Because of this strange woman, the whole network exploded again

Yu Xiuhua is China's most controversial poet.

Recently, she has been pushed to the forefront of public opinion.

The reason is that she and her post-90s boyfriend have publicly announced the news of their marriage and taken wedding photos live.

This matter quickly appeared on the first hot search, causing heated discussion among netizens.

There are not a few blessings, but there are also many sour words.

Some people ridiculed the two men for their age and identity difference.

"Wedding care looks like mother and son" "The other party is absolutely greedy before agreeing to get married"...

Some people say that she is a sexual transformation of "Chen Shimei".

Famously, he abandoned his ex-husband and looked for a little handsome guy.

Others moved out of the Women's Federation.

He said that Yu Xiuhua wantonly challenged public order and good customs, seriously corrupted the social atmosphere, and brought bad young fans with bias.

"Her obscene poems, like spiritual opium, must be removed from shelves, must be listed as banned books!"

In fact, yu Xiuhua began to fall in love with her boyfriend last year, and many people on the Internet mocked it.

In this regard, she has already fought with the keyboard man for countless rounds,

This time, in the face of netizens questioning Yu Xiuhua's boyfriend is greedy for money.

She also replied directly:

"The essence of the relationship between men and women is to have a plan"

Unexpectedly, under the huge controversy, even the topic of "Yu Xiuhua's marriage" was folded.

A marriage, who has provoked?

Yu Xiuhua caused controversy across the network, not the first time.

It can be said that since she became famous, the doubts and insults have not been broken.

Seven years ago, a song "Across Most of China to Sleep with You" swept through the circle of friends.

Yu Xiuhua became popular overnight.

In just a few months, her poetry collection has sold more than 100,000 copies, making it the best-selling poetry collection in China for more than 20 years.

I went through the rain of bullets to sleep with you

I am pushing countless nights into a dawn to sleep with you

I am countless of me running into one I go to sleep with you

Of course, I will also be led astray by some butterflies

Think of some praise as spring

Make a village similar to Hengdian your hometown

And they

These are all indispensable reasons for me to go to sleep with you

People wonder how a farmer with only a high school degree can write such amazing verses.

How dare a woman in a poor and remote area discuss sex and love so passionately?

Of course, there are also those who say that she is vulgar and unscrupulous in describing sex and desire.

Say she's sensational, using eye-catching gimmicks to gain attention.

As a female poet and a mother, I always write "those things in the crotch", which is simply undefeated.

Uncle Yu thought that anyone who read Yu Xiuhua's poem throughout would not think that her poem was vulgar and boring.

On the contrary, these poems are sharp in words, smooth in rhythm, and imaginative.

It is sincere and passionate, full of the tension of life and wild romance, accurately striking the emotional weakness of modern people.

Its poems can not only be raw and rough, but also simple and subtle, and the aftertaste is timeless.

For example, this song "I Love You".

If I had sent you a book, I wouldn't have sent you poetry

I'm going to give you a book about plants, about crops

Tell you the difference between rice and weeds

Tell you a weedy tree to be afraid of

spring

It's not just her poems that are controversial, but also her bold speeches in public.

Especially in the face of fierce insults and personal attacks, she did not flinch, and used more fierce words to respond.

Some people say that her poems are "rogue poems" and "sluts", yu Xiuhua generously replied:

"I guess I'm a slut, what's wrong with you?"

In later remarks, she was even more unabashed about money, fame and fortune, and even spat out fragrance.

In an interview, the host asked her, is money important to you?

She answered calmly;

"Money is important to everyone, and without money you drink the northwest wind."

You also write poetry, write a bird.

You're hungry and writing poetry, are you pretending to be forced?

Life comes first, and then poetry."

After opening Weibo, Yu Xiuhua was even more taboo.

In the face of the keyboard men who personally attacked her on the Internet, she scolded back one by one.

Last year, she "showed love to singer Li Jian".

Accused by a group of netizens of "you deserve it too".

She replied directly on Weibo:

"Man is not dead, he is still there, and dopamine tells me: The world is worth it."

Since then, Yu Xiuhua has also added a nickname on the Internet - "Keyboard Man Nemesis".

