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Although money is not omnipotent, but there is no money can not be, especially the elderly's earning power declines, can have a pension or pension, in order to ensure the quality of life in the old age. In terms of the standard of living in today's modern society, if an old man has a pension of 8,000 yuan, her life should be worry-free, but the 62-year-old Aunt Jin said that she can't even have 200 yuan left every month. What's going on here? Let's take a look at the story of Aunt Kim.
Aunt Kim, 62 years old
I used to be a department head in a large company and had a pension of 8,000 yuan a month after retirement. Although my wife is no longer there, I have long had the awareness of saving money for the elderly, so when I retired, I already had 600,000 savings as a pension, plus a pension of 8,000 yuan per month, I think my old age can live a carefree life, and there will be a high quality of life.
In the first few years of retirement, I had a very dashing life, buying whatever I wanted and eating whatever I wanted. Every New Year's Festival, I will not be sad to bring gifts to relatives and friends, and it is also very refreshing to send red envelopes. When you are in the mood, you also ask three or five friends to go out on a trip, stay in the best hotel, and eat the best food. At that time, I never treated myself badly on money, and I thought that the money I earned was to be enjoyed.
All this changed from the time my son got married, and when my son got married, he asked me to help him buy a house and a car and pay for the bride price. My son works as a director in a design company and earns more than 10,000 yuan a month, and I thought he had already saved a lot of money to buy his own house and a car and live a moist life. Unexpectedly, he turned out to be a moonlight clan, and when he wanted to get married, he asked me for money.
Buying a house, buying a car, and the dowry money are all big money, I thought that I had hundreds of thousands of dollars is a lot of money, but in the face of these requirements of my son, I feel that my money is really a drop in the bucket. After all, my son is my own son, and his marriage is also a big deal, I can't sit idly by, my son will hate me. I took out all my 600,000 yuan to pay my son a down payment to buy a house and a car, and also gave me the bride price money. My son got married smoothly and I finally breathed a sigh of relief.
As everyone knows, my suffering has only just begun. At this time, I learned that my son's income was so high, but it was a moonlight family, it turned out that the daughter-in-law spent a lot of money, and when she fell in love with her son before, her son's money was spent on buying her expensive clothes and bags and cosmetics. After getting married, my daughter-in-law didn't work well, and she changed seven or eight jobs in just two years, and she couldn't make any money at all, and all the family expenses were paid by my son.
Daughter-in-law likes to toss, she is not good at work, even if it is not good, but also with friends to open a clothing store. This year's business is risky, and the result can be imagined, and the daughter-in-law has lost more than 200,000 yuan. The son's money also has to repay the mortgage and car loan to support the family, and he can't come up with the money to help the daughter-in-law pay off the debt. My son begged for my head, and although I was reluctant, I couldn't watch the two of them quarrel and divorce, so I could only take out my pension to help my daughter-in-law pay off her debts.
After helping my daughter-in-law pay off my debts every month, I only had 1,000 yuan left to live, even if I saved myself to eat and spend, I didn't even have 200 yuan left every month. My relatives around me advised my daughter-in-law to leave her affairs alone, and I have paid so much for them, and I have done my best. That being said, the son only listens to the daughter-in-law, if I don't help the daughter-in-law, the son will be deadlocked with me, I am such a son, I can't make a mother-son discord with him. I was really helpless.
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Even if the old man has more savings and a high pension, if there are old children, how much money is not enough for them to nibble. Children are the heart of their parents, if they encounter difficult things, no matter if they really can't bear it, but the old man must also think more for himself, do not take out his old roots for his children, otherwise in the future, when he is sick or encounters difficulties, it is really called every day should not be called, called the earth is not spirited. The old man must learn to let go of his children, and let them face the troubles themselves. Only in this way can they learn to take responsibility and learn to grow.
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