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Looking at the fat cat jumping into the river from the perspective of "The Origin of the Family, Private Property and the State", the essence is the deformation of the high bride price?
Another warrior of pure love lost to the world.
Let's take a look at the fat cat jumping into the river, because his girlfriend broke up, the fat cat chose to end his life.
Why is there so much controversy about the fact that the event of dying for love has happened?
Because the fat cat also gave the woman more than 60,000 yuan before jumping into the river, and wrote a voluntary gift, he really even thought of the follow-up troubles for her.
During the two-year relationship, the man spent a total of 510,000 yuan.
The huge sunk cost made the woman's family no longer silent.
The current marriage market generally believes that the man should spend money, because the woman belongs to the party who suffers in the marriage and love relationship.
But the world also generally believes that the man spends all the money on the woman so that the woman can enter into marriage with the man.
This is the most essential contradiction of the fat cat jumping into the river: the man pays a huge sunk cost in order to get married, but the man and the woman do not go to the end, so whether the woman should return the money.
In fact, this logic is the same as the logic behind the high bride price.
Why does a man's courtship have a huge monetary cost?
The high bride price is definitely a product of the feudal and backward agricultural society, but it is still popular in the industrial society and is becoming more and more violent, and there is a reason behind it.
Men collectively criticized whether the high bride price is considered male awakening, I think it is, but it can only be regarded as half-awake.
Because behind the high bride price is definitely the objectification of women, but the reason why the high bride price can arise is actually the inequality between men and women.
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The increasing popularity of high bride price also shows that the living environment of women is getting worse and worse.
That is, when women's rights and interests are violated, the higher the bride price.
Because the high bride price in industrial society is the compensation that women or their parents ask for because they feel that they are losing money.
In fact, all the risks that should be borne by society are transferred to the woman.
The woman is reluctant to take such a high risk, so she wants to pass it on to the man.
But even this part of the risk the man does not want to take or cannot afford it.
The real male awakening should be to fight for more security for women to society.
Protecting women's rights and interests from the perspective of legislation is the fundamental way to solve the problem of high bride price.
There are some men who look down on it but are unwilling to help women for their own selfish interests.
Some of them support equality between men and women that are harmful to themselves, and those that are beneficial to themselves do not support equality between men and women.
In fact, this phenomenon also shows that mainland men as a whole lack respect for women.
But as long as he can really respect women ideologically, he will definitely become the object of snatching by the sisters no matter what the conditions are.
Therefore, the fundamental reason for the contradiction between men and women now is also because women have awakened to the level of respect.
And most of the national men can't be respected ideologically.
Since you can't meet my demands mentally, then I'll either ask for money or not get married.
The gradual development of women's rights into women's boxing is also because the voice of women's rights is not heard, so it gradually evolved into a more radical women's boxing.
I'm going to open a window, and if you don't agree, I'll have to lift the roof.
Whether it is a marriage or a bride price, in fact, at present, different paths are the same, and they are all fighting for women's rights and interests from different directions.
Why is it a loss-making business for women to enter marriage?
There are always people who don't want to believe that women marry at a loss.
In fact, it is very easy to judge who benefits and who has the desire to get married.
Therefore, the proportion of women who do not marry can be said to be rising rapidly.
As long as the Western marriage law is completely copied and strictly enforced, the country will immediately change, and there are absolutely many women who want to get married.
Women in love don't seem to be at a loss, but marriage is a loss, because marriage involves childbirth, so there is exploitation.
Because fertility can have an irreversible impact on a woman's body and work.
In addition, the law does not recognize the value of the labor of housewives, or the labor value of women's childcare.
It stands to reason that labor should produce value, but when this part of labor is not recognized, it involves exploitation.
A marriage that is truly united on the basis of love, as long as it can achieve true equality between men and women, is actually advocated by Engels.
However, this part accounts for too little in the current domestic environment of advocating door-to-door matching.
But I have to admit that marriage united by love is a break from the world, and there is no class and no exploitation.
Whether it was Marx or Engels, they recognized that the marriage system of feudal society was the exploitation of women.
Because the corresponding labor does not get the price it deserves.
As long as there is labor, value is generated, and value is generated, and value should be compensated accordingly.
But women's labor in marriage is neither paid nor recognized.
So this involves oppression and exploitation, and to put it bluntly, the institution of marriage squeezes the surplus labor of women.
Marriage based on love was admired by Engels, because love really broke the world.
However, the current institution of marriage does guarantee the exploitation of women by men.
First, the law does not recognize the value of the labor of female housewives, nor does it subsidize the physical trauma and work effects suffered by women during childbirth.
Second, the double standard of the law and the punishment of violence and murder against the wife and stranger is actually a disguised statement that the wife belongs to the private property of the man, so the punishment will be reduced.
Because of the unfairness of the law, because labor is not recognized and lives are not protected.
Therefore, under the current marriage system, men do exploit women.
Maybe the language is not in place, but this exploitation is definitely what Engels opposed.
Of course, I think that even if it is a high marriage, it is actually what Engels and they want to eliminate.
Because what they want most is to eliminate classes.
Under the same class, I think women will indeed suffer more than men, and women want to marry high in order to make themselves suffer less.
As long as there is no real equality between men and women, exploitation will persist.
In addition, during the relationship, whether a woman is chasing a man or a man is chasing a woman, the need to use the word "chasing" itself means that the two parties in love are not matched.
The other party must have something that he doesn't have, whether it is appearance, conditions, or emotional value.
The hanging of comprehensive strength requires one's own side to pay something to maintain a balance.
The fat cat jumping into the river is essentially the person who conquered him with his comprehensive strength with money.
Whether it is a boy or a girl, what you pursue is higher than yourself, so you need to pay something for the corresponding salvation.
Therefore, the men and women in the fat cat jumping incident are actually unequal.
Whether it's a boy or a girl, the people who pursue it are all a minority in the group.
He loves her looks, she loves his money, and she was willing to gamble and lose.
But this balance was broken when she broke up and he jumped into the river!
There is never a shortage of one-way love in this world, but two-way love is pitiful, love is precious, but life is only once.
Information source: China Blue News "The 21-year-old boy fat cat jumped into the river and passed it to the woman 180W sister live broadcast in response to the total transfer of 51W and more than 30W unpaid. 》
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