The selfishness of Gu Shihai and Su Wangdi is chilling; in order to satisfy his own sense of existence, Gu Xin completely forgets his identity as a husband and father, and Feng Xixi's behavior is too unbearable. It's a pity that Ge Yue, to the finale are still in contradictions and entanglements, should I divorce or save my husband?
Heart dwelling
Zhan Xiang, the hairy-footed son-in-law, came to the door for the first time, carrying many gifts, excited that his legs and feet wanted to cramp, and he wanted to have a happy dinner with the Gu family.
Su Wangdi was too excessive, indiscriminately accusing Feng Danian of stealing the ring, Feng Xixi in order to help her brother prove her innocence, publicly exposed the ambiguous relationship with Gu Xin, so that this dinner was not happy and dispersed.
Zhang Guijiang was critically ill, and after being discovered by Feng Xiaoqin, he hurriedly called an ambulance and sent him to the hospital. Gu Qingyu arranged for Grandma to be admitted to the VIP ward and suggested that everyone take turns taking care of Grandma.
Gu Shihai's first reaction was, what about the small ones? This means that since they take turns, they are not biased, and they are rotated according to the heads of each family. This surprised his wife, and Su Wangdi looked at her husband with wide eyes.
It can be seen from this sentence that Gu Shihai does not have a little responsibility, which is the appearance of being a big brother?
Gu Shilian said directly that the three of them could take turns, and there was no need to bother the younger generation anymore, after all, the younger generations all had work to be busy.
Zhang Guijiang told Feng Xiaoqin on her deathbed that when Gu Shilian wanted to transfer a house of her family to her eldest brother free of charge, she pretended to be confused as a mother, and she was indeed eccentric, but the purpose was to let her children get by, after all, Gu Shihai's family was too depressed at that time. Only when the children are too peaceful, her life as a mother is better.
Feng Xiaoqin sighed, Mrs. Gu is really not confused at all.
Gu Shihai's selfishness is even worse than his mother's, the family lives in his sister's house for free, not to mention, he sees Gu Shilian sick and hospitalized, he does not want to have money and contribute strongly; every time Gu Shihai comes to his brother's house for dinner, he has not brought fruit or ingredients, just eat a meal in vain and leave.
Boss Shi made a set of mobile phone software, named "What garbage are you", there is garbage classification science, the main business is to collect garbage, but also sell related products, such as garbage cans, garbage bags, garbage processors and so on.
Boss Shi does not take the usual path in business, binding the garbage collection software with the "Wangxing Pavilion" he runs, buying leisure services to send garbage to the door, and discounting at both ends. The garbage collectors are the technicians of the "Xianyun Pavilion", both men and women.
Boss Shi discussed with Zhan Xiang that the project should be implemented in two steps. First of all, take the time to complete the map of the distribution of garbage bins in Shanghai, so that users can identify the nearest garbage bins as long as they open the mobile phone positioning, and also display the classification of dry and wet garbage bins. Then design a small game about garbage classification, you can use Shi Liming's own avatar as the game's identification icon, configure a series of small props, let the user move left and right to throw garbage, into the bucket will add points; if you throw wrong, you will step into the pit, deduct points, scream to use real people to make a sound.
The second step is to learn from the successful experience of garbage classification at home and abroad, build a factory, and introduce garbage disposal equipment.
Hearing that this is a sunrise industry and that there will be policy support in the future, Zhan Xiang praised Boss Shi for being too capable of tossing and agreeing to invest.
Gu Shihong is the head of the industry committee of the "Wanziyuan" community, and Shi Liming intends to obtain Gu Shihong's support first, so that he can base himself on the "Wanziyuan" and gradually radiate to the beach.
Boss Shi said that the first two months were a transition period, and the garbage collection for the elderly living alone in the community was free of charge, and they could go to the door once a day. Other users who make an appointment can enjoy a 50% discount. Boss Shi spoke passionately, saying that this is something that benefits his children and grandchildren, and he will certainly not fail everyone.
Gu Shihong joked in his mouth that Boss Shi was a shotgun for a cannon, all used high-tech, and also kept pace with the times, did not forget the original intention, and was a talent; Gu Shihong felt in his heart that this could be tried, not a bad thing.
Boss Shi said that he would do it, and paid a deposit to order hundreds of sets of garbage cans from Gu Shihai, a set of four colors, divided into dry garbage, wet garbage, recyclable garbage and hazardous garbage.
Gu Shihai was very busy, sitting at home all day, using bamboo to make garbage cans.
Su Wangdi scolded him for having no heart and no lungs, not even his son in order to make money, Gu Xin had been detained, and he did not even think about visiting.
Gu Shihai did not think so, saying that Gu Xin incident, Ge Yue had a second child, this family will use more money in the future, rather than blindly worrying, not to make energy, it is better to make more money for backup, after all, with the cooperation with Boss Shi, his own handicraft can come in handy.
