Some people say: "When a person reaches middle age, it is a Journey to the West." Goku's pressure, the figure of the Eight Precepts, Lao Sha's hairstyle, tang monk's chatter, are still getting closer and closer to the Western Heavens. ”
When we are young, we always think that life is long and the future can be expected.
Only in middle age did I find that life is a moment, and in the blink of an eye is half a life.
Looking back on the past, we have worked hard for half a lifetime for life and family, busy with the elderly and children, but only forgetting to be busy with ourselves.
Halfway through life, the rest of your life is precious, please don't blindly pay for others.
Learn to set aside some time for yourself, live well, and enrich yourself.
There is a cloud in the "Left Biography": "The people's livelihood is diligent, and the diligence is not poor." ”
Diligence is the source of happiness; hard work is the attitude of life.
The road to wealth depends on oneself to step out step by step.
Zhao Cuiling is an ordinary rural woman from Majiazi Village, Guandi Town.
They are a family of four, mainly growing miscellaneous grains, the family income is low, the life is tight, and they do not even have the money to buy a decent school bag for their children.
Zhao Cuiling does not believe that life will always be so poor, she firmly believes that as long as you use your brain diligently and be willing to endure hardships, your life will definitely be better.
After careful consideration, Zhao Cuiling decided to start with the breeding project, and she used her own courtyard to buy 8 sheep.
From that day on, she had kept the sheep as treasures.
Every morning, she gets up at less than 5 o'clock, feeds, and cleans the sheepfold, and is very busy.
In order to improve her sheep breeding skills, she actively participates in various trainings and teaches herself breeding techniques through books and networks.
Through hard work, she not only learned skills such as delivering sheep, seeing a doctor, and giving injections, but even opened a new door to managing sales.
Today, her family's sheep breeding scale is getting bigger and bigger, with more than 180 lambs produced every year, and the family's income has increased by more than ten times, and the family's life is getting more and more prosperous.
Zhao Cuiling said confidently: "When the spring of next year begins, I plan to build a sheep barn in the yard and expand the scale of breeding." Earn more money and let your child read well. ”
Zhao Cuiling's diligence has brought her the confidence of life.
Franklin said:
I've never seen an early-riser, hard-working, cautious, honest man complain about bad luck.
As long as a person is diligent and hardworking, he can accumulate wealth and live a happy and worry-free life.
Diligence is a magical key that opens the door to happiness.
The greatest happiness in life is to create the life of your dreams through hard work.
not. Bacon said in The Collected Essays: "A healthy body is the living room of the soul, and a sick body is a prison for the soul." ”
A healthy body is the foundation of the world, and only those who manage their bodies can better manage life.
On the Internet, I have seen an experience shared by netizen Feng.
After graduating from University, Feng worked in a foreign company, however, the normalization of overtime made him feel pressured.
So, every day when he came home from work, he would nestle on the couch, stay up late to watch dramas and games on the Internet, and even if he had dinner with friends on the weekend, he would sit motionless.
Because of the long-term work and rest, irregular diet, coupled with sedentary inactivity, Maple's weight has risen sharply.
Immediately afterward, problems such as insomnia and forgetfulness came pouring in, making him look a little sick.
Until one day, he looked through the records of his classmates and saw his energetic self when he had just graduated from college; he looked at himself in the mirror now, and he was simply like two people.
From that moment on, he made up his mind to change himself.
He made a detailed exercise plan for himself, running, strength training, core muscle exercises, stretching exercises, etc., and arranged a fixed time to complete them in an orderly manner every day.
At first, he found it difficult to run 800 meters. After a while, he began to breathe, but he gritted his teeth and persevered, and after a while, he was pleasantly surprised to find that he could slowly run 5 kilometers.
After insisting on it for half a year, Feng not only successfully lost more than 10 pounds in weight, but also gradually disappeared the problem of insomnia, and the whole person looked radiant.
There is a saying in the West: "The best doctor of mankind is air, sunlight and movement, which treats not only the body, but also the heart." ”
Exercise is not a panacea, but it can take away the haze of mood.
Exercise is not a tip, but it can lead to a healthy life.
When people reach middle age, a good body is better than thousands of tonics.
People who exercise and those who do not exercise will live a very different life.
