In the past two days, the urban love drama "With You in This Life" starring Zhong Hanliang and Li Xiaoran is being broadcast.
It is said to be love, but this drama is different from the past, telling the love of a pair of middle-aged people.
In the play, a pair of resentful dolls played by Zhong Hanliang and Li Xiaoran have touched the hearts of countless people.
Many people are deeply fascinated by this drama because of the acting skills of the two leading actors.
But to be honest, I think that if it were not for Li Xiaoran's acting skills, the heroine Tan Jing would probably not be liked by many people. And many people in the play think that it is not worthy to talk about Jing, and sun Zhijun who is dragging down and talking about Jing, I feel that he lives the most real and forgets himself the most, such a Sun Zhijun, in fact, is not worthy of talking about Jing.
First, the most difficult time in life was when Sun Zhijun accepted her
In the original novel, Tan Jing and Sun Zhijun are married, and Sun Zhijun is also an alcoholic, and domestic violence talks about Jing.
However, after the TV series was adapted, Sun Zhijun and Tan Jing were not actually married. The reason why they are together is only because when Tan Jing went to college, she was pregnant with Nie Yusheng's child, and because of the hatred between the two families, Tan Jing chose to break up with Nie Yusheng.
At that time, Tan Jing, who had a big belly, was still a girl's family, and if he didn't get married, the days to come could be imagined.
Fortunately, Sun Zhijun is willing to take care of her and the child, and is willing to take care of her for a lifetime.
So the two lived together.
But in fact, the two were married for seven years, with neither sex nor love. Because Sun Zhijun was injured in a previous accident, he lost his sexual ability.
And he also knew that there was only Nie Yusheng in Tan Jing's heart.
It can be said that in the first half of this marriage, Sun Zhijun has always been the party who gives wholeheartedly. He spent all his energy, feelings and money on TanJing's mother and son, and there was no complaint.
Second, Nie Yusheng appeared, and Sun Zhijun became an embarrassing existence
At the beginning of the TV series, it was a chance reunion between the male and female protagonists. Since then, the thoughts in the hearts of the two people have been hooked, and they can't see others in their eyes.
In fact, when Sun Zhijun knew that Tan Jing had reunited with Nie Yusheng, there was panic in his eyes, because he was afraid that Tan Jing would leave him.
At that moment, I suddenly felt that Sun Zhijun was particularly pitiful. He paid so much for the sake of Talking About Jing's mother and son, and almost gave everything he could give in the past seven years, but still, he was worthless in the heroine's heart.
Especially later, seeing tan jing taking Sun Zhijun to apologize to Nie Yusheng and beg him to save Pingping, he suddenly felt that Tan Jing was very selfish.
The child's life is threatened, the child's biological father is in front of her, and she is also an expert in the heart, she does not communicate with the child's father normally, the two work together to find a way to save the child, but to toss this has nothing to do with Pingping, and has paid so much for Pingping.
No wonder some netizens said in the comment area that the heroine should go to hang up the psychiatric department. The child's life is threatened, do not want to try to communicate, solve the problem, first cure the child's illness, but for the obsession in their own hearts, in such an urgent situation, do not let the child's father know the truth, face it together, solve the problem together, not what the brain is, what is selfishness.
The most speechless thing is that a man who should not be responsible for her and for Ping ping, to kneel down to save the child's biological father, what is this brain circuit.
Well, seeing this, it is even more worthless for Sun Zhijun.
Third, why Sun Zhijun has become what he is now
In the few years when Sun Zhijun and Tan Jing were together, they were full of hope in their hearts and had a smile on their faces.
But now you see what Sun Zhijun has become: decadent, obscene, unfocused, inferior and sensitive, irritable and irritable, and, like to drink, there is no home.
It is undeniable that Sun Zhijun has become like this, which has a lot to do with himself and his physical condition. But I think that the reason why Sun Zhijun has become like this should also have a lot to do with Tan Jing.
Although the two are not married, they have been living together.
In the days together, Sun Zhijun may be more and more unsightly in the future, but what did Tan Jing give Sun Zhijun?
Tan Jing can't give Sun Zhijun anything, at most he may make him a meal and wash his clothes. Other than that, the two of them didn't feel like home at all. To tell the truth, if love had warmed Sun Zhijun, he should not have become what he is now.
Unfortunately not. But this point can not blame others, Sun Zhijun knew this at the beginning, but he still chose to take care of Tan Jing's mother and son, can only say that he is self-inflicted, deserve it.
Don't love him, please let him go
We all know that Tan Jing has never loved Sun Zhijun from beginning to end, not at all.
If it started out because an unmarried girl was pregnant and needed someone to take care of her, it was understandable.
But Sun Zhijun had taken care of their mother and son for so many years. She has not been able to fall in love with others, why not let go early and let the family live her own life? Is it really that hard to reject someone you don't love?
Well, I haven't pushed people away, and now the male protagonist has appeared, and then pushed people away, isn't this selfish?
Looking at the plot preview, the ending behind Sun Zhijun is likely to be a tragedy. Well, I don't know if the heroine will have a hint of guilt when the time comes? Or continue to live your life with the male protagonist refreshed, without any psychological obstacles?
The more I saw the end, the more I felt that if Sun Zhijun hadn't met Tan Jing, how good it would have been, then his life might have been a different story.