Gu Shihai told his wife that there was yogurt in the refrigerator, which was her favorite pineapple flavor, and he went to the supermarket in the morning to buy it.
Su Wangdi looked at her husband's serious appearance and felt that it was quite funny, and she was not used to it.
Gu Shihai saw that there was a cotton wool in his wife's hair and wanted to help her remove it, but he clumsily hurt Su Wangdi's hair.
Su Wangdi had wanted to elbow her as usual, scolding her husband for being stupid to death, but feeling that the atmosphere today was much warmer than usual, she stopped her arm in mid-air, feeling deeply relieved in her heart.
Gu Shihai hurriedly handed grapes to his wife to eat, asking her not to worry about her son's affairs, saying that there was still him at home.
Su Wangdi almost laughed out loud, habitually scolding her husband " you have a fart ", and then spitting out grape skins when eating grapes, and coincidentally spitting grape skins into the "wet trash cans" that her husband had just made up.
Gu Shihai sighed, saying that Su Wangdi's heart was not bad in this life, but she was too rude and refused to speak well, and she herself suffered losses.
After Zhang Guijiang's death, Gu Shihai realized the preciousness of family affection and suddenly changed into a person.
Gu Shihai often went to his brother's house to visit the door, and there was nothing to do, just wanted to talk to Gu Shihong about home, sometimes at night, sit for a while and then go home. Probably thinking that his mother had just died, the "little tiger" moved out with Feng Xiaoqin again, worried that the second brother's life was too cold.
In this way, driven by Shi Liming, contrary to usual, Gu Shihai gradually became a popular person.
Shi Liming is no longer the unscrupulous boss who was thrown rotten eggs at the residents of the community, and finally became the boss Of Shi with a sense of social responsibility.
Gu Qingyu told her father that the company would send her to Singapore to be the person in charge there.
Gu Shihong sighed that the little girl who was riding on the back seat of his bicycle was now so prominent.
Gu Shihong stood up and asked his daughter not to have any worries, go, and when he turned around, he was full of miserable expressions, and he was ready to digest the loneliness of his future life.
There is a question, Gu Shihong lost his wife in middle age, lost his son in old age, his mother had just died, and his grandson was no longer around. In this case, should Gu Qingyu still go abroad to go to high school? Isn't it also good to stay with your father to work and live, marry and start a family?
Gu Qingyu has paid too much for the entire Gu family, but it gives people a feeling of high cold and unpleasant. This kind of persona is very consistent with the image of Gu Qingyu wearing a pair of sunglasses at his grandmother's funeral.
Sunglasses can be worn at the funeral, but relatives do not wear them, why do You Qingyu wear a pair of sunglasses yourself? After all, she is not a star, nor is she a secret agent, nor does she have an eye disease.
To cover up or to dress up? Do you want to cover up the traces of sadness, or do you want to hide your indifference?
Although it is not, this is just a habit of Gu Qingyu going out, but this is easy to be misunderstood.
Gu Qingyu should think about changing it, and on some occasions, you can let yourself follow everyone.
Many times, Gu Qingyu's efforts are not flattering, and the money is spent, but it is not recognized by everyone. For example, Grandma was critically ill and hospitalized, but she was admitted to a VIP ward, which is likely to be the medical expenses and hospitalization fees paid by Gu Qingyu.
Remember gu Qingyu to Shi Yuan's mother to find a kidney source, pay 500,000 yuan for kidney transplant surgery? It is also a failure to spend money to make a contribution.
What's the problem? In front of your loved ones, there should be one thing to say, and the truth is precious.
Even if Gu Qingyu chats with her father in person, she is always hidden, so it is difficult to achieve happiness, although she has a successful career and is excellent in many aspects.
The breakdown of the marriage is related to Shi Yuan's "excessive self-esteem", and it is also related to Gu Qingyu's inability to listen to him after he finishes, and the misunderstanding arises and deepens. After Gu Qingyu learned the truth from Boss Shen's mouth, even if he was relieved in his heart, he could only choose to let go.
With Gu Qingyu's re-approval, Shi Yuan finally showed a knowing smile. This smile is so comfortable, it's rare.
Seeing this scene, some viewers believe that as long as Shi Yuan does not marry Lily, in a few years he will try to get his career up, and he will still have the opportunity to reunite with Gu Qingyu. The premise is that neither of them can get tired of the others, and they still think of each other.
The old house of the Shi Yuan family was demolished, and after getting the demolition money, the family finally bought a two-bedroom and one-living room new house. Hua Yongyu's bipolar disorder seems to be much better, saying that the family has a new starting point and will live a good life in the future, which makes Shi Yuan almost shed tears.
