Self-proclaimed slut, slapped a hundred times, 46-year-old Yu Xiuhua can't get rid of a 14-year-old soft rice man?

Recently, poet Yu Xiuhua released "heavy news", she and domestic violence her little boyfriend "harmonious coexistence", in a recent live broadcast, Yu Xiuhua and 14-year-old "ex-husband" Yang Chuce Lian Mai, the two yin and yang strange with each other, calling each other babies.

This also provoked the incomprehension of many netizens, especially those who supported Yu Xiuhua, after all, the two made such a lot of trouble at the beginning, almost all the vicious words rushed to each other, why did they suddenly "reconcile"?

Many people began to speculate about the operation of the two: for the sake of interests, the eyeballs of Boren or was it just a "small fight" between the two before, and the relationship is still there?

In the face of netizens' "collective incomprehension", Yu Xiuhua's attitude was very tough, saying under his social platform that he did not forgive the man, and Yang Chence ruined everything about himself.

And when some netizens asked Yu Xiuhua to be "tolerant" a little and no longer entangle in this matter, Yu Xiuhua scolded the other party to the point of blood, which is very in line with the consistent painting style.

However, turning around, Yu Xiuhua recorded a video to apologize to her fans, feeling that Lian Mai had broken everyone's hearts, and she felt very guilty.

For the motive of her behavior, Yu Xiuhua explained that she may have a bit of her own "bad taste" psychology, in her heart, Yang Chuce is a "dumpling", and she "wants to play with it".

Obviously, for his own psychology, Yu Xiuhua himself also felt embarrassed, and he was also quite demeaning to his behavior, saying that he "didn't want to face", and couldn't help but turn his eyes red and wipe his tears while talking.

I don't know if everyone has found the contradiction in Yu Xiuhua? On the one hand, she is quite tough, on the other hand, she is quite sensitive and fragile, and this creates a huge contrast in her, there is a strong sense of separation.

What makes her "two faces" today? Perhaps there is a little answer in her experience.

01

From a crippled female poet to a slut and a madwoman

When it comes to Yu Xiuhua, the first label that may come to many people's minds is: a poet with a disabled mind.

Indeed, this is everyone's first impression when Yu Xiuhua first entered the public eye.

Born in a rural area, she suffered from cerebral palsy due to lack of oxygen during childbirth, which left her with limited mobility and unclear speech. For a woman, there is no doubt that the "death penalty" was imposed at the beginning of life, depriving a lot of possibilities of life.

When I got old, I married a man who didn't understand me and didn't like it, and life seemed to come to an end.

But Yu Xiuhua is different in that she has a keen heart and a strong perception of life, she honestly faces her emotional appeals, longs for love, and in her writing, the embarrassing life has a poetic meaning.

Soon, Yu Xiuhua was excavated, she did not go to much school and had a disability, although she was a little unorthodox, but quickly became a "positive teaching material" for many people.

She knows that she is ugly, disabled, and "unworthy" to have love, but she still wants to try new life possibilities, and does not want to be firmly bound to an acre and a third of land in the countryside for the rest of her life.

So, she divorced her ex-husband and started a new life of her own.

Until the appearance of a man involved her in an unprecedented "disaster", whether it was reputation or emotions, it was a failure, that person was Yang Chuce, who was 14 years younger than her, who had not read many books, but "admired" the talented Yu Xiuhua.

When this relationship was just budding, many netizens were not optimistic. On the one hand, they feel that the man "has other intentions", and others feel that Yu Xiuhua's image has collapsed, from the image of Guangweizheng to a "womanizer", or the old cow eats tender grass, affecting the values of teenagers.

In the past, she was just bold in poetry, and now she is "brazen" in real life, a 46-year-old disabled woman, as if she is not qualified to have a normal love.

At that time, Yu Xiuhua was still very sober, she knew that she was "old and ugly", she also knew that the man had other intentions, for the worries of the outside world, she was actually quite sober, but for her, life seemed to have nothing to lose, so she still wanted moths to fight fire.

