In this life, the most rare thing is to meet a person who loves and loves himself, and lives happily for a lifetime.
But the imagination is beautiful, life will always give you unexpected tests, even if it is two people in love, the end may not be able to get the wish.
Some people can eventually enter the palace of marriage happily, and some people become passers-by in each other's lives.
The loss of a loved one is bound to be painful. As long as you have really paid, it is not so easy to put down.
The deeper the love, the more inseparable from the love, the days that have passed together will always come into your mind like a movie, even if you wipe it hard, you can't refuse the memories of the past after all.
Loved deeply, want to forget, how easy is it? When you really can't put down a person, there will be these kinds of performances, and you can't hide them.
01 Can't help but pay attention to him/her
There is a verse that says: It is quite difficult to give up, and it is not easy to bear it.
It's really not easy to let go of someone. Nie Yusheng and Tan Jing in "There Are You in This Life" broke up 7 years ago, but Nie Shengyu has not been able to walk out of this relationship.
He reunites with Tan Jing, learns that she works at a cake shop, deliberately appears in front of her, buys a cake suitable for "girlfriend" under the introduction of the clerk, and writes the word "dear" on the card to attract Tan Jing's attention.
However, Tan Jing told him that she was married and had children, and Nie Yusheng happened to be the child's attending doctor.
When they broke up 7 years ago, Tan Jing said that what he loved was only the Nie family's money, and he didn't need him after taking 5 million yuan, Nie Yusheng was very hurt for this, even so, he still couldn't get out of this relationship.
Whether it was Tan Jing's child or herself, he tried to ignore it, and even tried to fall in love with his long-time friend Shu Qin, but once something happened to Tan Jing, he still ran to her side for the first time.
Although Nie Yusheng always had an expressionless face to Tan Jing, she fainted, she had no money, she was sick and had a fever... Not once did he not care.
He told Shu Qin that "every time he said it was the last time, he would never pay attention to her again", but he laughed at himself and "always committed a slutty time and time again".
How deeply you love, how nostalgic you are. Because of Tan Jing, Nie Yusheng has not interacted with any woman in the past 7 years, and even he has almost no friends around him.
He had always been known for being calm and sober, but since Tan Jing reappeared in his life, his world was chaotic again.
02 Deliberately not mentioning him/her
After Nie Yusheng and Tan Jing broke up, they never took the initiative to mention her again, and the people around him also agreed that no one would easily talk about her.
Not because he wanted to break with her completely, but because her name was untouchable, and every time he mentioned it, he was hurt again, and every time he mentioned it, he couldn't calm down.
Even his best friend Shu Qin never told "her" who she really was, as if that person had always lived in the imagination.
It's just that when Tan Jing appears in front of him, he will suddenly become no longer normal. Every time she looked for him, he fell into pain for a long time.
Although he said that he was "despicable", in fact he never regretted that he had done so.
Some people's breakups are to block and delete, completely erasing the other party from their own memories.
Some people, because of the breakup, have deeply imprinted the whole of the other party in their hearts.
Because I don't want to forget, although I know that it may hurt, I don't want to forget, I don't want to let go of the past.
When the other person's name and things do not appear in their daily lives, pretend that nothing has happened, only in the middle of the night when they are tossing and turning, the memory is like a knife stabbed at themselves.
Even so, he refused to start a new life.
03 Do not easily accept new feelings
Zhang Ailing said that there are so many people in this world, but they can't accompany you home.
Obviously, so many people are better and better than the people in memory, but you just identify that one.
Really can't let go of a person, even if there are more reasons to prevaricate, in the end can not escape a "love" word.
Because he loved him, he refused to open his heart, refused to let other people in, and preferred to torture himself.
Love looks good, but what really creates regret and cruelty is still love.
Not all love can be firmly grasped in the hands. There are always some people who disperse as they walk.
But being separated does not mean that you no longer love. Unforgettable love, who can say let go of it.
Often when persuading others, they will say, can take it, put it down.
But in fact, when it really happens to you, you know how hard it is.
There is a saying in Gone with the Wind that you are a person to the world, but to someone, you are his whole world.
Yes, deeply paid, has taken the other party as their own whole world, how can it be easily forgotten?
Nie Yusheng once tried to fall in love with Shu Qin for his father, but when the two people really wanted to start, he was more painful than ever.
Because the more you do things between lovers, the more you will let yourself fall into endless memories.
So in the end, it was doomed that he and ShuQin still couldn't start, even if Shuqin was a very good woman, he couldn't do it.
When you haven't experienced love, life is carefree.
But after love, you know how painful it is to lose, those seemingly casual words, a trivial action... It may all be a deep sting.
I once thought that when I broke up, I forgot about it, and only then did I know that when I told others, it didn't matter, it happened to myself, but I couldn't figure it out anyway.
I used to think that after the breakup, I might hate the last one, but when I heard the news of the other party again, even if I was hurt, even if I traveled thousands of miles, even if I was tired, I still wanted to see him.
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