Gu Qingyu was going to Singapore and invited his family to dinner. During the banquet, Ge Yue suggested: Singapore is hot, ultraviolet rays are strong, sister you bring more than a few bottles of sunscreen.
Gu Xin grabbed Bai Dao: Can't you buy it over there? Singapore is not a third world country.
Ge Yue rarely made a sound, and as soon as he made a sound, he was pushed back by her husband, which was very embarrassing.
Mother-in-law Su Wangdi couldn't help but hug the uneven:
"His family's ancestors do not take their wives seriously. Don't be polite to him next time, laugh at him if you want, and laugh at him to death. ”
Su Wangdi rarely spoke for her daughter-in-law, which shows that what Gu Xin did this time was really not authentic.
And her sentence "His family's ancestors, do not take his wife seriously" is tore open the fig leaf of the Gu family's great harmony that Old Lady Gu pretended to be stupid and painstakingly maintained.
Especially after reading the paragraph where Su Wangdi accused Gu Shihai, I understood the truth behind Gu Shihai and Gu Xinliangbo. Their coolness is really "ancestral"!
Helping the son is too obvious
Originally, it was the turn of the eldest brother Gu Shihai to watch the night, but he had a cold and let Su Wangdi come. Gu Shilian was distressed that Su Wangdi was too hard, so he took her for one night before he had the opportunity to accompany Mrs. Gu on the last night.
Mrs. Gu said: She is a hard worker.
Gu Shilian said:
"What is a laboring life, who is born with a laboring life?" You help your son not to help too obviously. ＂
The so-called destiny consists of two parts. One is fate, the other is luck. Nine times out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory, but if everything is not satisfactory to fate, it is just a lie.
No one is born toil, and most people are forced by life to be laborious.
Gu Shihai felt sorry for his sister Gu Shilian, when his brother-in-law proposed to replace the overnight duty, he was busy agreeing, and he was eager to be on duty for him every day to reduce his guilt. But he didn't come himself, so he let his wife Su Wangdi come.
"Anyway, I'm an iron man, and I don't have a headache or a cold if I don't sleep for 24 hours." This sentence is the most helpless indictment of Gu Shihai.
A person who ignores his wife's efforts and takes all his wife's efforts for granted will not think about his wife under any circumstances.
Mrs. Gu's sentence "She is a hard worker" is the palest excuse for her son.
The more Su Wangdi spoke, the more ruthless he became:
When we got married, the introducer said that people are good people, just a little stuffy and unpleasant. I don't understand, what is a good person, what is a bad person? A good person who has not broken the law or gone to jail? Do you have to use knives and guns to kill people and set fires to call bad people? There are more good people at the end of that day, I would rather find a bad person, let him kill people and set fires, anyway, it is someone else who is killed, and I do not tie the line, as long as he goes home and hurts his wife and children, what does it matter if it is bad outside! Live your life. So, ah, it's not a personality problem, it's a character problem.
She took her grandson day and night to work hard, Gu Shihai was just responsible for buying a dish, throwing it into the kitchen, and then ignoring everything. Several times there were vegetables burning on the stove, Su Wangdi was busy with children, he saw it and only shouted "almost scorched", and did not take the handle.
No wonder Su Wangdi would helplessly say that sentence: "It's not hard work, it's fate." There is a day of hardship and liberation, and the suffering of life is a lifetime, and there is no hope. ”
So, for so many years, for Su Wangdi's efforts to make cattle and horses in the Gu family, Old Lady Gu and Gu Shihai chose to ignore it, Gu Shihong knew half of it, Gu Shilian was on top, and his son Gu Xin felt that everything was right.
Su Wangdi was desperate and confessed.
Banknotes are not clear in this life
"The banknotes are not clear in this life, and the wife is a free laborer, and it is used casually, only as a nanny part-time worker." You, it is best that your sister now needs to donate organs, heart, liver, spleen, lungs and kidneys, everything is good, you rush up without saying a word, first let the wife pair, the wife can't do the son, it is in no one to have to open up on your own, an organ and a house, it is also cost-effective. ”
Although Su Wangdi said this passage harshly, it was a fact. In Gu Shihai's eyes, as long as he is not allowed to return the house, everything else is easy to say.
The night before the old lady died, she blamed Gu Shilian for doing things to the extreme, not giving others the opportunity to be human, which was the most selfish kind of promotion. Gu Shilian felt funny.
There is a saying
Called
: Sheng Mien, Dou Mi Vengeance. When Grace is too big to pay it back, he refuses to pay it back. Even when his sister was at stake.
He refuses to be the same thing, and occasionally in stressful situations he "means".
There is a very interesting scene: Gu Shilian moved, and Gu Shihong specially sent a red envelope to the past. Gu Shihai originally just wanted to see what he wanted to help, and he was embarrassed to see others sending red envelopes, and under the excitement of Gao Chang, he had to turn 3,000 over, and then returned home in sorrow.
When Gu Shilian was sick for the first time, they were not pulling out a dime. When the cancer metastasized for the second time, they "meant" it again. This is what Mrs. Gu said:
Are you allowed to play a fancy, and not allow people to mean a little? I tell you, man, don't be too real, it's almost called principled, and if you go too far, it's called thirteen o'clock.
Gu Shihai occasionally "means" a little, and Gu Shihai wants to give more money to her daughter before she dies. It is to give you a little favor to smooth out the huge benefits you have gained from others.
For Gu Shihai, the house will not be repaid in this life, and small favors are still OK.
