The wicked grind from the wicked?
Want to laugh when you see her crying?
Today's happiness, He Yihong finally became a nanny for Qi Mu!
Although the reputation and achievements of "Ode to Joy 4" are "paste" to the end, many viewers are "in love" with He Yihong, this character is recognized as the most infuriating, brainless and infuriating character in the third season.
By the fourth season, she was still strange.
Still blocking roommates every day, still having a clear brain circuit, still loving morality and kidnapping others, still only saying "I didn't expect it" after an accident, and the audience lamented that she had an "idiotic" beauty.
What's more frightening is that on this basis, He Yihong has another love brain wisdom buff.
The object has already had two failed marriages, and the initial target was Zhu Zhe's Qi Mu.
This character is a typical "tricky" scumbag, who is middle-aged, but turns into a marriage maniac, comes up to look for old colleagues as objects or introduce objects for him, and wants to enter the third marriage.
The overly eager marriage attitude and ideological concept made Zhu Zhe defensive, and she avoided this pit in time, but she did not expect that Qi Mu was very familiar with her life circle, and turned her head and stared at the little white rabbit He Yihong.
Why is Qi Mu so anxious to get married?
The reason is simple and disgusting, Qi Mu does not want a wife who connects with friendship and walks into a good life together, but a nanny-style wife who can take care of his seriously ill mother.
The criteria for choosing a mate are almost the same as when Yu Chuhui's mother did not awaken.
He Yihong, who lacks social experience and tendons, has become the object of Qi Mu's "adjustment", and under his influence, He Yihong not only fell in love with his head, but also made his world live and narrower, making the audience angry.
But although most of the audience dislikes Qi Mu of CPU He Yihong, they are also more angry with He Yihong, in this regard, the two extreme labels in He Yihong's character have harvested a lot of hate values for her.
On the one hand, she is the ultimate example of the noble and virgin.
In his actions, he often adheres to rigid dogmatism, ignores human nature and complex environmental factors, blindly demands others with fixed moral principles, and prides himself on being noble, but in the eyes of others, he is old-fashioned and virgin.
Talking dogma out of touch with reality not only affects others, but also sets oneself on fire.
Yu Chuhui's mother was kidnapped by her employer with emotions as a nanny, and Yu Chuxue's performance in the marriage fraud incident is a typical representative, flaunting "justice and kindness", but smashing the victim's pot everywhere.
and other problems happen, and do not have the courage to take responsibility, keen to sacrifice the universal move "I don't want to" + baby crying, which is a common move for young children to treat their parents, obviously, only useful for those who care about her.
For a long time, the people around her were frustrated with her, but she cheered for her "arrogant and resolute" attitude to life, and from the perspective of the audience, she was more terrifying than the silly white sweet Qiu Yingying in the first and second seasons.
On the other hand, she has extreme selfishness and coolness.
It's hard to believe that the noble and selfish, the Virgin and the cool, can appear in the same person at the same time, she will stand out because she sympathizes with a stranger she has just met, and angers her roommate because of someone else's family problems.
At the same time, all responsibility can be shifted to others.
Behind every "I didn't expect it", there is no sincere apology, and even, she also uses means for her parents who have always loved her, pretending to be sick to deceive her parents here, and "eloping" for love despite her parents' fall.
When Mother He looked at her daughter's back, she didn't know if she would think of the "arrogance and determination" that her daughter hung on her lips, she could drink enough for her lover, but she couldn't tolerate even a little persuasion from her parents.
"Stupidity, Our Lady, selfishness, coolness", these have become synonymous with Ho Yihong.
Generally speaking, children with extreme personalities have a high probability of a strange family of origin behind them, but this is not the case with Ho Yihong, her parents have stable jobs, culture, gentle temperament, and love and care for their daughter.
What caused Ho Yihong's extremes?
Although the responsibility lies more with He Yihong herself, we can also find a little clue from her parents, in terms of "unclear carrying" and "lonely self-appreciation", she and her cultural parents have quite a trace of inheritance.
He Mu constantly emphasizes that the two of them do not pursue material desires, the family atmosphere is simple, and there is no way to create a "worldly" growth environment for their daughter.
This is also reflected in their relationship with the other four beauty.
They will praise Zhu Zhe's handling ability as a manager and recognize Yu Chuhui's social experience, but at the same time, they will feel uncomfortable because they are "calculating" with their original family and are incompatible with the "world".
However, after working in public institutions for decades, they have to understand the world's feelings and social dangers better than young people, and they know very well how much help the other four beauties can provide to their daughters.
So, when they needed help from others, they would use their elder status to coerce the two young people into agreeing to continue to share a house with their daughter, and even try to start with a contract, hoping to find negotiating terms that would benefit them.
But when they don't need the help of others, they subconsciously ignore them.
