As the saying goes, the more loving a parent is, the more filial piety a child becomes. The less kind the parents are, the less filial the children are. The filial piety of children is closely related to the love and fairness of parents.
As "Parasite" says: Money is an iron, which can iron all the wrinkles of life. Money also plays a very important role in the relationship between parents and children. With money, the relationship between parents and children will become much more harmonious. Without money, the relationship between parents and children will become much more tense.
And those so-called parents are eccentric, after all, it is only because of money. Because there is no money, the relationship between parents and children becomes very tense. Once you have enough money, all the contradictions and disputes may be solved.
01, after dividing the family property, the mother-in-law wants to live in the eldest son's house
Mo Min, who has not had a good relationship with her mother-in-law since she got married, did not expect that her mother-in-law would come to her eldest son with a large bag of things after dividing up her own family property.
Over the years, the in-laws have saved a lot of money. When Mo Min and her husband got married, they also asked for help from their mother-in-law. But the mother-in-law refused to give a penny on the grounds that "there is no money, and after the son grows up and becomes a family, he should no longer nibble on the old age".
Mo Min had no choice but to borrow money from her husband everywhere, which barely managed to make a down payment. After that, the little uncle bought a house in the provincial city, but the mother-in-law suddenly took out 300,000. Even if they were later held accountable by the eldest son and eldest daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law was also righteous, saying that the money was theirs, and they would give it to whomever they loved, and the son and daughter-in-law could not control it.
Mo Min and her husband really couldn't control it, but Mo Min's heart was extremely uncomfortable. Since then, she has no longer deliberately tried to please her mother-in-law, nor has she ever asked for help.
After the little uncle got married and started a family, the mother-in-law began to separate the family and property. Mo Min was still very optimistic at that time, even if the in-laws were more eccentric, they were also sons, and the in-laws would definitely be a part.
02, in-laws do not invite themselves to the elderly
But who knows, the mother-in-law quietly divided the family property, she took 200,000 savings all to the little uncle, saying that the little uncle just became a family and had children, the economic pressure was too great, and the eldest son has been establishing a family for several years, the husband and wife's salary is also quite a lot, and they do not need parental relief.
After dividing up the family property, the mother-in-law proposed to go to the eldest son's home for the elderly, saying that the younger son's family is now in chaos, they can't help much, the economic pressure is also great, they will not add to the chaos.
Looking at the uninvited in-laws, Mo Min felt ridiculous and angry. The younger son is under great financial pressure, so does the eldest son not need to support his family? What's more, before the in-laws came, they also gave all their wealth to the younger son, and the younger son took the parents' pension money, but did not need to give the parents pension.
The husband begged Mo Min with his eyes to agree, saying that it was not easy for his parents to raise their brothers in this life, and hoped that Mo Min would not embarrass his parents. Although her husband said it clearly and clearly, Mo Min still did not want to take responsibility.
In particular, the strong and domineering mother-in-law is not a good person to get along with. In the year she first got married, her mother-in-law had stirred up dissension countless times, saying that she would make rules for her eldest daughter-in-law. Later, seeing the failure to stir up dissension, he instigated his son to divorce Mo Min, saying that Mo Min took his salary to help his mother's family.
03, the eldest daughter-in-law refused: 6,000 pensions per month are all pasted to the younger son
Mo Min was once instigated by her mother-in-law to cry several times, although her husband did not say anything, but the relationship between husband and wife was still affected. Because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the couple quarreled and the cold war was not broken.
Thinking about this, Mo Min directly refused: the in-laws' monthly pension of 6,000 is all pasted to the younger son, and they should go to the younger son for the elderly, not my eldest daughter-in-law who has no grace and affection.
Mo Min resolutely refused to accept her in-laws and let her in-laws point fingers at her, and Mo Min did not flinch. It is not that she is cold-blooded and ruthless, but she knows very well that just by virtue of her in-laws' eccentricity, once they are allowed to live in, then her marriage and family can be declared over.
The in-laws and mother-in-law scolded and grinned and left, and the husband also had a big fight with her, saying that Mo Min was careful and calculating, and even the little things in the moon could remember the revenge for a lifetime.
Mo Min does not think so, selfish is selfish, people do not destroy for themselves, so that they can keep their families and marriages. Once the in-laws are mixed in, it may not be the in-laws leaving, or they will take the children out of the house with them.
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