Then, she proved with practical experience how stupid this brave was.

The first is word of mouth, although Yu Xiuhua does not value this thing, she has also completely become a joke after tea. Because of the desire for sincere feelings, Yu Xiuhua became a "female hooligans", but she herself was very calm and felt that there was nothing wrong with this.

Most importantly, many people found that Yu Xiuhua was so rude than she thought, and when some netizens scolded her, she was not at all as cultivated as other public figures, but directly scolded back, with spicy words and piercing people's sore spots.

Yu Xiuhua's perception dropped again and again, and she successfully changed herself from a disabled female poet to a "female madman", and for madmen, people do not need to be "tolerant", and an all-round crusade has just begun.

02

Underneath the hard shell is a soft and fragile interior

On April 29, 2022, Yu Xiuhua and Yang Chuce took wedding photos, and on May 20, they officially "officially announced" this relationship to the public.

However, 2 months later, Yu Xiuhua was exposed to domestic violence by Yang Chuce, shaking the embarrassment of the relationship between the two. At this time, the outside world suddenly discovered that this union in the name of love was already "crawling with lice" inside.

The cause was Yang Chuce's live broadcast of Yu Xiuhua's hysterical appearance, accusing her of being a drunken maniac, and also verbally insulting her daughter in rude and despicable, and saying that Yu Xiuhua peed her pants and so on.

As a result, on the second day, Yu Xiuhua posted that he was subjected to domestic violence by Yang Chuce, slapped himself hundreds of times, and had a good relationship with other women, and things ushered in a reversal, and some netizens watched lively: Look, I said that this relationship can't go far; Some netizens took sides and supported both sides.

This farce ended with Yang Chence writing a letter of apology and mutual understanding between the two sides.

If it ended here, at least it would make the end of the relationship less unbearable, but just when they thought it was over, things went beyond their expectations.

Less than ten days after the domestic violence incident, Yang Chuce was found to have a new gossip girlfriend, and the woman openly provoked Yu Xiuhua, causing public controversy, and Yang Chuce also suffered double online violence in the process.

As an "amateur", Yang Chuce's psychological quality is far inferior to Yu Xiuhua, coupled with his inability to control his emotions well, he is on the verge of collapse and his behavior is also controversial.

Since then, the front of events has lengthened and reversed non-stop. What Yang Chuce slapped himself hundreds of times in the live broadcast room, Yu Xiuhua was hospitalized, the two scolded each other, etc., a series of events made the outside world dizzy, and the two of them were completely torn apart.

Yu Xiuhua paid a heavy price for his love, and Yang Chuce's side was also uncomfortable, his reputation was ruined, and his career was wiped out, becoming a domestic violence man in the hearts of the public, and both of them became "clowns" in the public opinion field.

In fact, in the process of getting along with Yang Chuce, Yu Xiuhua's sense of contradiction was exposed: in the text, she is sober and knows that the two have their own needs, and even Yang Chuce's logic can be accurately refuted, and the organization is quite clear; It is also very tough on malice.

(satirizing Yang Couche's logical loopholes, spicy words)

In the face of Yang Chuce's new girlfriend's provocation, Yu Xiuhua did not give in at all, confronted him energetically, and did not admit defeat at all.

(The new girlfriend said that she will work with Yang Chuce to tide over the difficulties)

But in real life, she is obviously not as calm as she is in the text: she was attacked by Yang Chuce and felt extremely uncomfortable because of the malice of netizens. For the disappointment of fans, Yu Xiuhua also showed great fear and inferiority, and called himself "cheap".

Coming out of the safe world of words, the extremely powerful Yu Xiuhua curled up into a timid baby. Under her hard shell is an inferiority undertone that cannot be erased.

The source of her inferiority is imposed by society, brought about by physical disability, and her sober awareness of herself aggravates this pain, so she is so eager to find warmth, even if she knows that the other party's purpose is not pure, she is willing to eat.

The reason for this farce in the eyes of others is only that she wants to have a love that normal people can reach.