Most of the marriages in "Heart Residence" are unfortunate, only one couple, although there are not many appearances, but live out the most ideal appearance of the husband and wife, each scene is a "high sweet" time, that is, Gao Chang and Gu Shilian.
Between Gao Chang and Gu Shilian, although there is no promise from the Sea Oath Mountain Alliance, nor is there a deep romantic romance, but every time he appears, Gao Chang protects his wife with a solid arm.
Most of the children of the Gu family are unhappy, and the men are either weak and unkind, or cowardly and have no opinion, one by one, they have driven their originally virtuous and capable wives crazy, so is Feng Xiaoqin, and so is Ge Yue.
And the daughter is too strong, Gu Qingyu met Shi Yuan, although very much in love, but eventually turned love into a sword, both of them were stabbed all over the body, can not be Shi Yuan's fault, can not be said to be Gu Qingyu's fault.
Among so many children, only Gu Shilian has achieved the happiness of marriage, and it has been happy for a lifetime, and the high happiness of "the prodigal son turning back" has made me see clearly what a good man should look like.
The little leper was subdued by the female leader, and the prodigal son turned back
Gu Shilian was a full six years older than Gao Chang, and the eldest sister-in-law also satirized Gu Shilian for a while, saying that the two of them were "Liu Chong", which meant that they were together in this life, it was inevitable to bump and bump, and it was difficult to be happy.
Gu Shilian and Gao Chang are colleagues of the unit, the fate of the two is also very wonderful, Gao Chang looks handsome, but Gu Shilian is not a woman who only looks at the appearance, but the yin and yang are wrong, for Gao Chang, Gu Shilian also did an earth-shattering thing, the original book wrote:
Gao Chang was recognized as a handsome man when he was young. A white shirt is worn with a trench coat or jacket, the wind discipline button is loose, and a pair of polished pointed leather shoes are pedaled under the pants, and the head style is refreshing. I don't read much, but I can wear a bit of style, and it is rare - in fact, I am a playboy. I have talked about love countless times before knowing Gu Shilian, and there are no less than 20 in the factory. Abortion does not need to be mentioned, there are still people who commit suicide for him, eat enemies and fear, and jump the Huangpu River. It is also common for the woman's parents to rush over and shout and kill. Gao Chang is a celebrity. After graduating from the technical school, he was assigned to the boiler workshop, doing rough work, but the people were meticulous. The mouth is also sweet. Pleasing women. The girls who committed suicide for him, after a while, will be enough. Well the scar forgets the pain. There are still people who come and go, as cannon fodder. Knowing that he was a scumbag, he couldn't help it.
Gu Shilian was a young personnel section member of the unit at that time, clean and refreshing, very strong work ability, she had a fiancé with her talent and female appearance, was a technician, the two have been in a relationship for two years, and they are about to get married.
However, the appearance of Gao Chang changed Gu Shilian's fate, and a certain political work cadre of the unit made a decision to pair the backward elements and the advanced elements and pass on the help: work together, study together, and make progress together.
This pediatric approach has fulfilled a good marriage, Gao Chang is Gu Shilian's "pair", Gao Chang is usually a ridiculous little leper, but in front of Gu Shilian, just like a mouse meets a cat, he instantly becomes honest.
Gu Shilian is a female man, after Gao Chang followed her, he did not dare to be late and leave early, and he did not dare to provoke girls everywhere, Gu Shilian raised his eyebrows, his eyes were glaring, and Gao Chang obediently "looked at the eyes and acted".
Gao Chang used to be absurd, no one put it in his eyes, only Gu Shilian was the one who really made him willing to "surrender", Gao Chang told Gu Shilian, the woman under the sky, I bought the old sister's account! Gu Shilian let gao chang sit, Gao Chang stood, Gu Shilian let Gao Chang sit, Gao Chang sat, obedient like a pug.
Soon after, Gu Shilian dissolved the marriage contract with her fiancé, and the man was also a righteous gentleman with a top croak, and did not say anything, only said a sentence of "fainting", Gu Shilian was indeed dizzy.
Gu Shilian has always been a bright and upright person, never do that kind of unsightly thing, after breaking up with her fiancé, she officially interacted with Gao Chang, the difference between the two people is too big, many people in the factory are waiting to see when Gu Shilian is abandoned.