This year, the controversial she tweeted on her 46th birthday.

He said he was "the best mistress in the world."

The result was controversial.

Only because she used a word that many people think is ugly — "mistress."

Yu Later explained that the mistress was the "mistress of the world", who said that a woman could only be "a man's mistress".

She also took on a lingerie commercial.

Express your own unique "sexy" view.

"My body is sexy, my soul is sexier"

"Sexiness doesn't need to be shown, it's a natural state of life"

This was also questioned, saying she was not qualified to call herself "sexy".

Say that she endorsed the underwear, no one wants to pay for it.

However, in Yu Xiuhua's poem "The Love I Want", he has already expressed his concept of love that he does not want to "please people with his appearance".

You see, I'm not going to please you with my looks

Nor is there a part that needs to be pitied by you

I love the rusty spots in my body

Better than loving you

Rebellious poetry, sharp words, souls that refuse to yield, challenge worldly values...

All this has caused Yu Xiuhua to be vilified in various ways.

But she wasn't afraid of it, and she didn't care about it.

What pained Yu Xiuhua the most was a disabled body and a loveless marriage.

Yu Xiuhua's first marriage lasted nearly 20 years.

It was a marriage with no basis in love and a lot of pain for her.

She has been suffering from cerebral palsy since she was a child and walks shakily.

Her husband never helped her, and he even laughed at her when she fell.

Later, her husband worked outside the home for many years, and when he returned home, he saw that she was not happy to write poetry, and occasionally abused her.

One year, the husband's boss defaulted on 800 yuan, and the husband took Yu Xiuhua to ask for money.

Her husband told her: You stop the boss's car, you are disabled, he does not dare to hit you.

Yu Xiuhua asked: What if the car really hits?

The husband did not speak.

Yu Xiuhua realized that her life was only worth 800 yuan in the eyes of her husband, which was not as good as a pig.

Therefore, the first thing Yu Xiuhua did after becoming famous was to go to court to sue and divorce her husband.

But in the eyes of parents and locals, it is simply incomprehensible:

"Do you want a divorce for a disabled person?"

The mother cried while she was angry, saying that her heart was hard.

The subtext is:

Like her, an old, ugly and disabled woman, no matter how rich and talented she is, she should be grateful to any man who is willing to marry herself.

A woman like her deserves only sympathy, not love.

In order to divorce, Yu Xiuhua will stop at nothing.

Decide to open the conditions with money.

Finally, with 150,000, the ex-husband agreed to divorce.

After the divorce, she fell in love with a man named "Mingo".

But because of the limitations of her body and appearance, it is a pity that she loves and cannot.

Yu Xiuhua began to drink, read, write poetry every day, and "find various ways to vent herself."

Still talking gibberish in the live broadcast, pouring out his sadness, decadent to the point of not being able to do it.

During a live broadcast, Yu Xiuhua met a 32-year-old beekeeper, Yang Yongce.

Yang Yongce was also divorced with a daughter.

He embarked on a fanatical pursuit of Yu Xiuhua.

Hearing that Yu Xiuhua had stomach pains, he sent honey from afar.

He also hiked 6 hours to mount Wudang Mountain, just to make one wish: he hoped that Yu Xiuhua would be happy.

On the first night of meeting, the two "did something very sweet."

Yu Xiuhua said to herself, "Experiencing the flesh for the first time will be so beautiful."

The two began a life of love with great fanfare.

However, in the eyes of some netizens, these loves have only two words: disgusting.

There are saying that she is an old woman in love with a small man.

Disgusting.

It is said that she is an ugly-looking old woman who coddles a small man.

Disgusting.

It is also said that she is an "old woman" who is strong and strong, and a "little white face" who wants fame and fortune, and takes what she needs.

More disgusting.

For these remarks, some netizens also stood up to refute them.

The bald man and the little petite wife are not strange, and how the gender reversal cannot be accepted.

Does a woman who is not young and beautiful have no right to spoil in love?

Yang Yongce was quickly interviewed to explain where his love for Yu Xiuhua came from.

