Gu Shilian was a full 6 years older than Gao Chang.
When Gao Chang was young, he was recognized as a handsome man, liked to wear a white shirt with a jacket or trench coat, polished shoes, and stopped in the crowd, which was the focus.
Countless girls have come and gone for him, and the high-spirited and handsome Gao Chang has captured the hearts of a large number of girls with outstanding appearance.
People are good-looking, sought after, personality is naturally proud of a few points, Gao Chang is used to being chased backwards, he is not so attentive to love, casually in love, and casually breaks up, just in the factory, there are at least 20 ex-girlfriends.
Typical playboy.
In the original book of "Heart Residence", it is written:
"Abortion does not need to be mentioned, there are still people who commit suicide for him, eat enemies and fear, and jump the Huangpu River." It is also common for the woman's parents to rush over and shout and kill. Gao Chang is a celebrity. After graduating from the technical school, he was assigned to the boiler workshop, doing rough work, but the people were meticulous. The mouth is also sweet. Pleasing women. The girls who committed suicide for him, after a while, it was over. Well the scar forgets the pain. There are still people who come and go, as cannon fodder. Knowing that he was a scumbag, he couldn't help it. ”
Gao Chang has a rough and detailed personality, can speak the Tao, and maintains an invincible record in his feelings, but when he met Gu Shilian, Gao Chang was willing to "change evil and return to righteousness" for her, and since then he has lived a single-minded life, and the marriage between the two is not favored by others, but they love each other until they are old.
Gao Changliu also slipped his head, while Gu Shilian belonged to the strong, clean and refreshing type, is a personnel section member, strong work ability, with its own aura, not angry and self-threatening.
Gu Shilian looks ordinary, but her personality fascinates Gao Chang.
At that time, the factory promoted the pairing of backward elements with advanced personnel, passing on the help and guidance, "eating together, working together, learning together, and making progress together", Gu Shilian and Gao Chang got married.
Under the influence of Gu Shilian, Gao Chang has a lot of heart for his career, and his progress is very fast, he is not late, he does not leave early, and he no longer flirts with female colleagues, Gao Chang sees Gu Shilian, just like a mouse meets a cat.
The reason why Gao Chang is "afraid" of Gu Shilian is because she is good enough, and she exudes the charm of a mature woman, Gao Chang is deeply attracted to her, and secretly competes to look up to Gu Shilian.
As a line in "Listen sideways" puts it:
"Because of you, I'm willing to be a better person and don't want to be a burden to you, so I work hard just to prove that I'm good enough for you."
The scandal between Gao Chang and Gu Shilian spread wildly, the little leper with the female cadre, almost everyone was waiting to see the jokes of the two, secretly guessing when they would break up.
Gu Shilian had a boyfriend at that time, was a technician in the factory, and had reached the point of talking about marriage, because of the appearance of Gao Chang, Gu Shilian retired from marriage, fortunately, the boyfriend was a decent person, did not embarrass Gu Shilian, nor denigrated Gu Shilian, the two broke up peacefully, Gu Shilian boldly came together with Gao Chang.
30-year-old Gu Shilian, married to 24-year-old Gao Chang, farcical marriage, even the family is not optimistic, the eldest sister-in-law Su Wangdi feels that Gao Chang is still handsome in the old, Gu Shilian can not keep his heart at all, did not expect that Su Wangdi was beaten in the face.
After Gao Chang and Gu Shilian got married, they no longer lingered in the flowers, Gu Shilian became a unique branch in his life, Gu Shilian was very good at taking care of people, Gao Chang's stomach disease was well adjusted by Gu Shilian's soup; Gao Chang was also very considerate of Gu Shilian, did not mind that she was weak and unable to have children, and after she suffered from cancer, she was not abandoned to encourage her to overcome the disease.
Although the love between the two is flawed at the beginning, after all, Gu Shilian's ex-boyfriend is very innocent, but after the two recognized each other, they did not move other thoughts, and this insistence is not easy.
After reading the original work of "Heart Residence", I knew that the prodigal son did not change his head, Gao Chang loved his adopted daughter, treated his old wife kindly, and he was the best man in the whole book.
Adopt tall blossoms
Gu Shilian was old, and her physical condition was not good, she could not get pregnant for a long time, and when she was forty years old, she was dead-hearted, Gao Chang did not dislike his wife, and he did not move his crooked brain, and the husband and wife discussed together and went to the orphanage to hold a child back.
