I once read an article by Lu Xun, in which, in the face of the suffering and joy around me, Mr. Lu Xun said: "The sorrows and joys of human beings are not the same, I only think that they are noisy. ”
Indeed, everyone has everyone's life, everyone lives not easy, as ordinary people, we do not have so much energy to pay attention to the lives of others, because even we ourselves, all are trying to live.
However, as an emotional animal, people grow up in this society, and it is easy to become an empathetic person, so some people often say: "I live a chicken feather, but I still can't see the suffering of the world." ”
As a result, we often struggle with self-lamentation and being touched by others, this struggle, for ourselves, but also for others, or for this struggle, the vast majority of ordinary people, there is no "you, me, him" distinction.
The woman in the video trotted all the way to chase her husband, and after chasing him, she reached out and pulled her husband, using all her strength to stop her husband's departure.
The man is taller, stronger, and walks very fast, and he walks this way on purpose, because only in this way can he keep himself away from this place, and only in this way can his wife not easily catch up with him.
But perhaps, he also has mixed emotions in his heart, he is patient, he is struggling, he is discouraged, he is venting his dissatisfaction in this way, and as an ordinary person, he can only do this.
Ever since the moment he got the results, he understood that this life was not so important, and even if he spent money, he would most likely not be able to keep it.
When people encounter this kind of thing, some will fall into extreme sadness, some will explode into a super desire to survive, and some will be very calm, waiting for the day that will eventually come.
And this big brother's choice is the last one, in a place like the hospital, I have seen too many scenes of broken families and people dying, money and money, and the most painful places in the world are all in the hospital.
The eldest brother gave up treatment, but he did not give up hope, his hope was to be able to leave a little more money, so that his wife and children can be a little easier in the future.
It can be said that his life is not his hope, his wife and children are.
But he didn't say a word, turned his head and left the hospital, as a wife, he naturally understood the reason, husband and wife, and now encountered this kind of disaster, how can he let go?
It can be said that as long as it is a sincere couple, I am afraid that no woman is willing to allow her husband to give up treatment, even if there is the slightest hope, people will hold unlimited hope to treat.
Therefore, the wife ignored her husband's repeated pushes to the side and desperately tried to prevent her husband from leaving. Didn't the wife do anything wrong? For her, money is not hope, husband is, she wants, just he lives.
Some netizens said: In the face of terminal illness, men choose to protect their wives and children after life is worry-free, although they feel sad, but it is also a helpless move, and the tragedy of hospital people and money is staged every day.
Indeed, in a place like a hospital, if you have no money to come in, what is more terrible is that here, the money is not spent, even if you have a terminal illness, it is useless to spend money.
The big brother's actions are really tragic, in the face of illness and death, he has nothing to fear, such a result is not what he wants, he can not decide what the result is, but he can decide how to face death.
In the last moment, he chose responsibility, the responsibility of a man, he is a responsible man, for him, try to keep the family calm for more days at present, and more life security in the future, is the most important.
I have to say that such a person is very distressing, and such a thing is also very touching.
For ordinary people, this situation may fall on each and every one of us, and we are touched by others, and perhaps by others.
This kind of thing is played out every day, no one can guarantee that they will not become a passer-by in this story, all we have to do is to live in the moment and live every day.
Sometimes I really want to, I really want to have no more suffering in the world!