Zheng Er in the TV series "Lanling King" is a very good-looking girl, Yang Xuewu was shocked when she first called her, thinking how can there be such a good-looking person in this world.
Later, Zheng Er became the mother of a country, but she was a demon concubine in other people's world, and she was a red face and a disaster.
She would order the other party to be killed because the maid had accidentally soiled her clothes.
Such a person is beautiful, but it makes people think that she is ugly, because her heart is evil and takes people's lives, even if she looks good, it will not make people convinced because of her appearance.
We always feel that born in this era of looking at faces, as long as there is a beautiful face, you can enjoy preferential treatment, but the appearance is instantaneous, it can stay forever, and it is a person's real beauty.
It turns out that a woman is not beautiful, never related to looks, but related to these.
Whether a woman is beautiful or not has to do with whether she has thoughts or not
The summer and winter spring in the TV series "The Biography of Zhen Huan" is a thousand gold of the family, her family is prominent, she can enter the palace to select women, naturally there is no difference in the outside.
However, when the emperor saw her, there was only impatience in his eyes, thinking that how could there be such a rouge powder in this world?
Without him, only because summer, winter, and spring have their own appearances, but they are just a vase that is not worth using.
She behaved recklessly and foolishly, not knowing what to say and what not to say in the palace, and when she saw someone stronger than herself, she stuttered; when she saw someone inferior to herself, she insulted her.
Such a woman is extremely scarce in thought, how can people think she is good-looking?
Thoughts will make a person's soul sparkle, and thoughtful women will also give people a feeling of spring breeze in a long time together, which will make people want to go deeper.
Writer Zhang Yanxia once said in the book "Women Have confidence to be calm": "Freedom, calmness, calmness, and elegance all come from independence, and independence allows you not to rely on others and not to fear the future." ”
Therefore, for women, independent thinking is the confidence that you will never be able to use in this world.
Whether a woman is beautiful or not has something to do with whether she has an inner life
Beautiful looks and interesting soul, which of these two is more important?
Beautiful looks will make a person decide whether to get to know her interesting soul or not;
And the funny soul will make a person decide whether to veto her appearance or not.
There is no shortage of good-looking people in this world, but not all people are good-looking.
So, does these people mean accepting fate's arrangement, compromising and giving in?
Of course not, the outside can not raise the score, we can improve our own internal score line.
We can exercise our ability to control our emotions;
We can develop our ability to express our needs;
We can cultivate our ability to deal with problems independently, etc., which can add bricks and tiles to our inner spiritual world and enrich our own intrinsic value.
Writer Feng Tang said: "Dare to be yourself, dare to express yourself, dare to please yourself, in order to stand in their own position in this chaotic world, live their own pattern." ”
You have to please yourself, you have to improve yourself, you have to force yourself to move step by step towards a better self.
At this time, our value becomes irreplaceable, and under the support of a strong spiritual world, we will become confident, and a confident woman is the most beautiful.
Whether a woman is beautiful or not has to do with whether she has temperament or not
On the stage of "Readers", we got to know Dong Qing, who has a poetic and bookish atmosphere in his belly, a Dong Qing who is full of economics and exports, and a Dong Qing who raises his hands and throws his hands and feet into all kinds of styles.
To be fair, If Dong Qing's appearance is placed in the entertainment circle where beautiful women are like clouds, it is not the most beautiful one.
But if compared to temperament, Dong Qing is not inferior to anyone.
As long as Dong Qing stands there, even if he does not open his mouth, it can be a pleasing painting.
The substance of beauty does not seem to be scarce, after all, there is no shortage of good-looking people in this world, but if you praise a woman's temperament, it is the highest evaluation of her.
Huiqing Lanxin, people are as light as chrysanthemums, when a woman masters the elegance engraved in her bones, and the temperament that emanates from the inside out.
Even if her appearance is not overwhelming, her temperament will gild her whole person.
However, in real life, there are not too many women who can have such a temperament.
Romain Rolland said: "Many people have 'died' by the age of thirty, because after this age, people are just a shadow of themselves, and the rest of their lives are spent imitating themselves." ”
Life is endless, we choose ease in the present, which means that we will face mediocrity in the future, how can a mediocre person make others shine? Therefore, we must also cultivate our own temperament and let ourselves benefit the blue heart.