Wen | Fang Xiaoju
Su Wangdi, the eldest daughter-in-law of the Gu family, Gu Shihai's wife, And Gu Xin's mother, has worked for her husband and son for most of her life.
Before Mrs. Gu died, she commented on her daughter-in-law: "She is a hard worker."
Su Wangdi was even more infinitely emotional about her hard work:
"It is also strange to say that those people in the family, old and small, this disease and that disease, I am busy all day long, my eyes are open to work, my body is very strong, and I can't catch a cold." I told them that this was the natural proletarian labourer, who in addition to labor was also labor."
A woman who has worked for her husband and son for most of her life should be respected and loved by her family, but Su Wangdi, a woman who works hard, is a "joke" in the Gu family, and everyone in the Gu family openly and secretly dislikes her.
As soon as her husband Gu Shihai quarreled, he scolded her: "The daughter of someone who rubs her feet in the mixed hall."
The sister-in-law Gu Shilian felt that her face was not good: "The chin is short, the cheekbones are prominent, the bamboo nose is knotted, and the teeth are not good, and she does not look gentle and kind."
Her son Gu Xin angrily scolded her because she nagged her daughter-in-law that she could spend money: "You are so cold and hot, do you want us to separate as soon as possible"?
Niece-in-law Feng Xiaoqin secretly scolded her because she did not know the depth of her speech: "An old woman with a crazy head and a strange brain."
Why is Su Wangdi, who has toiled for most of her life, so disliked?
After reading the original work of "Heart Residence", I understood the reason.
01. Mouth poison, love to hurt people
Su Wangdi came from a humble background, and her mother's family was a bit unable to get on the table - the old woman had been rubbing her back for people in the Hun Hall all her life, and the old father was a big smoker, and she did not quit opium until after liberation.
When he married Gu Shihai, Su Wangdi's father's sick and ghostly appearance frightened the people who ate the happy wine.
The appearance is not pleasing, and there is a mother's family that cannot get on the table, when Su Wangdi married into the Gu family, she did not even have a new dress, let alone a new house.
On the day of the wedding, Gu Shihai put a bed in his parents' house, pulled a curtain in the middle, and posted a happy word on the wall, even if he was married.
Although the family conditions of the Gu family are not good, they have read books in the past few generations, which can be called a small half of the book. Su Wangdi, who was born in a low birth and was like her mother-in-law, always had a lingering sense of inferiority in front of her in-laws.
In order to hide her inner inferiority, Su Wangdi had to use a self-protective way to get along with her in-laws. Because she has little reading and no culture, the only self-protection law she can think of is language attack.
Habits become natural, and over time, Su Wangdi slowly evolved her language attack into "mouth poison, love to hurt people".
At that time, Gu Shilian thought that she was different in appearance and had opposed her brother marrying her, so Su Wangdi had a grudge with this straightforward little sister-in-law.
Even if Gu Shilian later pitied them for having no place to live, Bai gave them a suite, she still met with her warm-hearted sister-in-law.
Gu Shilian married a husband who was six years younger than herself, and Su Wangdi laughed at her before marriage: "Liu Chong" did not need to be mentioned, and it was reversed; after marriage, she was damaged: her husband was like a groom official, and her wife was like an aunt.
Su Wangdi's mouth poison is not only commonly used on the sister-in-law, even if the son is married on the big day, she still likes to say whatever she wants, and she is not scrupulous at all.
Gu Xin and Ge Yue's wedding was paid for by his father-in-law, and the pomp was very large, and the banquet was held with seventy tables, and each table was more than 10,000 standard. The family is so generous, Su Wangdi is not only not grateful, but also said cool words:
"They feel sorry for their daughters, and if they want to be beautiful, they will be able to do it." But buy a house with a down payment of half of the family, do it to death! ...... They want face, their daughter lives in a mansion in a new house, and she has the ability to pay more than 20 million at once. What does it mean to toss our poor family? Is this a way of life? It's called tearing down the house."
During the toast, Su Wangdi turned around hard and came back, her face turned red, and she had a prison-like expression:
"Holding a wedding in this way, at least five years of life, Xinxin will suffer in the future."
On her son's big day, Su Wangdi, because of her inner inferiority, not only got a bargain to sell well, but also kept hurting people with her mouth. Her mouth was poisonous, making Gu Shilian's husband Gao Chang inexplicable: "I really can't eat your sister-in-law."
After Gu Xin's father-in-law fell, Su Wangdi began to sneer again, whether her daughter-in-law Ge Yue was present or not, she opened her mouth and closed her mouth: "The benefits are not stained with anything, and now they have to affect us."
