Huang Zhizhong's concept of love on "Strange Story": The person I love is independent and unique, he has his own life experience, through many years, he does not only make me like him, he has the ability to use his ability to make others fall in love with him again.
Fudan Professor Liang Yong'an's concept of love: Now people are very anxious, they are very urgent, people who do not wait he actually has no real happiness, so we say that in the process of waiting, in fact, it is also a recognition of themselves, on top of the establishment of a certain individual judgment, and then go to love, the inherent quality of this love is relatively high. Many of us have lost a lot of our growth in waiting and anxiety, and you could have learned photography, listened to music, and looked at all aspects of drama at this time. This is the opportunity that history gives you at this stage, but many people don't think it's an opportunity, think it's a disaster for themselves, or a kind of pain, and this is misplaced, so we say that the person who really has the power to wait, he will have real happiness.
People have two main goals in this world, one is to find a thing that they like the most in this world, and this thing just happens to have social value, has the value of the times, and is meaningful in this era, and on the other hand, it is to find a person, who is particularly compatible with himself emotionally and spiritually, can go forward together, and can produce 1+1 > 2, a person who can produce a spiritual burst, especially in youth, first find that thing is the most important, you find that thing, and then there is someone in that thing. Now many cases are reversed, busy looking for people, things are simply in the clouds, so that we in life will produce a huge haze, a huge loss, so in our day, sometimes it can be said that not expecting is the best waiting, what is not expecting? That is to say, you don't want to look for that person, first put the whole spirit on the matter, and then in the process of coming out of the person.
"Round Table School" concept of love: all love in the face of reality absolutely touched shattered, love is so fragile, its most fragile performance is that it can not withstand any test, do not easily test it, just like you do not easily test human nature, on the contrary, you have to take care of it, do not let it be destroyed by the storm.
Break up don't ask why, he said it is not necessarily the real reason.
Ou Lijuan's teacher's concept of love: people must grow up, but unfortunately, no matter how good two people are, no matter how deeply emotional people are, if he does not grow up together, it is bound to hurt this relationship. I think that love and marriage are really a very important thing in life, but it must be maintained all the time, so if you really want to maintain, you have to work hard, and then understand each other, and participate in the cause of life, the cause in life, of course, including knowledge, including your ultimate care, but also your hope for the future, and there is a formulation of the goal of life.
What you want to maintain is the speed of your spiritual growth, and the direction of growth is to be consistent, if you can't do this, it will really be far apart, so far to a degree that means that two people are really a stranger, can only cooperate with each other in life, but the soul is really a stranger, such a situation can not grow. If you don't grow like this, soon it will be because the growth rate is different, this is not who will deliberately make mistakes, if you add the direction of growth is different, it will soon fall apart, this is where love is particularly fragile.
The concept of love will continue to change and develop with age, the improvement of cognition, and a good concept of love is beneficial to our better progress.