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Some people say that growth is the process of gradually adjusting to the silent mode, the initial noise and liveliness, to the later tranquility and far-reaching, from the beginning of encountering a little problem can not help but tell the world, to slowly learn to be silent.
Growth is always speechless, and we all unconsciously understand some truths in life. Seen, seen, experienced. Only slowly understand.
I used to enjoy the noise of life, it was difficult to bear the slightest silence, and when life became quiet, I would feel that the whole person was at a loss. Later, I slowly got used to quietness, saw through the people in life, enjoyed being alone, and was able to accept all the gains and losses in life.
We will find that in life, the more people who like to show off and make noise in the crowd, in fact, they are often very empty inside, useless, and look as if they are very strong, but in fact, once they encounter something, they will be completely timid. On the contrary, those who are quiet, they are not loud and ostentatious, but they can digest many hardships in life with a wordless force.
Children will encounter things at the first time to make a big fuss, the adult world has become very quiet, even if the heart has been dry and the sea has been overturned, but on the surface can still be light and light.
In fact, observing life, the more those who are really powerful, they have already adjusted their lives to silent mode.
Powerful people have long since quit their emotions
In the adult world, having stable emotions is a very important thing.
Those who put emotions on their faces and cry when they encounter a little thing, it is difficult to achieve big results, and they are always easy to affect small emotions. When a person is completely controlled by emotions, then the ability to deal with things will become low, and dealing with emotions first and then dealing with things is a necessary quality for every adult.
We have to be the masters of emotions, not to be led by emotions. In life, everyone is carrying a heavy load forward, there will always be times of setbacks, but some people can not be swayed by emotions, fully invested in what they want to do, and some people can completely control them, it is difficult to calm down and do things.
When you're younger, anything can affect you. A loss of love will be painful, and a setback will seriously dampen their enthusiasm. All the joys and sorrows are completely hung on the face, and others can see it at a glance. At that time, it could be called a small thing, but the further back you go, whoever can control the emotions will have the capital to win.
In fact, no matter who it is, there are some difficult problems that once felt difficult to cross, but when you really experienced it, you will find that it was just a piece of cake.
Those who are strong, they have long since quit their emotions, and they are always calm and self-assured, but it is not them. Life is a smooth road, but because they can control themselves, do not easily expose their emotions, no matter how big things they encounter, they can act as if nothing has happened and do what they should do.
Talk less, do more, act silently
Talk less and do more. Instead of wasting time on the speed of words, it is better to silently sink your heart to do your own thing.
We will find that more and more people in life have quit the circle of friends, and in the past, a little wind and grass will be the first time in the circle of friends to announce to everyone. Later, there was silence in the circle of friends, and few people in the circle of friends posted their own life activities.
There is a saying that in the days of not sending a circle of friends, they are all living seriously.
In fact, you really don't have that many audiences, and no one will pay attention to you all the time. Instead of eyeballs in the circle of friends, it is better to seriously manage your own life.
There are always some people who like to live in the eyes of others, and a little achievement will be the first time to show off to others, and if there is a little plan in mind that has not yet been implemented, it will not be able to help but announce it. But in fact, many times it is just thinking about it, and it does not really take action.
The gap between people is opened in this way, those who just say and do not do, life has been stagnant, and those who are powerful, they often do not say not to show off, but full of action, have already been silently spread behind the scenes, only to wait until the time is ripe, with achievements to speak.
You don't have to be loud everywhere, even if you have achieved results, don't show off, and it is the most important thing to live your life seriously.
Quiet, self-improvement
We all have a common hope for life, which is to make ourselves better and better and live a better life.
Some things are easy to say, but hard to do. Not everyone can survive on the path to a better self.
Anything beautiful needs to be hammered, there is no pie in the sky, there is no casual success.
In the beginning, each of us started from the same point, but as the timeline lengthened, the distance between people became larger and larger.
Pay is always more painful, some people covet a moment of comfort and pleasure, people become more and more lazy, unwilling to pay, every day to work to stay up time, home from work is to brush the video to see the mobile phone, what kind of attitude you use to treat life, life will give back to you what kind of ending. A person who only knows how to covet pleasure will not have great achievements.
There are many temptations in life, and whoever can resist the temptation can have a broader life.
Those who are strong, their concentration will be very strong, will not be easily disturbed by some fast food entertainment, but can go in a firm direction, silently cultivate, quietly focus on their own professional field, constantly improve themselves, enrich their own connotation, improve their professional ability, their lives will sometimes be very boring, but as long as they can survive loneliness, they can get the results you want.
"Jing" is very rare, in this impetuous society, people's hearts are becoming more and more impetuous, it is difficult to calm down and concentrate on doing things.
All kinds of entertainment fill people's lives, and some people are easily affected, indulging in the pleasures in front of them again and again, and finally becoming more and more depraved.
Those who are powerful are often very disciplined, able to block out the noise of the outside world and devote themselves to their careers. They have strong emotional self-control and will not be easily affected by emotions. They never show off, silently cultivating, waiting for the flowers to bloom.