Gu Shilian is not ugly, but Gao Chang is a real handsome man, and is a handsome man with a heart, a big man of one meter and eight meters, and his body is promoted, although Gu Shilian is a small cadre, but everyone is not optimistic about this marriage, thinking that the two cannot last long, and some people feel that Gao Chang is not worthy of Gu Shilian.
There are some old rivers and lakes in the factory, well-informed, saying that this is called "overcorrection", also called "compensation reaction", just like the body has not exercised for a long time, a little movement, muscles will not only be sour, but also itchy. Itchy skin, Gao Chang This little red guy is looking for Gu Shilian, the female tiger, is not the bone itching what?
But the two disappointed everyone, and even more broke the hearts of those girls who admired Gao Chang, who seemed to enjoy the suppression of Gu Shilian, a tigress, for so many years.
From the moment of marriage, the kneeling washboard has become a program that the family has to perform every three to five years, late return, drunkenness, and inferiority, all kneel, usually kneeling when sober, Gu Shilian knits sweaters on the side, and Gao Chang kneels on the side:
Gao Chang snuggled up to his wife's lap and helped wind the wires. Gu Shilian gave a nod to his mouth and motioned for him to let go. Gao Chang did not move, laughing, and pleasing his wife like a pug. In fact, Gao Chang knew that Gu Shilian was just doing things, not really annoying him, Gao Chang had a bad stomach, afraid of drinking and drinking problems.
When Gao Chang was young, he ate irregularly, and liked to drink, and he had stomach pains for three days, Gu Shilian in order to help her husband raise his stomach, he asked people to get wild turtles from the countryside to make turtle porridge for her, it was not easy to raise well, and he had not committed a crime for more than ten years.
Gao Chang's dedication to his wife over the years is touched in his heart, but also with practical actions to repay this affection, he is a gentleman, even if married, there are a lot of girls who are crazy for him, all of them are younger and more beautiful than Gu Shilian, but Gao Chang has never moved his compassion and single-mindedly guarded Gu Shilian.
The most solid reliance, to protect the wife and daughter
After all, the flowering period of women is not as long as that of men, Gu Shilian was originally older than Gao Chang, because of worry, it seems that gao Chang is much older, when she married Gao Chang, she was more than thirty years old, the two did not have a child, and later could only adopt a flower.
In the end, in fact, Gu Shilian can not give birth, after getting older, her health is very poor, mostly Gao Chang in turn to take care of her, Duo Duo has grown to twenty years old, Gao Chang has never complained a little, and the two mouths love Duo Duo as a treasure.
When they were young, Gao Chang and Gu Shilian still looked reluctantly right, but when they were old, they stood together, their husbands were like grooms, their wives were like grandmothers, women couldn't stand the toss of the years, Gu Shilian's face was crawling with the traces of the years, and Gao Chang was in his early fifties, and there were no wrinkles on his face.
At this time, Gu Shilian is no longer the strong woman who was graceful and cheerful, but an old woman who is old and dragging a sick body, and Gao Chang is proud of life, promoted to workshop director, and the family has completely become a male and female owner.
The first thing Gu Shilian does when she gets up every morning is to make breakfast for her husband and daughter, Gao Chang is a Ningbo person, and she is not used to eating breakfast in Shanghai, Gu Shilian has to make a separate meal every day according to the habits of Ningbo people, she will never put love on her mouth, but every bit of life is the love for her husband.
Gao Chang's love for Gu Shilian is even more heartwarming, he is good at seducing his sister, and Gu Shilian is with him, and he often says some sweet words to make her happy, in action, Gao Chang has achieved the best appearance of a husband: loyal, considerate, responsible, tolerant, love house and Wu...
Gao Chang went out to drink with Lao Huang one night and was drunk by Lao Huang, and as soon as he returned home, Lao Huang repeatedly instructed Gu Shilian not to train Gao Chang, Lao Huang was Gao Chang's best friend, knowing that Gao Chang's "status at home is not high", there must be no good fruit to eat.
