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When watching "Little Joy", many viewers saw that Father Fang and Mother Fang had been deceived into losing all their money, and they couldn't help but cry with headaches, acting pitiful and disgusted.
Poor them to lose their pensions at an early age, and they also put the money of many relatives and friends into it; they are disgusted that they are obviously old and live a "lying down" life, so why bother with those liars?
In real life, we see many retired elderly people, not enjoying their old age at home, but going out to fight like young people. The problem is that their physical strength is not as good as before, so it will cause some health problems, and eventually make the already shaky home shake more urgently.
If it is a good son and daughter-in-law, it is better to say, such as Fang Yuan and Tong Wenjie. Especially the latter, after learning about the situation of her in-laws and mother-in-law, she directly calculated the family property and decided to help them tide over this difficulty.
You know, because of Lei'er's matter before, her mother-in-law didn't like Tong Wenjie, and even felt that she was too wide. Lei'er's father does not want to see Lei'er anymore, that is also his son, what is her aunt's horizontal insertion?
Most importantly, Fang Yifan is in the sprint stage of the college entrance examination, and Lei Er's arrival will delay his study. For this reason, the mother-in-law always looked down on Tong Wenjie, but fortunately, they were far away, and they did not often meet each other, plus Lin Lei'er was a bully, and Fang Yifan might be able to gain something from following him, so the Fang family did not stage a mother-in-law war.
Knowing what his parents did, Fang Yuan, who was a son, complained a little, and Tong Wenjie, as a daughter-in-law, did not say anything, directly calculating how to help her in-laws to make up for the holes.
I have to say that Tong Wenjie is a good daughter-in-law. The problem is that not every old man is so blessed. Some old people, daughters-in-law in general, general health, obviously do not have a gap in the family to eat, but also unwilling to go outside to earn money. Why?
Doesn't he know he's old? Didn't he know that his mission had been accomplished? Didn't he know that doing so might reduce his quality of life in his later years?
As the saying goes, sixty ears are smooth, live to this age, even if it is not very intelligent old people, it is estimated that they know the above truths. So why did they choose to do it?
There are three reasons for this.
1. He likes
Some people like to "lie down" in old age, such as Qiao Zuwang in "Children of the Qiao Family", when his mission is not yet completed, he wants to do this, so he throws the burden of supporting the family to his wife, and after the wife dies, he throws it to the eldest son.
Some people like to race against time. For him, the old is only the body, and his mind is always young.
For example, Ms. Le Daiyun, a professor in the Department of Chinese at Peking University. She once said: "Independence is still very good, we must have our own ideas, do not rely on others to live." ”
That's what she said and that's what she did. All her life she aims to spread Chinese culture and hope that the world can see China's "good", so she has worked tirelessly to this end.
During this time, many difficulties were encountered, but she never flinched. As she staggered toward her desk with her gray hair, she was asked to stop, on the grounds that the voice of China was already audible to everyone and that what she had wanted to do had been fulfilled.
The old professor shook his head and said it wasn't enough.
In Professor Le Daiyun's dictionary, there is no word "retirement" at all, so she has always stuck to her post. She said that the responsibility of intellectuals is to pass on and carry forward Chinese culture so that some foreign cultures can be absorbed.
How dare such a person look down?
2. Fight for your children
There is a saying that no matter how old you are, you are a child in front of your parents. Yes, even if you have exceeded the height of your parents, even if you have become a parent who stands tall in the sky, even if you have enough strength to live well, parents feel that you are still a child, a child who needs his good care.
Therefore, even if they are full of white hair, even if their steps are staggered, even if they do not have much strength, they are still willing to go outside to fight to alleviate the pressure of their children's lives.
Everyone knows that resting is comfortable, but they are resting comfortably. Those meager pensions can only support their own lives, not help the children.
They've raised their children as adults, they've bought a house and a car for their children, but they don't think it's enough, so they go out of the room and do what they can.
"Whoever says anything will be rewarded with three Chunhui." The kindness of children to their parents will never be repaid.
3. No awareness of saving money
"If you want to make money, you first have to learn how to spend it. Because you only know where to spend, you can know where to make money" These one-sided consumerist ideas were once regarded as treasures by many young people, feeling that they had touched the door of wealth.
This is not the case. Earning money is the sum of various abilities, and it also needs to maintain a high degree of concentration, only in this way can we find business opportunities and thus have the possibility of becoming rich.
Just spending money is of little use to becoming rich. So we will find that those who win the jackpot are most likely difficult to retain their wealth.
The problem is that not all young people can understand this. Many people have no sense of saving money when they are young, and always want to spend all the money in their hands to prove that they are a temperamental person.
When I was old, I found that I was poor and had no savings. At this time, the children have entered the most difficult middle age, and they are not willing to open their mouths to ask for money from the children, so they choose to go out to work.
Naturally, they also know that part-time work is more difficult, but those pensions are really not enough to spend, so after struggling, they entered the team of part-time workers. When the body can't support it, think about the child, and you have the strength to persevere.
Don't underestimate the elderly who are retired but still trying to make money. They choose to work again for different reasons, but they do it much better than the young people who choose to nibble on the old at home.
In the future, with the increase of life pressure, with the extension of life expectancy, more and more people may join the elderly working team, in this regard, I want to say that there is nothing wrong with working hard to earn money, but also pay attention to the body, after all, now can not be compared with the young age. If you hurt your body because of your work, it is really not worth the loss.
And women should also understand the difficulty of their parents and give their parents a better life as much as possible. "You raise me small, I raise you old", I hope that every parent and child can get along harmoniously and live happily.
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