Treat who is sincere
"Gu Shihai, you said to yourself, who have you been good to in this life?" Old woman, brother, sister, wife, son, grandson... Who have you really treated? ”
Su Wangdi's questioning was not asked for no reason. In Gu Shihai's life, he really hadn't really ever been true to anyone.
The first is the old lady. Before the old woman fell ill, she had been following her brother, and Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Shihong were responsible for eating and drinking Lasa. Before dying, people need to serve in the hospital, and everyone arranges the duty schedule and takes turns on duty. But when it was Gu Shihai's turn, he let his wife take over the shift.
In his mother's last days, he did not want to spend the last time with his mother. But his old wife, until the last moment of her life, was still confessing:
Tell Ah Hai that it is better to be a person, he is not happy, and it is uncomfortable for others to look at.
This is followed by the younger sister. When my sister was upset that they had no place to stay in Shanghai, she gave them a house. For this matter, Mrs. Gu said this:
Mom and Dad know it's not fair, but they can't help it. Your house was given to him, it was your sister's affection, and you were in good condition at that time.
"Mom and Dad know it's unfair, but there's no way" is one of the most shameless and slimy words I've ever seen.
For the sake of her son, she chose to ignore her daughter's efforts. At that time, even the next-door neighbors came to persuade Gu
Shi Lian
Don't give up the house, but Mrs. Gu just doesn't take a stand. She still ate tea and punched.
Did she not know? The purpose of her doing this, she said herself: Your old wife is also a human being, her energy is limited, I am afraid that you will not be able to get by, argue with each other, and I am afraid that you will argue with me.
Selfish, I am afraid that my son will argue with her. And Gu Shihai's selfishness is the same as that of Old Lady Gu.
Accepted her sister's house, and the family lived in peace for so many years. Even Gu Shilian was diagnosed with breast cancer and almost sold his house for treatment. Gu Shihong took 100,000 yuan to his sister, and Gu Qingyu also said that Gu Shihai's family did not move. Even Gu Xin, who was already working, and her aunt was sick, she just sent some fruits and sat down and left.
The main responsibility for this matter is still in Gu Shihai, Gu Xin may have just graduated from college and does not understand etiquette. And Gu Shihai could not fail to understand these things, but he did not explain to Gu Xin that this kind of life-threatening matter should be expressed.
When his sister had to change the house because her daughter was going to study abroad, he also refused to lend a helping hand and helped for the time being.
In this way, he was at ease to accept his sister's gift. Feng Xiaoqin once said:
Shanghai people are amazing, foreign school, brothers and sisters get along very neatly, aunt got that kind of dying disease, uncle Bai took the house, rubbed the oil for decades, and did not see him squeak, just like deaf, remarkable!
Gu Shihai was so cold-blooded that he ignored his sister's life and death, and he had been sincere about his sister.
Third, treat your sons and grandchildren.
After Ge Yue's father had an accident, once the Gu family had a dinner, Gu Shihai and Gu Shihong chatted on the balcony:
Just know I'm not so lucky. It's not good to get them divorced. If something really happened to her father, we would definitely be implicated. Xinxin is still young. It is better to leave it aside now.
Gu Shi, who heard this sentence at that time
Haishi eats
I was shocked.
When something happened to his daughter-in-law's family, he first thought not of how to make his son and daughter-in-law love as before, but to clear up the relationship. Moreover, at that time, the daughter-in-law was already pregnant with his grandson in her belly.
In the face of family changes, he does not assume the role of being the main backbone of the head of the family, but only thinks of self-interest and escape, not for the sake of the younger generation, he really can't talk about his son.
Gu Xin went on a business trip to Xinjiang, Ge Yue and Gu Xin talked about their children, and Gu Xin's attitude was perfunctory like routine. Su Wangdi couldn't look at it anymore:
It's biological, and it's not the drag oil bottle that your wife brought with her remarriage.
Gu Shihai scolded his wife and said anything. More than once, he acquiesced to his son's cold violence against his daughter-in-law. Knowing that something was wrong with his son's marriage, he did not care, did not intervene, and let it develop. It can be said that Gu Xin later took Feng Xiqian and embarked on the road of no return, Gu Shi
The sea has no
Shirkable responsibility.
In this life, Gu Shihai really had never really treated anyone.
"There are smart people and there are stupid people, there are good people and evil people, there are those who suffer losses and take advantage, and those who are brothers are not like older brothers, but rely on younger brothers and sisters to support them." You only have my old belly full, but I really don't know what to do. ”
He excused himself with the phrase "I really don't know what to do", weak and pale.
change
Ge Yue insisted on going to the detention center to take care of Gu Xin, and Su Wangdi couldn't stop looking at Gu Shihai behind him. Gu Shihai said:
Xinxin accident, Xiao Ge is pregnant, and when some of the money is used later, instead of worrying with you, it is better to make more money for backup.
Su Wangdi heard something "reliable man look" from his words.
In the face of the blindness of his family, he could even say: "Don't worry, there is me", such a thing.
But a person, after experiencing the death of his mother, the disaster of his son's imprisonment, and his sister's passing away from the ghost door, did he change after such a change, was it too late?
At the end of the story, in order to intercede for Gu Xin, Ge Yue sang Yue opera to Xiao Lu without clearly explaining the result. But I think that no matter what the result is, it shows that Ge Yue eventually became Feng Xiaoqin: after being forced by life to a certain extent, she uses the advantages of women to make a living.
But with Feng Xixi's prophecy:
This kind of man, with a needle three inches down, may not see blood. Living with him, in the future, you will either become Su Wangdi or suffer from depression.
Differently, such a daughter-in-law does not know whether it is sadness or joy.