Sure enough, by Lao Huang guessed, Gu Shilian helped the drunken Gao Chang home, wiped his body, changed his clothes, and the next day, Gao Chang honestly knelt on the washboard, this habit persisted for more than thirty years, Gao Chang always eliminated her anger before Gu Shilian became angry:
Gao Chang smiled, still looking like a pug in the past, and smiled: "I haven't drunk alcohol for a long time, and the amount of alcohol has deteriorated, so I need to strengthen my practice." Gu Shilian snorted, "Cooking wine is in the cupboard, from tomorrow onwards, let you drink half a catty every day." Gao Chang said, "When you go to your brother's house, you never let me drink." It's either coconut milk or juice. Gu Shilian said, "If you are not afraid of stomach pain, just drink it." Get a stomach piercing again, and over the years I've fed dozens of turtles to dogs! ”
Two people do not mention love, but every sentence is love, one makes a laugh, although it is punishment, but never tears the face, accompanies each other to act, and tolerates each other's shortcomings.
Gu Shilian's family conditions were still good when they were young, but Gu Shihai's family went to the countryside to become Zhiqing, Gu Shilian was released at the age of sixteen, Gu Shilian was distressed by his brother's family, transferred the house to Gu Xiao, took Gu Xi with him to take care of, for Gu Shilian's "poverty alleviation" behavior, Gao Chang did not say a word, and supported his wife one hundred percent.
However, over the years, gu Shilian among the three brothers and sisters has become more and more miserable, dragging a body of illness, the family's money has come down several times, radiation therapy, chemotherapy, PET plus various drugs, there is little left, and gao Chang's salary is only enough to maintain the basic expenses of the family, forcing Gu Shilian to change the house.
Gu Shilian and Gao Chang planned to sell the original three houses, buy a small house with a cheaper price, give half of the money to Duo Duo to study abroad, leave Duo Duo's dowry and pension money, and buy a house again with the remaining money, in order not to embarrass gu Shihai's family, the couple also avoided going to Baiyun Apartment to see the house.
But Gu Shihai's family did not show any embarrassment, but felt very at ease, Gu Shilian was strong in life, although he could not see Su Wangdi's shrewd appearance, but he also did not care to open his mouth, one was sulking in his heart, although Gu Shilian's old house was sold, but this side has not yet received payment, that side is already collecting debts.
Live thoroughly, do not calculate and calculate everything
The disaster is not alone, Gu Shilian went to the hospital for examination, the cancer cells have begun to spread, if not treated in time, life will be threatened, Gu Shilian is not willing to tell the two brothers, a person to carry, or Gao Chang went to a friend to borrow money, opened his mouth to ask his brother to borrow money.
Gu Shilian was kind to Gu Shihai's family, Gao Chang thought that they might be grateful, so he asked them to borrow money, and as a result, Gu Shihai and his wife refused on the grounds that "there is no spare money, money is stored in the bank, and it is not cost-effective to take it out".
Gao Chang was helpless, his relatives on his side could not borrow any money, the money in the family was basically hollowed out, he could not watch Gu Shilian die, he could not help but open his mouth at the Gu family's dinner table, said Gu Shilian's condition, and was scolded by Gu Shilian after returning home.
Gu Shihong took out three hundred thousand, he couldn't watch Gu Shilian fall into a desperate situation, he blamed his sister, dead for face, "It's normal for his family to adjust his position, don't be afraid to trouble others, his family is used for trouble." Gu Shihai and his wife were indifferent at the dinner table.
Gao Chang loves and hates this woman, would rather suffer himself, but also to maintain a strong personality, knife mouth tofu heart, Gao Chang evaluated his wife: good people, is a bad temper, but I am a, I like this kind of silly thirteen-point woman!
Gu Shilian did the operation, Gu Shihong took 100,000 to his sister, so that she could accept it, and even Feng Xiaoqin took out 50,000 yuan to give to this aunt who was not related by blood, and also took the initiative to accompany the bed, but Gu Shihai's family did not move.
Although Gu Shihai and his wife did not have a good life, Gu Xin had already worked, and he also married the children of high-ranking cadres, and his aunt was sick, and Gu Xin only sent some fruits and sat down and left. Like ordinary colleagues, in the end, it is a serious illness at the stake of life, not a cold and fever.