For the simple and kind daughter-in-law, Su Wangdi is not good to hear which sentence, she often damages Ge Yue in front of the Gu family:
"Short and thin, with unfocused eyebrows, talking like a mosquito, some like the useless man in his own house, none of them can take out their hands." Originally, I thought that Gao Pan, and then thought about my son was actually a loss. If Gu Xin were not a baby, he would have come so hard"?
Su Wangdi's "poisonous mouth, love to hurt people" derived from inferiority makes her like a hedgehog covered with thorns, and when she encounters something, she unconsciously attacks others with language. She herself did not know that when she harmed and attacked others, she would also provoke the disgust and disgust of others.
"Poisonous mouth, love to damage people" is an important reason why the Gu family dislikes Su Wangdi.
02. Vanity, love to show off
When Su Wangdi was young, she followed her husband to the mountains and went to the countryside and suffered a lot.
After returning to the city, because of missing the opportunity to demolish and divide the house, the family of three almost did not even have a place to stay, if there was no Generosity of Gu Shilian, the family of three was afraid to live on the road.
They were all born of the same father and mother, the younger brothers and sisters lived comfortably and peacefully, but their own family was so badly mixed, after a comparison, Su Wangdi and her husband, the heart became jealous and unwilling.
Not only did they not appreciate Gu Shilian, but they also always felt that their family's life was like this because of their younger brothers and sisters. If it hadn't been for them going to the mountains and going to the countryside, they wouldn't be so depressed now.
Su Wangdi is a strong person, because of that jealousy and unwillingness, she always holds a momentum in her heart, she puts all her hopes on her son, and wants to win back a round through her son.
So she took care of her son like a prince, accompanied him every night to do his homework, and prepared water for him to wash his feet before going to bed.
Su Wangdi's hard work was not in vain, Gu Xin was very contentious, the college entrance examination did not disappoint, the civil servants chose one in a thousand, and later climbed the big tree of their father-in-law.
When her son came out, Su Wangdi's vanity was greatly satisfied, and she felt that she could finally raise her eyebrows and breathe, and felt that she had won back a round and began to show off everywhere.
After Gu Xin bought a big house, she took advantage of the family gathering and made a fierce show:
Su Wangdi deliberately wants to drink tonight, wine can help, want to say something inconvenient, to say enough. The son married Miss Qianjin, and behind the complaint was full of pride... Although the door is not right, after all, it is a high climb rather than a low one... It is really thirty years of Hedong, thirty years of Hexi.
After some display, Su Wangdi asked her uncle Gu Shihong for Feng Xiaoqin's sister Feng Xixi to let her work as a nanny for her son and daughter-in-law.
Su Wangdi means that Feng Xixi, a foreign girl, has no serious work, and to be a nanny for her son is to lift her, and the son's mansion of more than 20 million yuan may not be able to live in it.
Su Wangdi's display and showing off made the Feng Xiaoqin sisters both embarrassed and embarrassed.
Feng Xixi lives in Gu's parents, although some of the names are not right, but the good villain is a guest of the Gu family, Su Wangdi in front of Feng Xiaoqin, let her sister be a nanny for her son, it is tantamount to punching her in the face.
Therefore, Feng Xiaoqin fiercely promoted Su Wangdi's face at the dinner table, she clipped a spring roll into everyone's plate, only Missing Su Wangdi, and finally scolded her in her heart as an "old woman with a strange brain".
In order to satisfy her vanity to the greatest extent, when Su Wangdi learned that Gu Qingyu was married to the "poor tour guide" Shi Yuan, she first knowingly asked: "How much can the tour guide earn in a month"? Then he thought triumphantly:
There are a few small ones in the family, Gu Qingyu can be considered to have a hand, and until now, it is only a hasty marriage. No matter how good a woman is in her career and does not marry well, it is equal to zero. Gu Lei, not to mention, half-crippled, and married a foreign sister, could not scream. His own son is truly outstanding.
Gu Qingyu knew that the great aunt was a vain person who came home, so he didn't care about her showing off, nor did he bother with her, but just looked at her with disdain.
In order to satisfy her vanity, Su Wangdi did not hesitate to offend everyone in the Gu family with showing off, so that everyone would respect her.
03. City servants, take money too seriously
After Su Wangdi married Gu Shihai, her life has been very poor.
When they were in Heilongjiang, they lived "like dogs" because they had no money, and at that time, they almost forgot that there was still money spent in life.
After returning to the city, Su Wangdi, who was laid off in her thirties, has been working as a chores in a small restaurant. In order to save money, she packs the leftover meals of her guests and takes them home every day, so that the couple's meal money and vegetable money are saved by more than half.
The tightness of life has turned Su Wangdi into a vulgar city servant woman. She always blamed herself for marrying a useless man and trying to take advantage of everything.
