Yu Xiuhua: The person who really has love is the most qualified to fall in love, and he has the ability to live alone

#Number One Weekly #Yu Xiuhua: The person who really has love is the most qualified to fall in love, and he has the ability to live alone.

Only such people have the power to emit warmth. He or she will not be a burden to others or live in fear without love.

One of the hottest topics of this long holiday: the wedding photos of Yu Xiuhua, a disabled poet with cerebral palsy after the 70s, and Yang Yongce, a post-90s beekeeper, are full of topics, and the wedding on the 3rd can almost be compared with the aura of A-list stars.

What does Yu Xiuhua rely on? Some people support it, some people criticize it, some people ridicule it, some people support it; writer Liang Wendao said: "If a man or a woman does not have the ability to live independently, then he does not have the ability to live a good life with others."

Marriage may seem like a journey for two people, but it comes down to a journey of self-improvement. Encountering Internet violence is the norm for Yu Xiuhua after becoming famous, and the official announcement of her post-90s boyfriend has no fear and intensifies.

Congenital cerebral palsy disability, unfortunate marriage, and fame can not stop Yu Xiuhua's pace of love. A post by a state media made people think deeply: "People who like her get feeling, courage and strength from her poems, while people who don't like her get stepping stones, pleasure and motivation from her criticism." ”

Yang Lan said: "Marriage is cohabitation, not who raises whom. It is never marriage that can save you, but yourself. "If a woman wants to escape the pain of being born into a family or the misfortune of work life through marriage, she is doomed to be empty of bamboo baskets.

In order to make her disabled daughter dependent for life, Yu Xiuhua's parents chose a wandering, older daughter's honest man in her teens to recruit as a son-in-law. But in exchange for humiliation, violence、、、 so she worked while writing poetry, she tried to rely on her own hands to fight against the unjust fate, she wrote hundreds of poems, pinning her expectations on the ideals, writing about the love she longed for, writing about her miserable and simple life, writing about her poor but peaceful but difficult to escape small village.

In this world, no one but yourself can really save your life. Only you, only you, can be responsible for your happiness and your life. In the face of the storms of life, we must learn to hold up an umbrella for ourselves, greet the future with an independent attitude, and meet a better self.

The sick and disabled Yu Xiuhua used "The Shaky Human World" to break free from the shackles of fate step by step, and this courage was enough to be praised by the world. Poetry redeemed her, made her rich, powerful, and became her own master.

"Without the suffering of others, do not persuade people to be generous." Dong Qing once said: "The reason why Yu Xiuhua's life is unique is because there are too many contradictions in her body, is she beautiful?" Not really. When she reads in a trembling voice that I love you and I want to hold you, I feel like it's a blossom of life. ”

In 2015, the cerebral palsy poet Yu Xiuhua ended her 20-year marriage, she is no longer afraid of gossip, just want to live for herself. The more rampant the scolding, the more excited Yu Xiuhua became, and I just wanted to embarrass those who didn't get it, and this was her— Yu Xiuhua.

"Every time they say, 'There are husbands and wives,' I give them a blank look. They said, "Like mother and son, oh, I want to shake their hands with joy." They said, "Oh, the grandchildren!" I was happy to die: I want this Van! ”

At the love poem meeting between Yang Xiuhua and Yang Yongce, the two generously held hands in front of everyone, without the slightest regard for the worldly vision, and Yu Xiuhua also gave him 99 roses. Yang Yongce was very moved: "Most men receive flowers, probably in front of their graves, but I crossed the Chinese New Year's Eve and received 99 roses from my lover. ”

Yang Xiuhua and Yang Yongce's new identity: Praised by Dong Qing of CCTV as "China's Emily Dickinson" female poet Yu Xiuhua, ushered in the most romantic wedding in her life with Yang Yongce. Green water, green mountains, rose sea, 9999 roses witnessed their wedding, and also received a special gift of 999 bottles of honey from the beekeepers of the China BeeBee Friends Alliance (CBFU) frontline bee farm.

Yu Xiuhua and the first-line beekeeper Yang Yongce and bees have an indissoluble relationship, as the "three generations of bees" of the front-line beekeeper Yang Quece, in order to help the national front-line beekeepers who live in the open to promote natural bee products. Teacher Yu Xiuhua served as the chief recommendation officer of the bee alliance, and yang Yongce, a front-line beekeeper, served as the image ambassador of the bee alliance.

One person can live well, and the marriage of two people is naturally not too bad. Having the ability to live a good life, happiness and goodness will be close to you at any time. To a large extent, what kind of people you will attract and who you marry are up to you.

So, don't be humble for love, learn to manage yourself, let you stand on the same height as your loved one, look up at the same sky. In this world, there is no perfect partner. No one's body has only advantages and no disadvantages. In this world, there is no perfect marriage, and there is no perfect partner.