Mr. Yang Dai once wrote:
Meeting a good lover is a gift. Only people who really like you will feel that you are particularly good in their hearts. Because of this kind of love, you will become confident and confident. A good lover can alleviate half of the human suffering.
For Zhan Xiang, Gu Qingyu is the white moonlight he has guarded for 10 years.
In the past 10 years, he has been very good to her, not asking for good returns, and has slowly changed from love at first sight to habit, and even become instinctive. Even if Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan got married, he did not completely withdraw, but only continued his love for Gu Qingyu in the way he thought was appropriate at the right time.
After Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan divorced, Zhan Xiang naturally began to associate with her. Soon, the son-in-law of Maozu officially visited the house.
During the meal, Ge Yue's ring fell into the trash can, and the indiscriminate Su Wangdi pointed out that Da Nian stole it. Sudden events pushed the harmonious atmosphere to the freezing point. However, what Gu Qingyu did not expect was that as her boyfriend and the son-in-law of the Gu family, Zhan Xiang actually opened his mouth after dinner hoping that Gu Qingyu could understand Feng Xiaoqin more.
In Zhan Xiang's view, this is nothing more than a word of helping friends, but in Gu Qingyu's view, it has become the truest portrayal of his heart.
Love is blind, but it can't be without a bottom line.
No matter how incompatible Zhan Xiang and Gu Qingyu are in the eyes of onlookers, Zhan Xiang does not pay attention to these things, as long as it is something that he thinks is right in his heart, even if Gu Qingyu treats him as a spare tire, as long as Gu Qingyu does not dislike and reject him, he will have a chance.
Keeping the flowers blooming and the moon is round, Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan's marriage came quickly and ended quickly. Just when everyone was very sorry for the marriage of Lang Cai and the woman, Gu Qingyu announced in front of his family that he was in love with Zhan Xiang.
The reason for this is that she does not want to see her sister-in-law misunderstood and sneered at by her family, and she also wants her family to stop worrying about her life's events.
Soon, Zhan Xiang, the son-in-law of Mao foot, who is familiar to the Gu family, came to visit as a son-in-law. However, this visit really showed a real exhibition in front of Gu Qingyu.
Whenever the Gu family has an important event, they will have dinner at home, not to mention the son-in-law's door-to-door. There was no politeness, no awkwardness, and Zhan Xiang and the Gu family quickly blended in.
However, Ge Yue put the ring on the washstand, and after Da Nian accidentally touched the trash can, the superficial harmony was quickly stirred up, especially Su Wangdi stood up and began to accuse Da Nian of stealing the ring without any basis, and zhan Xiang, who was sitting next to him, although he did not speak, but he saw it in his eyes.
In the past, he more or less knew that the relationship between the Gu family's mother-in-law and sister-in-law was not good, but he really did not expect it to be so bad. He watched as the Gu family deliberately targeted Feng Xiaoqin and her younger siblings.
Compared with the cold eyes of the rest of the Gu family, especially the spectator mentality of Gu Qingyu around him, Zhan Xiang was already on feng Xiaoqin's side at this time, and he persuaded each other left and right that Da Nian was not that kind of person.
Zhan Xiang dared to speak up, in addition to trying to calm the conflict, the deeper meaning is that compared to believing in the Gu family, Zhan Xiang believed more in Feng Xiaoqin's personality. Naturally, his trust in Feng Danian was only a little more.
Although love can make people blind, in the face of great right and wrong, especially when they see the arrogance and prejudice of the Gu family against outsiders, even Zhan Xiang himself does not know that his heart actually has a choice.
He came to Shanghai alone to work hard, relying on his extraordinary courage and boldness, he owned a lot of real estate in Shanghai. On the surface, many people praise him, but behind the scenes, they all use pejorative terms such as "upstart" to describe him.
Even if Zhan Xiang is not invaded by any poison, he still cares about his appearance in the eyes of others, especially in the eyes of locals. Originally, he thought that he could walk with Gu Qingyu and that he was truly accepted and recognized by everyone, but the meal that was not smooth at the Gu family allowed him to see the other side of human nature.
Wilde once said:
People who fall in love always start by deceiving themselves and end by deceiving others.
The inability to empathize with the difficulty of others is the biggest gap between the two.
Zhan Xiang is kind in his bones, and like Feng Xiaoqin, he understands the hardships and sorrows of the people at the bottom.
The Gu family is arrogant in their bones, they are prejudiced against the Feng family, except for Gu Shilian and Gao Chang, everyone will subconsciously feel that the ring was stolen by Feng Danian
Zhan Xiang and Gu Qingyu, the three views are inconsistent, just one door to eat, you can see that they are not a type of people, naturally can not enter the door.
Wanting to keep exquisite in life seems to be the biggest problem for Gu Qingyu and the Gu family. Although life is inferior, the inexplicable sense of superiority from the local natives makes them full of tolerance, but contempt for foreigners like Zhan Xiang and Feng Xiaoqin.
Su Wangdi and the Feng family clashed, and the people at the table behaved differently. Except for Zhan Xiang and Gu Shilian who were solving the problem, everyone else was just sitting and watching things happen, and their calm faces seemed to be engraved with the four ugly big characters of "habitual", especially Gu Qingyu, who had the most ideas in his daily life, but he did not say a word.
Gu Qingyu understands that Feng Xiaoqin is not easy, but she can't empathize, but Zhan Xiang can. So in essence, this has become the biggest gap between Gu Qingyu and Zhan Xiang, and it is also the key to the problem.
The two have known each other for ten years, and if they are friends, they can indeed become very good friends. However, from a very familiar friend to a lover or couple, most of the time it will end up in vain.
Loving someone requires wholehearted dedication, but when you are really together, if you don't have a hint of inner impulse, it is really just to be together, and the result is only failure.
Write at the end.
Whether a person loves another person or not is actually very easy to distinguish, and you can understand it by looking at his eyes.
Zhan Xiang to Gu Qingyu is the same as Gu Qingyu to Shi Yuan, and the former's eyes towards the latter are always full of uncontrollable love.
Perhaps, we will always cling to the white moonlight that we can't let go of in the depths of our hearts, but when we really have it, we find that many things have long been human.
Just like Zhan Xiang, he waited hard until he reached the identity of the son-in-law. However, this place of the Gu family, whether it should step in, this meal, has become the best verification.
Therefore, he and Gu Qingyu are doomed to have no chance in this life.