Gu Xin lived in his grandmother's house until he was six years old and went to Heilongjiang, when he was a child, he was the closest to his aunt, Gu Shilian also favored him, and the newlywed banquet kicked Gao Chang away, drove him to the living room, and slept with his nephew in his arms. The purple ice cream, medium ice bricks, cream apricot meat, and cupcakes given to Gu Xin have never been broken.
Gu Shilian was hurt by this family, fortunately, there is a life-and-death Gao Chang who has been guarding her, otherwise Gu Shilian will face the pain of the cone, Gao Chang told Gu Shilian: That house, we don't have to worry about it, just when we are doing charity, donate it.
On the one hand, this sentence is to comfort Gu Shilian, on the other hand, it also reflects the transparency of Gao Chang as a person, those who are not worthy, it is enough to suffer a loss once, there is no need to take their own bodies to put angry with others, forget and ignore, is the best way to deal with.
When Mrs. Gu suddenly fell ill, Gao Chang, as a son-in-law, took turns with Gu Shihong to accompany the old woman to the bed every day, but it was the eldest son Gu Shihai, who was like a baby, and when it came to accompany the bed, he pretended to have a stomachache and slept, and even the old woman did not want to see the last side.
There is such a big brother-in-law, who has long been annoyed with him, but Gao Chang is not annoyed, but instead advised Gu Shilian to relax his heart and not to worry, he just does not want to see their brothers and sisters turn against each other, and does not want Gu Shilian to be sad.
Accompanying the bed in front of the mother-in-law was originally a matter of three children, but Gu Shilian had just been discharged from the hospital at that time and needed to recuperate, Gao Chang was afraid that Gu Shilian had guilt for her mother and brother, and she was even more afraid that she would be accused of filial piety by others, so she took care of the elderly instead of Gu Shilian.
Gao Chang used his own way to protect Gu Shilian's life, after Duo Duo went abroad, only Gao Chang accompanied Gu Shilian, every time he went home for dinner, Gao Chang was present, never let Gu Shilian go back to his mother's house alone, carrying a big bag to give his wife face, when Gu Shilian could not bear the pressure of life, Gao Chang would always be the one who silently took over his wife's burden.
Gao Chang is the most worthy man to marry
Gu Shilian is the happiest married person among all the people in the Gu family, she has experienced illness, infertility, betrayal and other things in her life, none of which are so easy to face, but she met a man who loved her, and everything was borne with her.
On the other hand, the rest of the Gu family, although they were "cleaner" than Gao Chang before marriage, but after marriage, they brought their wives into a field of chicken feathers, but they themselves were hands-off treasurers, and did not treat their wives as people.
Gu Shihai married Su Wangdi, never cared about family affairs, even the original Gu Xiao's education problems were completed by Su Wangdi alone, and finally forced Su Wangdi to become a shrew, and raised Gu Xiao into a white-eyed wolf who was even more indifferent than him.
Gu Xi married Ge Yue, a high-ranking child, but was treated as an invisible person by Gu Xiao, pestered his ex-girlfriend, cheated on Feng Xiqian, and gave birth to a kind and gentle good girl, "forced Liang to be a prostitute", in order to save him to "sing" to other men.
Although Gu Lei was kind, he did not take on any responsibility, forcing a capable daughter-in-law to calculate step by step, killing himself and ruining Feng Xiaoqin's happiness in life.
Among so many men and women in the Gu family, only Gao Chang can be called a good man, he was not so glamorous before marriage, nor was he so well-behaved, but after marriage, he used the best action to love his wife for a lifetime.
I never think that a man who has never been in love, does not smoke and does not drink is a good man, on the contrary, such a man is usually too much bondage, but in his bones is irregular, once he has the capital and opportunity, he will be like a wild horse that is out of control, galloping in the women's bush, not putting you in the eyes.
Just like Gu Xiao, before marriage, he looks like a humble and obedient gentleman, but after marriage, he shows his true face of malice, he has a high degree and a good job, but he does not have a heart that can be kept, this is not a question of love and non-love, this is a problem of character, a really good man, even if he does not love, will not cheat in marriage.
Of course, like Gu Shilian, it is a lifetime of luck to find a person who loves and is suitable, there are many men like Gao Chang, and the most important thing is to see if you can lower him.