In order to hide their eyes, Gu Shilian and Gao Chang also ran to the countryside for a year, and came back to say that their daughter had given birth. Feng Xiaoqin often envied Gao Duoduo's good life and could be adopted by Gao Chang and his wife.
Feng Xiaoqin had an "illegitimate son" before marriage, who could only be raised by her parents in the name of her brother; and Gao Duoduo, a non-biological adopted daughter, was more blessed than Feng Xiaoqin's own son, and the original work of "Heart Residence" wrote:
"Duoduo's life is good. Feng Xiaoqin often thinks that although Gao Chang and his wife are not rich, they have grown up spoiled since childhood. Holding fear of falling, holding fear of closing. Smashing pots and selling iron for her to study abroad. Her biological parents did not know where they were, and they must be helpless to the extreme, so they would leave the child behind. ”
Gao Chang regarded Gao Duoduo as his own, holding it in the palm of his hand and hurting, almost to the point of doting, his pet for his daughter was actually the deepest love for his wife Gu Shilian.
Of course, Gao Chang wants to flow his own blood and flesh, many times, men are more realistic than women, women can not have children, selfish men to find crooked ways, it is also common.
In "Xiao Min Family", Hong Wei married Li Ping, the husband and wife respect each other as guests, Hong Wei also loves Li Ping very much, but Li Ping is taking medicine and injections, and also went abroad to do examinations, that is, there is no way to have children, it is difficult to conceive once, and accidentally flowed.
Hong Wei saw that Li Ping's body bones had no hope, so he secretly found a son abroad, and raised the child abroad for a long time, hiding from Li Ping, Hong Wei was happy with Li Ping and encouraged her to adjust her body; on the other hand, he flew abroad to see his own son every three or five minutes, and his "fierceness" once made Li Ping collapse.
Compared with Hong Wei, Gao Chang is the most worthy of marrying a good man, he used his kindness to Gao Duoduo, confessed to his wife, suggesting that he did not mind that she could not have children, and that the adopted daughter could also be raised as a biological daughter, and the big thing that Gu Shilian was embarrassed by, in Gao Chang's place, became an understated small matter, and his attitude gave Gu Shilian a reassuring pill.
Feng Xiaoqin thought correctly, Gao Duoduo was indeed "well-fated", although she was abandoned by her biological parents just after birth, but by chance she met her adoptive parents who used her as jewelry, Gu Shilian and Gao Chang did not hesitate to replace the big house with a small house in order to provide Gao Duoduo to study abroad, Gao Chang was both a "wife slave" and a "daughter slave".
Guard Gu Shilian
When the Gu family's old house was demolished, Gu Shilian was assigned a small set, and the eldest brother Gu Shihai was not in Shanghai because of the reason of going to the countryside, and he missed the qualification to divide the house.
Gu Shilian was distressed by her eldest brother's hardships outside, and in order to comfort Gu Shihai, Gu Shilian transferred her house to her nephew Gu Xin, so that Gu Shihai could also have a home in Shanghai.
Gu Shilian's generosity makes the neighbors feel incredible, after all, the brothers still know the account, how many brothers and sisters have turned against each other because of a little money, Gu Shilian is willing to give the house to her brother, her love is really rare.
Even the second brother Gu Shihong advised Gu Shilian: "Don't think clearly, the eldest brother is bitter, but you are not a rich man." In the original book of "Heart Residence", it is written:
"Gu Shilian hardened his heart, saying that his brother and his nephews were not good enough to let them have no foothold."
Gao Chang naturally did not want Gu Shilian to give up the property, so he complained to Gu Shihong: "Brother, if you speak fairly, am I stingy, or is she overdoing things?" ”
Gu Shihong persuaded his sister not to move, so he had to comfort his brother-in-law: "You think like this - there are so many women under the sky, are you looking for her, is it because she is beautiful and gentle?" ”
Gao Chang stomped his feet, Yeah, I'm a, so I like this stupid thirteen-point woman. ”
Gao Chang loves not only gu Shilian's ability and talent in her work, but also the generosity and kindness in her nature.
Gao Chang once commented on Gu Shilian: "A good person is a bad temper. ”
Gu Shilian is a knife mouth tofu heart, Gao Chang knows Gu Shilian very well, so he did not stop Gu Shilian, but respected her choice.