He confessed that his previous idols were Song Zuying and Yang Liping.

When he found out that he was in love with Yu Xiuhua, he was also very surprised.

But then he wrote tens of thousands of words, dissecting his heart, only to find that the three idols in his heart had one thing in common: "They all read themselves."

This power moved him very much.

And Yu Xiuhua's own response is still shocking.

Saying that the two grandchildren were in love, "I am glad to die, I want this model."

Saying that the two have a picture, she sent a video confession on Douyin:

"The essence of any relationship between the sexes is to have a plan.

Even if it is a door to two young men and women, it is also a plan.

......

At this stage, the two of us are very happy and happy together.

If one day he rejects me and breaks up with me, I will fulfill him.

Because I love him, I want him to have a fuller life."

Today, Yu Xiuhua's second marriage once again shows another aspect of this social rule.

An old, ugly and disabled woman, no matter how rich and talented, is not worthy of a young handsome young man.

"There must be no love between them, there must be something else."

People hold magnifying glasses in their hands and look for clues to confirm their views.

Behold, the old woman was spoiled, and the little man said, "It's time for you to take your medicine."

Behold, the two took wedding photos, and the little man kissed with a face full of resistance, and even had to rinse his mouth.

This prejudice against the love of the weak wrapped in social rules is even more disgusting.

Many people always evaluate other people's marriages based on their own prejudices.

They don't believe that an elderly disabled person can get a happy love.

Uncle Yu thought of South Korean director Lee Cangdong's classic film "Oasis", which tells the story of two disabled people falling in love.

The male protagonist is an intellectually handicapped young man who was once imprisoned for helping his brother replace hit-and-run.

After being released from prison, he naively took the fruit basket to visit the victim's family, and thus met the heroine.

The heroine, like Yu Xiuhua, is a cerebral palsy patient.

However, her disability is more severe.

She is unable to walk, has no ability to live independently, and relies on her brother-in-law to take care of her.

But before long, she was treated as a burden by her brother and sister-in-law, and abandoned in the old house alone.

The male and female protagonists are wrong, and gradually love is born.

They take care of each other and comfort each other.

"Dancing" on the elevated road in traffic jams, hugging each other like two healthy people in a fantasy.

In the fantasy, two people hug each other closely

The male protagonist once brought the female protagonist to meet with her family at her mother's birthday feast.

As a result, they were blinded by everyone.

At night, they decide to have sex, but they are seen by the brother-in-law who suddenly breaks in, thinking that the male protagonist is raping.

Because in the eyes of "normal people", a disabled and ugly girl with cerebral palsy cannot be loved.

When this happens, it is either a plot or a plot of wealth.

While taking notes at the police station, one policeman even mocked the male protagonist:

"Looking at her, can it make you excited?"

At the end of the film, the male protagonist suddenly escapes from the police station.

He wanted to take advantage of the last time to help the girl cut the branches at the door.

Because of the shadows of the branches reflected in the night, the girls in the room felt afraid.

The girl could not make a sound, she could only use all her strength, turn on the radio, play the song that belonged to the two of them.

The humble but intense love between two disabled people echoed in the night like a song.

However, the able-bodied spectators only think that the two are crazy.

Yu Xiuhua's marriage is like the love of the male and female protagonists in "Oasis".

She did not violate anyone's interests, she only violated the social rules that people worshipped as divine laws.

A vulnerable group, after becoming a celebrity, dared to openly challenge the rules of society.

This makes people feel angry.

So, the words of the gun and the stick poured in.

But it didn't hurt her in any way, but it was herself, who was ridiculed into a chicken in the soup.

As a result, people became more angry.

Yu Xiuhua's controversial life is like a mirror.

How powerless and frustrated the angry people who shout for the rules of society are.

"Happiness is to live according to one's own heart"

Yu Xiuhua repeatedly mentioned this sentence in an interview.

Write poems frankly and passionately, and love each other frankly and passionately.

Be honest and enthusiastic, and do everything according to your heart.

Even if it is contrary to the rules of society, there is no fear.

Physical disability, she can not change.

But the soundness and enthusiasm of the soul far exceeds that of many people.

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