You in This Life", Sun Zhijun let go, Tan Jing gained freedom, Sun Ping changed to Nie Ping, Tan Jing and Nie Yusheng gave birth to a second child, named Nie An'an, Ping Ping'an, and both children and daughters.
Nie Ping integrated into the Nie family, and Nie Yusheng had the nature of father and son in his bones, while Sun Zhijun was always an outsider, Tan Jing did not love him, and Nie Ping would forget him.
Only by understanding Sun Zhijun's kneeling to Nie Yusheng did we know that the "little man" Sun Zhijun was a real tragic figure.