In each age group, we will have our own desires, but also have their own expectations of life, as well as make themselves feel comfortable with the way of life, there is no doubt about it, and for the elderly, when they have worked hard all their lives, their children's lives are gradually stable, and after they come down, they do not need to think too much about their children's life problems, but in the remaining time to live their own lives, to enjoy the second half of their lives, as children, we should not block the decision of parents, As long as they can live happily, as long as they can be healthy, this is the biggest expectation.
In today's life, many of the elderly in retirement after the way of life there are many kinds, good health of their own living, do not let the children worry, they can also live comfortably, if the body is not good, they will live with their children, can have a care, and there are some people will choose to live in a nursing home, after all, some people can take care of themselves all day, but also can make the children rest assured, of course, there will be some people who choose to ask a nanny to take care of themselves, no matter which way of life for the elderly, As long as they feel happy, as long as they can live a good life, their children should not oppose, but should support, rather than worrying about the body of the elderly while trying to let the elderly leave assets for themselves.
The 60-year-old aunt hired a nanny to enjoy life, how much the pension cost, the daughter-in-law was angry: I am not responsible for the pension
60-year-old Aunt Lin has been relatively idle since retirement, there is no special thing, she and her wife were working in the local factory before, after retirement, the two people will be happy to start their own pension life, their son has now become a family, life is not bad, Aunt Lin two sons bought a house for their son, bought a car, married, in order to help the child relieve the pressure of life, Aunt Lin also helped the child to bring a few years of children, In fact, for Aunt Lin, she did help the children a lot, worked hard all her life, and finally retired in the previous few years, which began the old-age life of the Eight Classics.
After retirement, Aunt Lin and her wife were still very uncomfortable at the beginning, in life, two people are always idle, Aunt Lin even wants to live at the child's home, to cook for the child, to alleviate the pressure of the child and the daughter-in-law's life, but was rejected by the son, in the words of the son:
"The two of us generally don't eat at home, we don't come back at noon, we only cook occasionally in the evening, you and my dad are retired, just rest well, my dad is not in good health, you two are doing well is my biggest wish, don't worry about us." 」
Finally Aunt Lin is no longer reluctant, on weekdays she and her wife two people eat every day, watch TV, and then go downstairs to visit, these have become daily, although the law, but it is not boring, Aunt Lin's body is still very good, but Aunt Lin's wife is not very good, now after getting older, there are symptoms of Senile dementia, memory is very poor, and often do not know where they are, plus the legs and feet are not good, the side has always needed people to take care of, sometimes can not recognize Aunt Lin, This also makes Aunt Lin feel a little tired in life, Aunt Lin is actually quite optimistic about life, although she usually can't help but dislike her wife in life, but she still endured it.
Not long ago in the chat with the old friend Aunt Lin complained about the busyness of life now, busy for a lifetime, I thought that after retirement, I could have a good rest and enjoy life, but unexpectedly my wife had another thing, and I had to continue to be busy, and the words revealed my dissatisfaction, and the old friend said that after listening to it, she said that aunt Lin asked for a nanny, so that she could not only take care of her wife, but also let Aunt Lin rest well, and the old friend also said that it is a very common thing for the elderly to ask for a nanny in today's life. There are kinds of nannies who specialize in the service of the elderly, take care of people, take care of life is very responsible, and it is not expensive.
After Aunt Lin listened to this suggestion, she learned about the nanny with her old friend, and finally 5,000 hired a full-time nanny every month, lived at home, and hired for two months, after all, she was also a little uneasy and wanted to try it first.
Unexpectedly relaxed, Aunt Lin's life has changed a lot after hiring a nanny, every day she does not have to worry too much about what to eat, what to eat, and even do not have to worry about the family always need to clean up, but the nanny will do these things to finish, and Aunt Lin also has a lot of time to do what she wants to do, sometimes with old friends to travel around, sometimes with old friends to play mahjong, play cards, do not have to worry about their wives no one to take care of, I have to say that the quality of life of Aunt Lin has been greatly improved in the month of hiring a nanny, and the wife is also taken care of all the time, which seems to make her feel that this money is not spent in vain, after all, after retirement, in addition to her and her wife's deposits, the two people's monthly pension is also eight or nine thousand yuan, in addition to the nanny's five thousand yuan salary, plus a thousand yuan of living expenses, it is still very generous, naturally very happy, friends around them have also opened their mouths to envy Aunt Lin.
But soon Aunt Lin asked the nanny of this matter daughter-in-law to know, although the son is supportive, but the daughter-in-law does not agree, she feels that Aunt Lin now enjoys life too much, obviously she can complete the things, but also have to spend money to hire a nanny, she can't help but talk to Aunt Lin about this matter:
"Mom, you are still so healthy, now it is too expensive to hire a nanny, a day to cook, clean up the house is so much money, is not too expensive." 」
Aunt Lin said:
"This is a full-time nanny, that is, every day at home, it is still very good, we also enjoy enjoy life, your father's body needs to be taken care of, I can't be in front of him all the time, I can also worry a lot with a nanny." 」
The daughter-in-law then retorted:
"Aren't you going to save us some money at all?" We both have to live this day, and we still expect you to help us, you and my dad's pension is so high, you can't spend much. ”
After hearing her daughter-in-law's words, Aunt Lin was suddenly dissatisfied:
"Expect me to give you the money?" You ask my son if he wants to help enough, he has not helped enough, it is difficult to retire, and you still have the idea of our pension? Are you talking as a junior? ”
The daughter-in-law was also angry:
"That line, I am not responsible for the pension, you will ask the nanny to retire in the future."
Aunt Lin also said when she saw the situation:
"You didn't give me a pension either!" Moreover, even if I give you a month's pension, you are not as good as her. ”
Seeing that the two people were about to quarrel, Aunt Lin did not speak again, got up and walked away, did not want to argue too much, in fact, Aunt Lin also thought about whether she spent money is a bit of a big deal, but she also asked her wife later, and her wife also felt that it was better to ask a nanny, so that Aunt Lin could also relax a little, without worrying all the time, and Aunt Lin has been busy all her life, and the two people now have their own time to live, to enjoy, naturally want to be happy, This made Aunt Lin make up her mind to hire a nanny, but she did not dare to hire a nanny to live, just hired for two months, wanted to try it, and then retired, after all, she did not think about hiring a nanny to live, and the reason why she was so angry was because she felt that her daughter-in-law's words were all about running to her own pension, and wanted to save money for her, so she was very dissatisfied, Aunt Lin's son also advised his parents to be happy after knowing this matter, and what he wanted to do. After all, when a son always does not want his parents to be sad.
Write at the end:
The life of the elderly in their later years is actually very much in need of children to care, but in today's social life, the pressure of young people is there, but also can not always accompany their parents to do filial piety, this is also the status quo, many elderly people can also understand the pressure of their children, so they will not live together to add trouble to their children, but for children, they should also understand the minds of the elderly, as far as possible to give them the desired state of life, rather than just their own considerations, to hinder the interests and lifestyles of the elderly, Moreover, you should not put your mind on the pension of the elderly, no matter how much, as long as the elderly can live happily, live comfortably, and be able to be happy after retirement after a lifetime of busy work, this is the most important, what do you think?