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Bertrand Russell of England said that giving up certain things you want is an integral part of a happy life.
Only when there is giving and giving can life go ashore.
Holding on tightly and not letting go does not necessarily belong to you, and holding on tightly does not necessarily mean that the other party will stay for you.
Time moves forward, we must also learn to look forward, do not embarrass ourselves, and do not belittle ourselves.
Humble and flattering, pandering to please, will only become more and more embarrassing, and the more you live, the more unhappy it becomes.
Learn to be transparent, and there will be less troubles in life.
Let go when it's time to let go, and let go when it's time to let go.
Sometimes it's not that you don't have enough ability, but it is precisely because you understand that life requires trade-offs.
Happiness also comes at a price, and that's how life is.
After walking through thousands of rivers and mountains, walking through the dusk and sunset, I really found that letting go when I should put it down is a kind of wisdom and a new life.
1. Let go when you should let go and fulfill yourself.
Do you think, why don't others come to fulfill themselves?
I think that others are embarrassing me, and I think that others can't get along with me.
In fact, I have what I want in my heart, and I am reluctant to let go, but I can't stand the grievances.
I can't take it and I can't take it, I can't put it down, it's really tiring to live like this.
This is self-torture.
It is necessary to clearly understand the fact that in this world, there is only giving and gaining.
Life is like this, what do you want to have? What do you lose?
There are no absolute winners in life, and there are no absolute chips.
Don't wait for others to perfect yourself, it's better to perfect yourself than to perfect yourself.
Can you have both?
Let go of what should be let go, no longer be so persistent, and life will not be so embarrassing.
Sometimes what is lost is not necessarily what is lost.
See what we think? See how we deal with it?
As long as you can think openly, the sky is cloudless, and it is as vast as it is.
But if you can't carry it, then stop, or throw away some of it, so that you can continue to move forward.
Life is to constantly adjust, keep changing, people for a lifetime, don't be so careful.
Those who will suffer losses are often the ones who end up being fulfilled by themselves.
Not to get entangled with bad people and bad things, and not to let yourself fall into danger, this is a lifelong lesson.
Second, let go when you should let go, and the future is worry-free.
Xiaomei said that she remembered that when she used to move things by herself, she always tried her best to help with the most things.
It's always troublesome, and I'm always afraid of moving back and forth several times.
It's okay to do this once, but when I look back like this, I can't bear it, I'm haggard, and sometimes I even start to complain.
However, now that I am not like this, if I can't get something, I will take it twice, and if it doesn't work, I will take it three times.
know how to leave a way out for yourself, and don't push yourself to a dead end again and again.
If you can only eat one bowl of rice, you have to force yourself to eat two bowls of rice, in addition to eating to support it, and then you have to worry about yourself.
When your own leader sees this state of you, this state of hard support, in fact, they will doubt your ability.
A person is so stubborn, a person is so stubborn, and he can't even listen to other people's opinions, how can he rest assured that important things will be handed over to you to do?
If you should let go, let it go, and earn your own life.
There are advances and retreats, this is life.
Work is not only work, life is not just life, in fact, it is all about a person's life and character.
You have to learn to pave your own road, don't give up at every turn, and don't hold on.
When you can't do it yourself, you can ask for help, maybe it may not necessarily help you, but at least there is a chance of life.
Such a future is worry-free.
3. Let go when it's time to let go, and blessing will come.
People are sometimes very persistent, obviously they don't love anymore, but they are reluctant to let go.
Look at the current life, live well, if you give up, I feel a little unwilling.
But if you can't let go of learning, how can a new life come, and how can you be reborn?
If you really don't love each other, two people will only hurt each other if they are tied together.
You will not be kind to me, and I will not be kind to you, in the eyes of each other are enemies, enemies.
Is it really worth it for the unwillingness in my heart?
What should be their own is their own after all, and what should not be their own will be lost one day.
On this path of cultivation, it was extremely difficult to walk, and there was no progress in the slightest.
On the contrary, it has retreated a lot, but the more I live, the more unsatisfactory and difficult it becomes.
Where does the blessing come from? Is this a blessing?
When a person's heart has gone away, then it is better to accept it calmly.
I wish each other well.
This is the greatest dignity, and this is also the last dignity, please be sure to keep it.
This is also the courage to start anew, on the long road of human growth, cultivate your own heart, and walk your own way.
Believe in yourself, let go when you should let go, and your own blessings will come.
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