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01. Preface
Love is a very delicate thing, elusive, but it is really present in our lives. We have joy and sorrow because of love.
It is like a good medicine that can cure many of our worries.
However, sometimes it is not a good medicine, because we will also become anxious and helpless for love itself.
Li Bai wrote in the poem: "Acquaintances know what day they know, and at this time this night is embarrassing. ”
Liking someone is involuntarily, and you want to become better and better, in the hope that you can become a pearl shining in the eyes of others.
Women, when they genuinely miss a person, will "hint" to men.
If the man is emotionally retarded, or if the expression is not obvious enough, the woman will be tempted to suggest to the other party, hoping to determine each other's feelings by contacting each other, or dating.
02, verbally, "hint" that the man asks her out
When you love deeply, you can't help but miss the person you love.
Lu Man and Lin Qing in the TV series "Good Life", from the beginning of mutual dislike, to the later gradual feelings of affection, is the process of love blossoming.
From time to time, Lu Man would go to Lin Qing for help in the name of work. For each other's invitations, from the beginning of tit-for-tat, to the happy appointment, the feelings of the two people in the relationship slowly warmed up, but also gradually see their own intentions.
Like a person, the mind is filled with the figure of the other party, always involuntarily think of the other party's words and deeds, sound and smile.
When you see him, you can't help but rejoice, and you can't help but want to have more contact with him. Even if it is just an ordinary greeting from the other party, it is worth being happy for several days.
When a woman misses someone madly, she will take the initiative to "hint" to the man to ask her to meet.
A day without seeing is like three autumns apart, and acacia is an incurable pain in the world. Only those who love each other can instantly dispel all their worries at the moment of seeing each other.
The deeper the love, the deeper the woman's thoughts, she will take the initiative to "date" him verbally. I hope that we can meet each other and solve the pain of lovesickness.
03, behaviorally, "hint" that men chase her
Women like a man, both afraid that the man is too active, but also worried that the man is too wooden to understand their own intentions.
In fact, when a woman loves deeply, she will also become active.
As long as a woman has the opportunity and has a suitable topic, she can cut in and convey to the other party that she is single and has a certain good feeling for the other party.
As long as a woman delivers such a message to a man, no matter in what way, she is giving the man a chance, giving him a hint.
Suggest that the other party can boldly pursue themselves, and also hope that the other party can know their own intentions.
Women give this man hints and opportunities again and again, hoping that their intentions can be discovered early, hoping not to miss the fate in life.
Perhaps the woman is the one who moves first, but she still hopes to give the initiative of love to the man, and the man will take the posture of pursuit.
When a woman frantically misses a person, she will take the initiative to "hint" to the man chasing her, so that the relationship can develop further.
04, physically, "hint" that the man is approaching her
There are boundaries in how people get along, especially between men and women. If you don't feel for each other, you won't get too close to people and gossip, and speculate about the relationship between each other.
Therefore, when a woman takes the initiative to approach you and always surrounds you, she is mostly moved by you. Because I like it, I want to get your attention, and I hope you can see her special and the light in her eyes.
Jo Ford said: "Love is the tyrant of the heart; it makes the intellect unclear and the judgment unclear; it does not heed advice, and runs straight in the direction of madness." ”
When a woman, genuinely in love with you, will "hint" that a man is approaching her and let her take the initiative to chase her. Having some physical contact with the man suggests that the man can reach out to her further.
It may be inadvertent physical contact, but it is not unintentional, but I want to see how you feel and react to this inadvertent touch.
For a person who does not like it, or who is mediocre, women do not deliberately create physical contact between each other, and even have a certain degree of resistance.
But getting closer to the person she likes, she is excited in her heart, and she is not willing to show too obvious. There is joy in her heart, and I look forward to men being able to read her heart.
05. Summary
Women obsessively think of your signals and will become fond of active "hinting".
Balzac said: "Love breathes life into the sad eyes, and makes the pale face rosy with roses." ”
Most women are subtle and euphemistic, often panicked in the face of the men they like, or do not know how to open their mouths, may obviously want to have a date with each other, but they are hindered by various obstacles, dare not express.
But when a woman really misses a person, the accumulation and fermentation of thoughts will be difficult to restrain, that is, she wants to see him. So she will "hint" to men in some ways, hoping that men can understand their intentions.
No matter what kind of way women express themselves, the purpose is to hope that they can get your attention and can make the distance between each other go further.
If the man always has no response for a long time, there is no response, she will feel lost, feel that this feeling will sink into the sea, and gradually lose confidence.
So men should also be a little more positive and don't let her wait too long when confronted with hints from women they like.
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Author: Xia Mo MO, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.