Chinese, I attach great importance to family affection. Especially in a large family, family affection and human affection will become mutual constraints.
It's just as Su Qian said: human feelings belong to people's feelings, and things belong to things. People who mix things with human feelings can't do big things.
Some people like to talk about human feelings and affection, so as to restrain and kidnap others. Even some people will think that anyone with a conscience will not stand idly by and be indifferent to the plight of their loved ones.
However, there are some human feelings, but they are not so easy to give. Because once you give human affection, maybe others will make all kinds of progress on you.
01, the sister can not have children, almost tragically returned by the in-laws
Mo Min, who has been married for five years, did not expect that the 3-year-old son he had painstakingly given birth to and raised was actually targeted by his sister who had been married for many years but had been unable to have children.
What makes her even more angry is that even her mother-in-law and husband advise her not to be too selfish, and the child is not given to others, but to her family. What's more, the conditions of my sister's house are not bad.
Although she has been married to her husband for five years, Mo Min and her sister, who has been married for many years, have not been able to talk together. My sister got married early, but she has never been able to conceive a child. All kinds of methods have been tried, even test tubes have been done, but the child is pregnant, but it is still not saved.
Mo Min looked at her sister, who looked haggard every time she returned to her mother's house, and couldn't help but feel sorry for her. In this life, a woman who gets married and has children is always an unavoidable fate. But if anything is not satisfactory, it will be pointed out.
Because her sister has not been able to get pregnant, her brother-in-law and in-laws have also been very critical of her. Therefore, the strong sister quarreled with her brother-in-law's mother-in-law's family every three to five minutes, and every time there was a quarrel, she hid back to her mother's house to heal her wounds, and tried repeatedly.
Although her sister returned to her mother's house very often, she did not particularly treat Mo Min, thinking that Mo Min was pitying herself. In order to reduce misunderstandings, Mo Min generally does not mention the child in front of his sister, afraid that his sister will touch the scene.
02, the son's 3rd birthday, the sister generously gave 30,000
On the day of her son's 3rd birthday, her sister still stayed at her mother's house. And this time, the sister who has always searched for the ground has very generously taken out 30,000, saying that it is for his own nephew. When her sister stuffed the red envelope over, Mo Min was buzzing in her head.
Even the mother-in-law, who used to spoil her sister, unexpectedly and generously persuaded Mo Min to accept the money, saying that this was a little bit of her sister's heart. Mo Min is not an overly naïve and simple person, the sister suddenly took out 30,000, it must be nothing to offer, either adultery or theft.
Sure enough, Mo Mingang nervously accepted the red envelope, and the mother-in-law acted as a lobbyist next to her: Your sister has been married for many years, has not been pregnant, and the in-laws have issued an order, and if there is no child within a year, let your sister clean up.
The mother-in-law said, shaking her head and sighing. Seeing that Mo Min was touched, the mother-in-law continued: You see your aunt is so pitiful, she likes Xiao Xuan very much, or you give Xiao Xuan to him, this 30,000 yuan is even a little bit of her heart. As long as you are willing, she will definitely treat Xiao Xuan as her own son. Anyway, you are still young, and now that you have opened up three children, you can have two more children.
The mother-in-law's words made Mo Min stunned for half a day without reacting. Now whose child is not the parent's baby knot, even if no matter how sympathetic to the family, it should not be their own child to give away, to complete others, right?
03, daughter-in-law anger: 30,000 want to walk children, don't dream
Thinking of her sister's 30,000 yuan, it turned out that she had come prepared, and Mo Min was particularly angry. Her son is not a commodity and can be exchanged at will. This is her pregnancy in October, and little by little she pulls hard. The mother-in-law had not brought a day, but she could make a decision for her to give it to her sister so easily.
Mo Min looked at her husband, but her husband was silent. After thinking about it for a while, the husband opened his mouth to persuade Mo Min to agree, saying that the child was not given to outsiders anyway, but to his own sister. Moreover, the conditions of the brother-in-law's family are not bad, and the difference between the child and the child is complete.
Mo Min looked at her husband in disbelief, did she buy her husband for 30,000 yuan? Mo Min refused, and directly threw the red envelope of 30,000 yuan into the face of his sister and mother-in-law, telling them: 30,000 wants to leave the child, don't dream. If you want a child, you will give birth to it yourself, and no matter how hard it is for me, I will not give the child away.
Seeing Mo Min's resolute attitude, the mother-in-law was immediately angry. She has always looked down on Mo Min, believing that Mo Min was born in the countryside and is not worthy of her excellent son. Now just asking her for help, so cold and heartless, completely still treating my sister's marriage as a child's play, it is really not half humane.
The mother-in-law accused Mo Min of being selfish, and said that if her daughter was divorced because of her children, it was also caused by Mo Min. Mo Min felt very aggrieved, but at the moment he did not defend her.
Watching the in-laws pressing forward step by step, Mo Min hugged the child and returned to her mother's house. Her husband has also come to do her thought work many times, saying that they are young, in good health, and it is no problem to have two more children. But his sister was different, and this child was all her hope and sustenance. His sister also said that if Mo Min disliked 30,000 yuan is too small, she can give all her 100,000 savings to Mo Min, just hoping that Mo Min can do what she wants.
Looking at her husband, who was still pleading for her sister, Mo Min was completely disheartened. For the sake of her children, she has been unwilling to mention divorce and completely tears her face. But now it seems that her many tolerances are just bargaining chips in the eyes of her in-laws and husbands.
Today's Topic:
Do you support Mo Min in giving her own son to her sister?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!