Jo Ford said, "Love is the tyrant of the heart; it makes man intellectually unclear and ill-judged; it does not heed advice and runs straight in the direction of infatuation." ”
When we fall in love with someone, it feels like a lot of things are no longer something we can control ourselves. Especially in front of people we like, or when we encounter something about the other person, we can't keep thinking rationally and will only stubbornly run in the direction we want.
Women will also behave very reserved and shy in the face of love because of the limitations of their personality. But for men, many times it is impossible to maintain this reticence. As long as it is to meet someone they like, men will take the initiative to approach and hint at women in their own way.
For example, before a man wants to pursue a woman, he will often use some obvious ways to show favor. He would invite women to dinner, he would invite women to the movies; even if there was nothing special, he would find some opportunity to get close to women.
When chatting, men will also take the initiative to find some topics that women are interested in. Even if it is difficult to find for a while, men have their own way of getting along with women.
The opposite sex gets along, if it is only a general relationship, chat is also some very ordinary topics, for some of their own secrets, generally will not be easy to say. However, in front of the beloved woman, men will hope that women know themselves better and can also close the relationship with each other through some things.
As a result, men often take the initiative to share their secrets with women. Although such behavior also has some risks, men also hope that in this way, women can see his mind and receive his signals.
Women should know that if men take the initiative to share these secrets with you, they are actually giving you ambiguous signals, and women don't understand.
01 Share with you his income, as well as his financial situation.
Everyone's situation is different, the living background is different, which also leads to different incomes for everyone, and the specific economic situation will be different. Between the best friends, we can easily understand each other's situation, but between friends of the opposite sex, we generally do not know too much about the situation, at most only know the situation of the other party.
For men, income belongs to their secrets, and it is also a very personal thing that will not be easily shared with outsiders. And in our lives, we often do not inquire about the economic situation of others, otherwise it will make people feel that you have no purpose.
If a man is in love with a woman, he will naturally consider many things, and if he can come together in the future, he will naturally tell each other a lot of things. If men want to continue to develop these relationships, they will naturally take the initiative to share their secrets with women, tell women about their financial situation, and even their income will clearly tell women.
When the opposite sex gets along, if a man takes the initiative to share his financial situation with you, the woman should not think that the man is just bored, in fact, he is sending you ambiguous signals and wants to develop with you.
02 When I talk to you, I often tell you about things in his house.
An Yiru once said in "If Life Is Only like the First Sight": "Words are in the right place to meet the right person, looking up at the shock, the heart blossoms in an instant, just like a woman under the peach tree, she does not expect to meet anything, but in the lifting of the hand bumped into love." ”
In the face of love, I don't know when we started, we become less like ourselves, and when we encounter things, we no longer only consider our own feelings. When you have some thoughts in your heart, you no longer bury them in your heart, and you also want to share them with your loved ones.
Everyone has a lot of things in their home, these things are good and bad, but in front of outsiders, we generally don't say it easily. Maybe they don't want others to know about the situation at home, or maybe they don't feel the need to tell anyone.
But with someone we like in our hearts, we will feel as if we are not so lonely, and we have some warm times in our hearts. When we talk to people we like, we often can't help but tell each other about the situation in our home. Maybe it's to test the other person's attitude, or maybe it's to get the other person's trust.
In short, women should know that when a man takes the initiative to tell you about his family affairs, it means that his feelings for you are not ordinary. Getting along with you in this way is actually sending you ambiguous signals.
03 Share with you some of the things he did with his good friends.
In life, each of us will have some very good friends around us, whether it is a same-sex friend or a friend of the opposite sex, even if the relationship is very good, there will actually be a sort in our hearts.
Generally speaking, we don't share some things between us and our best friend with someone who is in a normal relationship, and we don't share some secrets of our best friend. But in front of our best friend, we tend to talk about that ordinary friend.
Shakespeare said: "Love is not a sweet word in the shade of a flower, not a secret word in the peach blossom source, not a light tear, nor a hard compulsion, love is based on common ground." ”
When we meet someone we like, we will naturally find some topics to bring each other closer. Sometimes I also talk about the people around me, and if the relationship between you is average, the things you talk about are often only very simple things.
If a man is not kind to you, he will often talk about things between him and his best friend when chatting. A man's behavior is nothing more than to make you more aware of his life and the people around him. At the same time, it is also giving you ambiguous signals that his feelings for you are not ordinary.