Even so, I am still not optimistic about Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan's remarriage. Because after having money, the "excessive self-esteem" of Hua Yongyu and Shi Yuan's mother and son changed from explicit shortcomings to hidden shortcomings, but after all, this is a shortcoming that is difficult to change, and once there is induced soil, it will reappear.
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan have a common problem in marriage and love, that is, they regard white lies as a common thing, are burdened by their respective burdens, and cannot show their true selves. In fact, this is the taboo of married life, after all, couples in marriage, to get along day and night, lies are nowhere to hide, which is different from love.
Some feelings, missed is missed, cherished in the heart, but a good memory; deliberately want to trace, will make both sides distorted.
Does Gu Qingyu love Zhan Xiang? In fact, the moment the coin is thrown, the answer in my heart is already clear, and I don't need to look at whether the coin landed on the ground is whether the word was spent. Because since he tossed a coin to choose his feelings, it shows that Gu Qingyu has no love for Zhan Xiang and no feeling of heartbeat.
Only Shi Yuan's bookish anger made Gu Qingyu remember, and only when Shi Yuan performed well did Gu Qingyu show people in the image of a bird.
Detailed shots are given in the play, hinting at the emotional ending between Gu Qingyu and Zhan Xiang. The two listened to the concert together, and Zhan Xiang fell asleep listening to it. Gu Qingyu turned his head to look at him, and in his consciousness, Shi Yuan was concentrating when he accompanied her to the concert, which showed that Gu Qingyu and Zhan Xiang could not resonate with their souls, and the two were more suitable to be friends.
In order to successfully confess Gu Qingyu, Zhan Xiang rehearsed with Feng Xiaoqin in advance. Unexpectedly, Feng Xiaoqin faked the drama and really did it, confessed to Zhan Xiang on the spot, Zhan Xiang was very moved, he heard it, in order to avoid embarrassment, pretending that Feng Xiaoqin acted too really, he listened to crying.
This shows that Zhan Xiang recognizes Feng Xiaoqin's talent, but rejects her pursuit.
Feng Xiaoqin's life can be reversed against the wind, and it is inseparable from the help of four men.
Zhang Guijiang's dying judgment: There are some things, Feng Xiaoqin is stronger than Gu Qingyu.
This kind of praise is similar to Gu Qingyu's comments on Zhan Xiang: a person who speaks Shanghainese well is not necessarily a Shanghainese; although Zhan Xiang can't understand Shanghainese, he is quite like a Shanghainese: reasonable, obedient, and kind.
"Heart Residence" Feng Xiaoqin gave people a poor impression at the beginning, let the sister live in the Gu family for a long time, over-nagging Gu Lei is a nest of waste, calculating to borrow money to buy a house, forcing her husband to die, before marriage there is a son named Feng Danian, raised as a brother in his hometown, which is similar to cheating marriage.
After Gu Lei's accidental death, Feng Xiaoqin deeply reflected on herself, and she had to take root and sprout from the desperate situation, live in the sun, and achieve something. Feng Xiaoqin started from delivering takeaways, to becoming a shareholder of the "not too late" nursing home, and obtaining 10% of the shares of the "not late" group donated by Zhan Xiang, her spirit of perseverance and hard work is precious.
As the finale approaches, the audience finds that Feng Xiaoqin has shortcomings, but there are more advantages, there is no lack of shining, she belongs to the image of a progressive woman who has the courage to reflect, and has a correct sense of morality.
Looking at Feng Xiaoqin's growth environment and education level, she can live to this state, which is already very good. This is inseparable from the four men Gu Lei, Zhan Xiang, Ding Yuanzhi and Shi Liming.
1, Feng Xiaoqin just came to Shanghai, do business to know Boss Shi, she knows that Shi Liming has a bad eye for her, she will use him as an interpersonal support at the same time, keep vigilant. Through Boss Shi, Feng Xiaoqin got to know Zhan Xiang and felt that Zhan Xiang was a good person. Zhan Xiang is a matchmaker for Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei.
2, because of the marriage with Gu Lei, let Feng Xiaoqin, a foreign sister, become a daughter-in-law in Shanghai, and then have a beautiful yearning for life, she forced Gu Lei to take the accounting certificate, is to feel that her own man to be self-motivated, the family will be thriving, to get this spirit, as to whether it has passed the test, it is secondary.
Feng Xiaoqin did not see that the Shanghai hukou she had obtained through marriage was too heavy, but Feng Xixi regarded herself very highly, and felt that compared with Gu Qingyu, she was only one Shanghai hukou. This can't help but surprise people, who gave Feng Xixi's courage? Is it because listening to Liang Jingru's song "Courage" is too devoted?
Through Feng Xixi's unscrupulous means to achieve her goals, and her style of "knowing three when three", the shining points on Feng Xiaoqin's body are reflected.