Dong Qing said: "Any time spent on reading will be rewarded at a certain moment. Although life is simple, we are rich in our hearts; even if we are deep in the mud, we can still look up at the stars. ”
At the low point of life, calm down and read books, draw strength from books, and the world of books is the safest refuge.
Yu Xiuhua, a middle-aged woman with no background, no talent, and no ordinary.
She was born in the countryside, suffered from cerebral palsy from an early age, her body twitched, her speech was slurred, and in the eyes of the people around her, she was a veritable "fool".
It can be said that in her hand, she holds a deck of life cards that can be called the worst.
Yu Xiuhua, 19 years old, under the arrangement of her parents, entered the marriage.
20 years of married life has brought her not happiness, but endless torture and pain.
Faced with a difficult life, Yu Xiuhua chose to immerse herself in books, she read a lot of books on history, philosophy, literature and other aspects, and slowly opened her horizons.
She plucked up the courage and began to try to write poetry, and with a high school education, she wrote more than two thousand poems in succession.
She has also published popular poems such as "The Shaky Human World" and "The Moonlight Falls on the Left Hand".
Today, she has become the best-selling poet in Chinese poetry collections after Haizi.
Through writing, Yu Xiuhua integrates the bitter taste of life into each poem, so that the original days of suffering blossom into lucky flowers and realize the perfect counterattack of life.
Rudaki once said, "Knowledge is the shield against all calamities." ”
The beginning of life cannot be chosen, but the end of life can be changed through knowledge.
When people reach middle age, they take books as friends.
When we read quietly, we can live a more elegant and abundant self.
Feng Zikai said: "When the heart is small, all the small things are big; when the heart is big, all the big things are small, look down on the vicissitudes of the world, and the heart is safe and sound."
As a person, only by relaxing your heart and embracing all kinds of rivers, will the road of life be smoother and smoother.
In "Little Joy", Tong Wenjie, played by Haiqing, is a typical woman with a "big heart".
Her husband, Fang Yuan, has worked in the company for many years, but he is still an ordinary employee.
Fang Yuan's fa Xiao Ji won, not long ago, he was just promoted to become the mayor of the district.
After Fang Yuan heard about it, he sighed and said, "Creation and transformation of people, when I was reading, Ji Shengli was not as good as me." Now it's good, he's all the district chief, and I'm still a small clerk. ”
Tong Wenjie listened and said disapprovingly: "Don't compare yourself with people blindly, look for trouble." I think it's good that you're like this now. You see, how well you take care of our family. ”
Not long after, Fang Yuan's company laid off people, and he was not spared.
Tong Wenjie comforted him and said, "It's all right, cutting you is a loss to your company." You are so good, there will be more opportunities in the future. ”
Fang Yuan listened and was moved.
Later, Fang Yuan never found a more suitable job, so he simply felt at ease in the home owner.
He buys vegetables every day, cooks, takes care of the elderly and children, helps Tong Wenjie reduce a lot of pressure, and also becomes her strong backing.
Tong Wenjie's "indisputable" not only successfully resolved the crisis of the family, but also harvested the unexpected surprise of life feedback.
Liu Yong once said: "Ordinary heart is also a constant peace of mind, so that your heart is always kept in a calm state, in order to cope with all changes with no change." ”
Many times, a person's unhappiness often comes from unnecessary comparison; the disharmony of a family often comes from blind comparison.
In life, whether it is frustrated or proud, we can only live our own small lives safely if we maintain a normal heart.
Jia Pingwa said:
After middle age, the best way to live is six words: want to open, look open, let go.
Don't embarrass yourself anymore, live for just a few decades, and keep the best mood.
Do not envy the glory of others, do not sigh the world is cold, with a normal mentality, manage the best life.
Middle age is a watershed in the first half and second half of life.
Live for others in the first half, live yourself in the second half.
Love your family, love life, and love yourself.
Hard work, worry-free life; insist on exercise, maintain health; increase knowledge, heart is abundant; peace of mind, peace of mind, peace and happiness.
May for the rest of our lives, we can all have love in our hearts, light in our eyes, and get better and better on the road to getting older.
The author | Tang Tang, life is trivial, writing is the outlet.
The anchor | Appreciate the new qing, video number: appreciate the new qing reading, public number: listen to the sound of the sun.
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