I have seen such a sentence on the Internet:
"When you're young, falling in love with nothing is too much.
When you mature, it is understandable to give up anything. ”
If you think about it, it makes a lot of sense.
When you are young, liking a person's facial features is more important than three views.
After experiencing more and becoming mature, the more I feel that liking a person's three views is more important than the five senses.
If the three views of two people are too different, even if they have a good feeling for each other, they will stop here.
Because everyone knows that the feelings of the three views are not compatible, even if they are liked, they are useless, and it is difficult to go to the end.
If the object of your choice has the following performances, even if you like it, you must learn to let go and don't touch it.
Just talk about love, don't make love
In "Jimmy Comics", there is a sentence that reads like this:
"Those who love you with sweet words, don't love first;
Whoever loves you by what he has done, you love again. ”
Indeed, the 'I love you' that comes out of the mouth is so cheap.
The person who truly loves you will definitely prove it to you with practical actions.
Maybe he is not good at words, and he will not say the love words you like to hear to coax you;
But in life, you can feel his real dedication to you.
There is such a picture in "Chongqing Forest", which impressed me deeply:
After Jin Chengwu waited for Lin Qingxia to get drunk and go to sleep,
In the bathroom with her own tie, gently wiped her high heels. ”
People who want to seduce you will try their best to satisfy their desires.
He'll say 'I love you' to you and he'll say a lot of love words to you that you like to hear.
But he loves you and doesn't do anything.
And the person who really loves you can't control the heart that wants to give for you.
Whether you need it or not, he can't help but want to be nice to you.
Therefore, girls must learn to distinguish in their feelings;
The person who only talks about love, but does not make love, no matter how much he likes it, don't touch it.
Be sure to be with someone who is willing to pay for you down-to-earth.
His future is without you
Zhang Xiaoxian said:
"True love is not a heartbeat, but a fixed heart;
Heartbeat is not the whole of love, good feelings are reassuring and determined. ”
Seriously.
If a man, he really loves you, then, he must want to marry you.
Even if his current economic conditions are not very good, he will work hard for your future.
He will plan you into his future and will work hard to give you a home.
It's important to give you a happy home, but he doesn't ignore you because of it.
He will carefully balance the two things of work and love for you.
With him, you will have a kind of peace and solidity in your heart.
You can see your future clearly, you can see the hope for the future.
There will also be people in reality who say they love you, but never plan you into their future.
In his future, there are parents and himself, but there is no you.
A man like this, no matter how much I love you, is just talking.
He doesn't have you in his heart at all, so he won't have you in his future.
If you meet such a man, it is better to forget it early.
Don't use your youth to grow up with a person who doesn't have you in his heart, in the end, he loses his youth and hurts himself.
Ambiguous with others
"In the 30 seconds I made a wish, you were worried that she was scared because of the power outage;
I still hope to spend my birthday with me every year in the future. ”
This story, I think everyone has an impression.
The landlord and the boyfriend have been in love for many years, and the emotional stability is about to talk about marriage.
However, he accidentally discovered the chat history of his boyfriend and his sister.
It was found that the original seemingly stable feelings had invisibly created a rift.
They are no longer "we" between them, and there are others in the middle.
At the end of the story, the girl disregarded the persuasion of the people around her and decisively ended the relationship.
Although I have some regrets, I am very much in favor of the girl's approach.
Feelings are selfish, and there is no room for the slightest betrayal.
Moreover, the essence of ambiguity is actually wavering.
People who really love you, how willing to hurt you.
Even if the opposite sex takes the initiative to approach him and take the initiative to send him warmth, he will unswervingly refuse because he loves you.
But if you accept it, it shows that he doesn't love you deeply enough.
People like this who treat feelings half-heartedly and can't be loyal, why stay?
Waiting for him to really betray you and hurt you in the future?
Chen Xue wrote in "Love Lesson":
"I may not know what love is, but I know what love is not.
Love is not a demand, it is not a deception, it is not a betrayal. ”
Therefore, when choosing a lover, girls must polish their eyes.
Don't be fooled by the boy's appearance of you.
May you meet someone who loves you with all your heart and will accompany you for the rest of your life.