After Feng Xiaoqin moved out with her sister and son, there was still a portrait of Gu Lei hanging in the residence, and from time to time she would incense her deceased husband, which showed that Feng Xiaoqin was not a person who forgot her roots, although there was no love between her and Gu Lei, but at least the husband and wife love was still there, and it was also considered to be affectionate and righteous.
Feng Xixi suggested to her sister that since she had moved out to live, she simply broke off contact with the Gu family. A sentence exposed that Feng Xixi was a person who forgot her roots, even if the Gu family treated them badly, after all, there was a grace to live under the roof. Feng Xixi is called wiping her mouth and being ungrateful, no wonder she thinks that if she wants to marry Gu Xin, everything will not become an obstacle, even if he has a wife and children.
Regardless of work, or life, Feng Xixi has no bottom line, saying that what is like taking a cold bath, feeling cold at the beginning, washing up can not take care of anything, but it is refreshing.
Feng Xiaoqin pointed out that the "little tiger" surname is Gu, Gu Yin is the only bloodline of the Gu family, and he can't help but let the old man see the child. This shows that Feng Xiaoqin is reasonable, and Feng Xixi has been lost by the lights and wine of the metropolis, and even the conscience of being a human being has been lost.
Seeing that her sister was so unbearable, Feng Xiaoqin asked Feng Xixi to get out, and she could only do so, and the sisters were each sad.
3. Due to the closeness and interaction with Ding Yuanzhi, Feng Xiaoqin's reflection and unusualness are highlighted.
Ding Yuanzhi had feelings for Feng Xiaoqin at the scene of the blind date. Feng Xiaoqin, after hearing Shi Yuan's persuasion, also wanted to be herself and give herself a chance before she began to associate with Ding Yuanzhi. The two watched a movie together, Ding Yuanzhi first sent flowers, and then took Feng Xiaoqin to see the marriage room, and also wanted to meet his parents and talk about marriage.
Hearing Feng Xiaoqin say that she had broken up with Ding Yuanzhi, Zhan Xiang wondered, thinking that this Ding Yuanzhi's wealth was equal to his, and she was still rushing to pursue Feng Xiaoqin, and she had no reason to refuse others.
It turned out that Feng Xiaoqin understood that she did not want to use marriage to ascend to the throne like Gu Lei when she was in her twenties, she had no feelings for Ding Yuanzhi, so she rejected the kindness of others as soon as possible, and did not delay each other, Feng Xiaoqin had to rely on herself to work hard to make a wonderful life.
4. Zhan Xiang is a nobleman of Feng Xiaoqin. They are all teenagers who have come to Shanghai with dreams to work hard, and in the "not too late" nursing home, Feng Xiaoqin's handling of people has won the respect of Zhan Xiang.
The two interacted, and Zhan Xiang also had the awareness of using the money earned to assume certain social responsibilities, so as to improve himself from the inside out.
Zhan Xiang not only invested in the nursing home, but also invested in the business of Boss Shi, and the "not too late" nursing home gradually developed into the "not late" group.
The reason why Zhan Xiang gave 10% of the shares of the "not too late" group to Feng Xiaoqin is to thank Feng Xiaoqin for her efforts all the time, without her, there would be no current "not late" group.
Zhan Xiang hugged Feng Xiaoqin in public, and Feng Xiaoqin was also very excited to respond to Zhan Xiang's hug, which won a round of applause.
Therefore, Feng Xiaoqin has become a shareholder, and her wish to buy a house in Shanghai is likely to come true.
On the other hand, Feng Xiaoqin can become a shareholder of "not too late" from a migrant girl, and she has at least done the following four major things.
A. "Not too late" accidental fire, Feng Xiaoqin disregarded her personal safety and ran into the fire to rescue Grandma Zhang;
B. Feng Xiaoqin interceded for the mother (Li Yuqin) of Sanqianjin, indicating that she had a deep reflection on Gu Lei's accidental death and was also sympathetic;
C. Discovering that Feng Xixi and Gu Xin were ambiguous, Feng Xiaoqin and Ge Yue introduced the object to Feng Xiqian and reprimanded her sister;
D. Feng Xiaoqin's care for Zhang Guijiang, who is critically ill, is praised.
What the elderly need most is real companionship and care, physical needs and emotional needs, which are not necessarily solved by spending money to hire a nanny or escort.
For example, Zhang Guijiang knows her granddaughter very well, and she doesn't want to bother Gu Qingyu when she is ill, and she knows that her granddaughter can't take care of her, so she says that she can cook bowls of wontons at home and eat them, she is busy working and does not have to come back; seeing that grandma is hospitalized, Gu Qingyu stays behind to accompany her, and she just wants to order a takeaway and let grandma drink a bowl of hot porridge.
As for the troublesome work of wiping the old man's and urine, Feng Xiaoqin is still needed to do it.
The elderly are often accompanied by relatives. Therefore, there is a saying that "parents are here, do not travel far".