After Gu Shilian suffered from cancer, he needed to use money for surgery, Gu Shihai pretended to be deaf and dumb, and deliberately did not mention money, which made Gu Shilian and Gao Chang very disappointed, and Gao Chang also choked Gu Shihai with words, but did not worry too much about it.
During that time, Gao Chang experienced the recurrence of his wife's cancer, his friend Lao Huang was seriously injured, Gao Chang's mood fell to the extreme, in order to relieve his sorrows, he poured himself intoxication.
But Gao Chang left all his positive emotions to Gu Shilian, and he explained Gu Shilian's words and explained his deep feelings.
Gu Shilian's body was in trouble, and her brother was that attitude again, and her heart was not happy, she stroked Gao Chang's shoulder and said, "This world, it is too difficult, but it is easy to suffer." ”
Gao Chang was silent for a moment, and then advised Gu Shilian:
"Think of Lao Huang, we have to be content. Ordinary people live their lives by staring at the shortcomings of others. You see people are good, how do you know that people are not fat? People will not tell you about things that are not going well.
You yourself said, apart from being a little bit worse, where did we lose to someone else? Besides, there are not too many people who have this kind of problem now, you can abandon it again, maybe in two years it will be medically overcome, and it will be solved with one needle. In the past, when there was no penicillin, the fingers and boils were all life-threatening, but now, opening the stomach is also a small thing.
So ah, want to open some, there is no obstacle that can not be crossed. How good we are, there is food and clothing, there is no mortgage, there is no old man to serve, husband and wife love, daughters are also angry. Your two brothers, one is no wife, one is that the wife is similar to the enemy, how to compare with us? Your husband is so handsome, so considerate, so understanding—"
Gu Shilian quipped that "empathy" is to describe women, the couple can also flirt in front of the hospital bed, ridicule each other, Gao Chang took his wife into his arms, sighed:
"These two days in the hospital, I also really looked open, born old and sick and dead, born in the world to go through a life, it is life, but in the end it also depends on how to live." No matter how miserable we are, can we still be miserable? Don't people's parents have to live their lives? --Wife, don't worry, even if the sky falls, I will hold on for you. ”
In fact, no matter how much chicken soup is poured, it is not as good as the sentence "You don't worry, even if the sky falls, there is still me to support you", Gu Shilian, who has been strong all his life, has red eyes in front of her husband.
Gu Shilian has suffered a lot of grievances in terms of family affection, her mother prefers sons to daughters, the eldest brother turns his face and does not recognize people, she regards his nephew Gu Xin as a white-eyed wolf; her daughter Gao Duoduo, who is loved with her heart, has released herself abroad, does not love to go home, and most of them are not counted on. Only Gao Chang, when she was most helpless, gave her the crook of the arm to rely on.
In order to resolve the knots in Gu Shilian's heart, Gao Chang specially comforted her and said that if the house is given to the eldest brother, he will not think about it anymore, and he will not regret it when he has done his best, so that the eldest brother has no fixed home.
Gao Chang is well aware of Gu Shilian's depression, and his words, layer by layer, all speak to Gu Shilian's heart, Gu Shilian in the retirement age, can also have Gao Chang's confidant-like husband to protect with heart, is her greatest blessing in this life.
Write at the end
In the original work of "Heart Residence", 30-year-old Gu Shilian married 24-year-old Gao Chang, but he loved to the old age, and love is one thing and one thing.
True love is to support each other, achieve each other, be able to share happiness and suffering, give each other courage and hope in the face of life, old age, illness and death, and do not abandon each other in the long river of years.
Gao Chang used to be a little leper who did not seek progress, and it was Gu Shilian who let him see that people can have another beautiful way of life, and hooking up with different women is not a symbol of success, but a manifestation of extreme lack of spirit.
Under the influence of Gu Shilian, Gao Chang got rid of bad problems, got on the right track, and later became the deputy director of the workshop; a good partner will indeed benefit us for life.
Gu Shilian has a hard mouth and a soft heart, in fact, she is very good at taking care of people, she is 6 years older than Gao Chang, there is both a strong side and a virtuous side; in order to nourish Gao Chang's stomach, Gu Shilian asks for prescriptions; Gao Chang is drunk, she patiently cooks him a soup of decanting wine.
Gao Chang gave back to his old wife with more love, not abandoning her inability to have children, fulfilling her love for the Gu family, and carefully caring for her sick, which is what an ordinary and happy marriage should look like.