She and her husband not only calmly left the old woman to Gu Shihong alone to take care of, but also did not pull out a dime when the sister-in-law Gu Shilian was ill and underwent surgery.
The selfish servants of Su Wangdi and his wife were met with a number of blank eyes, and even their niece and daughter-in-law Feng Xiaoqin scorned them with contempt:
"Shanghainese are remarkable, Foreigners. My aunt got that kind of dying disease, and the uncle took the house and soaked the oil for decades, and I didn't see them squeaking, as if they were deaf, it was remarkable."
In the face of the blank eyes and irony of his relatives, Gu Shihai kept shouting for himself:
"If I were a Monopoly, I would be able to get the money out without her having to say it, but am I?" I'm a deflated three, a completely deflated three, how many Shanghainese are even worse than me"?
The husband called himself "Deflated Three", Su Wangdi did not feel humiliated, as long as he did not take money from outside, He would be deflated three, and he could not drop a piece of meat, so why be more true.
Every Saturday family dinner in the Gu family, Su Wangdi and her husband almost came empty-handed, and after eating and drinking enough, they wiped their mouths and pulled their legs away, never feeling blushing.
She felt that it was right for her family to pay for the wedding, who told them to look at their promising son.
In the face of the family who holds power and has an official accent, she has a smile on her face: "The smile makes my faces on both sides sour."
But as soon as she left the dinner table, she immediately rolled her eyes, complaining that the family had set more than 10,000 tables of wine for a table, which was simply demolishing the family's belongings.
Su Wangdi, who values money too much, often speaks ill of her daughter-in-law Ge Yue when she spends money.
When the Gu family had dinner, she posed as a mother-in-law and accused Ge Yue of not buying a wedding dress in front of a large family:
"Rent a set on it, and you won't wear it later, put it in the closet to attract bugs, no need."
Ge Yue said that the wedding dress was given by her uncle, and she choked on it:
"What your uncle sent is also a human kindness, and in the future, when the children of your uncle's family get married, what you want to pay back is not a free gift."
Gu Xin saw that her mother had drilled into the eyes of money, so she helped her speak:
"People's uncles are in the real estate business, don't care at all, and then the wedding dress is a limited edition customized from France, we can't afford to pay it back even if we want to pay it back, people have a heart, Mom you don't want to take everything to measure."
Seeing that his son hated himself, Su Wangdi brushed his lips:
"Your mother is an affordable person, it is not good to compare with others, people talk about their hearts, we can't get to that realm, we have to talk about money."
"Talk about money", let Su Wangdi when her son and daughter-in-law take their old two out on a trip, the search calculation is so that people can't watch it.
When she paid the bill after the meal, she snatched the credit card in her daughter-in-law's hand, and after seeing the numbers on it, she couldn't help but shout, and then it was a pass: "Live a life to calculate, otherwise it is to dismantle the family's belongings."
Seeing that his wife was counted red in the face, Gu Xin said to his mother in disgust:
"Don't you always have to go through with Ge Yue, you always say a cold and hot sentence like this, do you want us to separate soon"?
Su Wangdi, who drilled into the eyes of money, not only often suffered from the blank eyes and ridicule of her relatives, but also used a city servant's face to supervise her son and daughter-in-law everywhere, lest the world not be chaotic.
Write at the end:
In the original work of "Heart Residence", Su Wangdi said something like this:
"Except for me, you all have your own lives. Old and old, small and small, only I jumped out of the cracks of the stone. Do more, make more mistakes, say a sentence that is top three sentences, no culture, no level, people look down on ..."
Su Wangdi said such a thing, which made people listen to some heartache.
For the family, for the husband and son toiled for most of his life, and finally ended up with a "do more, more wrong, people look down on" ending. Whoever puts on this kind of thing will feel wronged.
To tell the truth, Su Wangdi is not a bad woman, nor is she an "evil daughter-in-law" or "evil mother-in-law", she is actually a woman with a good heart.
When the mother-in-law was hospitalized, she saw that others could not be trusted, and she took the initiative to shoulder the heavy responsibility of accompanying her. After Ge Yue's father fell, although she said something unpleasant, she was still quite good to Ge Yue, and when Ge Yue was confinement, she took good care of her before and after the saddle, much like a mother-in-law.
The reason why Su Wangdi was disliked was because her kindness was lost to her mouth.
If she knows how to restrain, not so fond of showing off, if she is not a beggar, don't take money so seriously, with her strength and "eyes open and work" industriousness, everyone will respect and love her.
In this world, being a person is like kneading dough, and what kind of person you want to be is all up to you. Whether people love it or be disliked by others, you decide for yourself.