He Mu and Zhu and Yu agreed to improve the rent but did not transfer it is a reflection of the fact that she and her husband had actually decided to leave their daughter to live in their hometown, but hung Zhu and Yu to save themselves trouble.
When her daughter wanted to continue to live in Shanghai, He's mother began to play the emotional card, which is so similar to He Yihong's "I didn't expect it", they are indeed not subjective intentional, but they all subconsciously choose self-interest.
Did He Yihong's character subtly inherit his parents' "unworldly" and "exquisite self-interest"? This is a question worth thinking about, as the strengths of parents are magnified in their children, as well as their weaknesses.
In the treatment of He Yihong being treated by the scumbag CPU, the way He family's parents handled it was also disrespectful.
Ho's fault is obvious, but when she already knew that her daughter had offended her roommate and the two sides could no longer coexist peacefully, she still insisted that they share a flat together, undoubtedly pushing her daughter to the extreme.
Ode to Joy is a good living environment, but it may not be for Ho Yihong at this time.
She radically thinks that the other four beauties are "dirty", "hypocritical", "scheming", and "teasing her", and also radically makes others feel uncomfortable, and forcibly blending will only be counterproductive.
There is diversity in species, and so do people.
For Ho Yihong, who has become polarized, changing to a new living environment is obviously more conducive to her awareness of her problems, but He's parents are also paranoid that it is best for her to stay in Ode to Joy.
This involves another concept of the He family's parents, daily doting, and only when there is a problem will they begin to deal with it extremely.
Before the conflict completely erupts, no matter how much they oppose Ho's decision, they will eventually show it in a supportive way, such as realizing that Ho is CPU, but still paying for her to live in Shanghai.
For another example, was reminded by Zhu Zhe that Qi Mu was deliberately guiding He Yihong to be isolated, but it was not until the latter became pregnant that he really came forward to interfere with the relationship between the two, and came up to start from the substance that his daughter hated the most, and arched the fire in reverse.
They are parents who love their daughters very much, and no one doubts this, but these parents are really similar to He Yihong in terms of words and deeds and conflict handling, always subconsciously asking others for help first, and then helping themselves.
However, whether it is He Yihong or He family's parents, they all have problems, but they are not big problems.
Objectively speaking, the problems of the He family can only belong to the limitations of concepts and thinking, there are no people born perfect in this world, no one is born knowing how to be perfect parents, everyone is doing and learning.
Under normal circumstances, He Yihong can slowly correct himself in life.
Society is a big school, each of us gradually fullened experience and solid concept of life, are in the stumbling to grow up, will pay for their mistakes, but also have the opportunity to become a better self.
This point has actually begun to unfold in He Yihong, and after experiencing many storms, she began to have signs of self-reflection, and each time she was willing to listen to the summary of others to reflect on her own problems.
In view of the fact that He Yihong's social university starting point is too low, she does not absorb quickly, but she is also quietly changing, if she insists on this road of self-correction, she may not be able to become a "clear but transparent" He Yihong.
However, He Yihong's natural growth path was destroyed by Qi Mu, who had bad intentions.
The He family's exquisite self-interest will not subjectively harm others, keep an appropriate distance, everyone is very beautiful, but Qi Mu is bent on stepping on the blood and sweat of others to achieve his own goals, sacrifice others, and "perfect" himself.
He wanted to be a filial son, but he was suffering from the daily routine of taking care of his sick mother, so he hit his wife with the idea, and he was not willing to give up his career to be a nanny for his mother, but asked her to fulfill his "filial piety" obligation.
After discovering that the two ex-wives did not buy it, Qi Mu began to look for a fool who was easy to be brainwashed, and guided the other party to cut off his interpersonal relationships and career path at the first time, so that he could be a "nanny" with peace of mind.
Simply put, he wants to find a wife who is easy to control.
When he found out that Zhu Zhe was a career-oriented woman, Qi Mu took the lead in retreating, because in the two ex-wives, he already knew that career-minded and intelligent wives could not be at his mercy.
And He Yihong, who has little experience and a virgin's personality, is a good target to start.
The CPU master in the emotion is not what he is best at is not how strong the brainwashing ability is, but looking for the "target" that is appealing to him, a manipulative object whose personality is easy for him to take advantage of.
I believe that the public has also heard this in daily life or social news.
In the early days of a large number of emotional PUA cases appeared online, the targets chosen by the perpetrators were often victims of the original family with problems and the desire to be warm, and what they longed for since childhood became a bargaining chip for the other party to hurt themselves.
He Yihong, who has a happy family of origin but does not understand the world, is another form of goal.
Even if we no longer like He Yihong's character, we have to admit that in this purposeful relationship, she is a victim, and what should really be despised is to use emotions to control others to serve Qi Mu for herself.
I hope that every He Yihong can complete his transformation from the social university as soon as possible, and I also hope that every Qi Mu can hide nowhere, and the shortcomings of others are not the reason to be hurt by him.