Yu Xiuhua got married, who was in the way

Yu Xiuhua's marriage is on the hot search, and it is hotter than the marriage of some celebrities! But again, the news has also caused a lot of doubts on the Internet.

In particular, a director named Liu Xinda also wrote a special "poem" to greatly humiliate.

Why?!

Frankly speaking, from Yu Xiuhua's fame in writing poetry to the fire, until now, in addition to the initial admiration, to the later stage, I completely treated her as an ordinary person, and even felt that she was more powerful than ordinary people!

This time she got married, and I sent my blessings from the bottom of my heart. Because I believe that a woman like her who is transparent and clear does not need me to worry about her.

But for her marriage, netizens still have a lot of doubts.

Netizens' doubts are mainly divided into two major factions: the first faction is represented by Liu Xinda, believing that Yu Xiuhua is used to find a post-90s person as a husband, and it is even more shameless;

There is also a faction that questions whether this marriage is not simple: the reason is that Yu Xiuhua is already 46 years old, and he is cerebral palsy, and he does not look good, while Yang Yuce is a post-90s, young and healthy, and his appearance is good, what is he looking for Yu Xiuhua?

The two views seem to be different, but in fact, they all have one thing in common, and this common point is the label defined to Yu Xiuhua, and even the label defined for all women.

Women should be young, beautiful, healthy, talented, rich, thoughtful, independent... Only worthy of finding an ordinary man.

If you're a little older, not very good-looking, and not so fit, then you don't deserve to have an ordinary and normal man.

The logic behind this view is simply terrible! It is constantly dwarfing women, even materializing women. In fact, no matter what the men and women, no matter what his conditions are, as long as he comes from the heart, he is worth chasing to have a love he wants. For such feelings, as long as they do not violate the law, do not cross morality, and do not cause trouble to others, then none of us are qualified to evaluate, point, or interfere.

Netizens who hold the second view insist that if Yu Xiuhua is not famous for writing poetry, has not become a public figure, and has no royalties and writing fees as economic support, then Yang Yuce will definitely not look up to her! Now Yang Yongce married her must not be out of feelings, nor did he like her, but to seek the interests behind her.

Such a view, whether true or not, right or wrong, is at least much stronger than Liu Xinda.

Liu Xinda's "poems" are full of stench! To say that he wrote "poetry" is a waste of the word. After you read what he wrote, I almost doubt whether Yu Xiuhua has any deep hatred with him. But in fact, he did not, he put himself in a position of superiority, full of contempt and contempt for Yu Xiuhua. In his eyes, Yu Xiuhua is not a normal woman, not even a normal person, a woman like this or a person like this, it is best to step on herself in the dust forever, step on the dirt to fend for herself, and complain to herself! She didn't deserve to be happy anyway, not worthy to pursue the life she wanted. Once you dare to chase happiness, you want to fight for the life you want, then you are heinous and rebellious!

But in fact, how yu Xiuhua is living, and whether she has happiness, what does it have to do with you Liu Xinda? She grew up so big, did not eat your family's rice, did not drink your family water, she pursued happiness and pursued marriage, and did not spend you a penny, let alone destroy your romantic relationship, what qualifications do you have to make such a foul-smelling evaluation of Yu Xiuhua? Why don't you look at people's happiness?

If you have someone like Liu Xinda around you, cutting off your robe and breaking your righteousness as soon as possible, such a person is really terrible. In the eyes of such a person, you have a little shortcoming, and you will be infinitely magnified by him and then labeled, thinking that you do not deserve to have this, do not deserve to have that.

Regarding marriage and feelings, Yu Xiuhua said this paragraph: "About me and Yang Yongce, it has been hyped for a long time. The Internet is full of all kinds of speculation and worry, some people are worried that he wants my fame and money, some people say that I am old and ugly and do not deserve him, and so on. In fact, the essence of the relationship, the essence of any gender relationship is to have a picture, even if it is two young men and women who are right at the door, they also have a picture, one figures his youth, one figures her beauty, this is the essence of the relationship between the sexes. If you have nothing, you have nothing to be remembered by others, then what is the meaning and value of your life? I feel that the two of us are together at this stage, very happy and happy, which is a pleasant relationship for both of us, and if one day he abandons me and breaks up with me, I will also fulfill him, because the meaning of everyone's life is greater than the meaning of love. ”

In this paragraph, Yu Xiuhua revealed the concept of love, that is: open-minded, transparent, and clear.

Love or marriage, we do not rule out the existence of pure feelings that transcend all worldliness and materiality, but we also have to face the reality that more love and marriage must have a picture, or a picture of your beauty and body, or from your economic base, or from your interesting soul and thought.

In fact, no matter which kind of covetousness is the common sentiment of human beings.

Or that sentence - as long as you have not violated the law, violated morality, and have not brought uncontrollable distress and suffering to others, then you are free, you have such a right, and no one has the right to interfere.

Marriage, in particular, is essentially a value exchange. When you have a plan for the other party, you must know what kind of value you should also provide for the other party, which is a kind of value that you need.

Even if you take ten thousand steps back, even if you only have the value of being used, that is your skill.

In fact, Yu Xiuhua's concept of love is really admirable, she dares to admit that she has a plan, but also dares to let her own value be used by the other party, she can generously express her need for love in life, and dare to be generous in fighting, exchanging and paying, which is a kind of real maturity in the mind. She didn't need any shame.

Yu Xiuhua's concept of love, feelings, and marriage are all worth learning, she faces her weakness and the value she has, she has the courage to face, the courage to admit, and the courage to exchange.

The passage that Yu Xiuhua said is actually the truth of love and marriage, many people do not believe it, but sooner or later life will give you a heavy blow and make you have to believe.

Recognize this truth early, mature early, and don't get hurt.

Yu Xiuhua, she is stronger than many women, stronger than many people! No kind of harsh life environment can defeat her. She knows the nature of life and marriage, has the wisdom of life, and she will use his firm and positive attitude to fight tenaciously against fate.

Love is love, do not dodge; the exchange of benefits is exchanged, everything is their own choice. People with such a strong heart deserve the most beautiful feelings.

For Yu Xiuhua is a pure blessing!

As for Liu Xinda, I have reason to suspect that he is rubbing Yu Xiuhua's heat! That's all.