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I am more than 60 years old, and the traces of time are etched on my face, but I still vividly remember the hardships of my youth. I came from a poor background, and I worked in the fields with my parents from an early age, until I later worked in the city with my own hands. Although I was poor at that time, I never gave up on my dream. I worked hard and cut back on my contract, and by the time I was thirty years old, I had enough money to buy a small house in the city.
Soon after, my son Xiao Ming was born. Since then, I have pinned all my hopes on him. I watched him grow little by little, with a carefree smile on his face all the time. When I was a child, he was naughty and cute, and when he went to school, he was smart and smart, which made me sincerely proud of him. My greatest wish is that he can live a happier and healthier life than I do.
Whenever I come home from work and see Xiao Ming's really smiling face, I feel that all the hard work is worth it. I vowed to create a happy home for him with my own hands.
When Xiao Ming grew up, he was admitted to university and left home to study. After graduating from university, he came to the city to work hard as I did when I was younger. A few years passed, his career improved, and I knew it was time to give him a stable home.
I told my wife about the idea, and she was a little reluctant but supportive of my decision. "The child has grown up, and it's time to give him a home of his own. I said to my wife, "We're getting old and living in this little house is barely enough, but Xiao Ming is just starting out, and he needs a more spacious place to settle down." "
The wife nodded, with a hint of melancholy in her eyes. I know that she, like me, pinned all her hopes on Xiao Ming.
"Dad, you're so old, how can I let you die in vain?" Xiao Ming frowned and said, "I can work hard to save money by myself, so you can keep that house." "
I looked at my son in front of me with mixed feelings. He has grown up and has his own thoughts and opinions. I was filled with emotion, but I was also sincerely proud of him.
"Xiao Ming, the greatest wish of parents is to see their children be healthy and happy. I said, "You've worked so hard, it's time to give yourself a secure home." It's enough for my old bones to stay in that little house. "
Xiao Ming was persuaded by my sincerity, and he lowered his head, his eyes gloomy.
"Thank you, Dad. He said, "I will cherish your heart." "
In this way, I sold the small house that had been with me for decades. After getting the money, I directly transferred the house payment to Xiao Ming and asked him to choose a new house of his choice.
After more than a month, Xiao Ming finally bought a new two-bedroom house in the city. I still vividly remember that day Xiao Ming came to pick me up and take me to see his new home.
"Dad, this is my new home. Xiao Ming said excitedly, his eyes full of anticipation.
I looked around at the brand new house, which was much more spacious than the old one before us and had a nice finish. I am secretly glad that my son finally has a stable home.
After Xiao Ming moved into his new home, I often visited him. Every time I come here, I can feel my son's anticipation and yearning for a new life. He decorated the house with ulterior motives, revealing the vitality and creativity of young people everywhere.
"Dad, what do you think of this?" Once, Xiao Ming enthusiastically showed me around his new home and asked as he pointed to an abstract painting in the living room.
"Nice and modern. I said with a smile, deciding not to dampen my son's enthusiasm.
I often sit alone at home, looking out the window in a daze, and my thoughts will involuntarily drift away. I remembered the days when I was close to my wife, when we had to eat old indica to make ends meet, but we never complained. We bought a small house with our hands, and we had a place to live. And now, we have sold this house in exchange for a stable future for our son.
Maybe that's the selflessness of parents. When our children grow up, we should learn to let go and give them the space and opportunity to live independently. But even so, I still can't help but pay more attention and worry about my son. After all, he is our pride and all our hopes are tied to.
Just when I was sincerely happy about my son's future, some clues made me suspicious.
One day, I stumbled upon the property deed of Xiao Ming's house, which showed a different area from the number he had told me. I didn't pay much attention to it at first, thinking it might be a mistake. But then it was discovered that the house number on the real estate certificate also did not match what he said.
But doubts are like a thorn in my heart, always firmly rooted in my mind, and I can't shake them off no matter what. I began to secretly pay attention to my son's every move, for fear that he would really violate the bottom line of the law.
It turned out that Xiao Ming had forged some materials when buying a house to obtain a house purchase subsidy. The funny thing is that he was already a high-paid worker and was not eligible for these subsidies at all. But in order to covet that little profit, he took risks and did illegal things.
The moment I learned the truth, it felt like the world was spinning. How could my son, the child I had grown up with, do such a stupid thing? My mind was in turmoil, and I was overwhelmed by anger, disappointment, and sadness.
I immediately found Xiao Ming, took out the evidence in person, and questioned him if it was true. Xiao Ming even quibbled at first, trying to cover up the truth with lies. But in the face of ironclad evidence, he soon had nothing to say.
"I'm sorry, Dad. Xiao Ming lowered his head, and his tone was gloomy, "I know it's wrong, I really know it's wrong." I was just too greedy and confused to do something like that. "
After a fierce ideological struggle, I finally made up my mind to take my son to court.
It was a difficult decision for me. I knew that if my son was accused, our relationship would break down completely. However, everyone is equal before the law, and even if they are their own flesh and blood, as long as they violate the law, they must also be punished.
I can't condone his transgressions just because he is my son. I have to teach him a serious lesson about what is right and what is wrong, and what is to be done and what not to do. Only in this way can he really grow up and embark on the right path in life.
"Dad, are you telling the truth?" When I told Xiao Ming about my decision, he looked incredulous, "Do you really want to treat me like this? How can you be so ruthless?"
I gritted my teeth, held back the pain in my heart, and said in a firm tone: "Xiao Ming, I did this for your own good. I know you can't accept it right now, but I'm sure you'll thank me in the future. "
Xiao Ming obviously couldn't understand my good intentions, he only thought that I was too cruel to send my own flesh and blood to court with his own hands. An unprecedented quarrel broke out between us, and the smell of gunpowder on both sides intensified.
"You're not my father! How can you do this to me?" Xiao Ming roared angrily, his eyes full of hurt looks, "You gave me life, and pushed me into the abyss with your own hands, what are you for?"
Sure enough, when I officially took my son Xiao Ming to court, his reaction was still beyond my expectations. At first, Xiao Ming still put on a fearless and arrogant attitude, as if he thought that I would not dare to really do this.
"Dad, are you really going to take me to court?" He said defiantly, "Do you think the judge will believe you? What evidence do you have?"
I didn't answer, just looked at him coldly. When the trial really began, I took out a piece of conclusive evidence to testify against Xiao Ming's illegal behavior in the process of buying a house.
Xiao Ming's expression changed suddenly. He had intended to quibble eloquently, but when he saw the ironclad evidence, he began to look a little uneasy.
"W-what are these things?" He stammered, his eyes flickering.
"That's the hard proof that you've broken the law. I said calmly, "Now, do you have anything to defend yourself?"
Xiao Ming lowered his head and couldn't say a word anymore. At this moment, the judge adjourned the trial for the final hearing. I looked at my son's helpless appearance, and my heart was mixed.
During the adjournment, there was no further communication between us. Xiao Ming left the courthouse sullenly, and I returned home alone.
During those days, I would often sit in front of the window in a daze. I remembered Xiao Ming's appearance from childhood to adulthood, and how our family loved each other. Before I knew it, the tears were falling, and my heart was torn apart again, and I was in great pain.
Just when I was in great pain, Xiao Ming suddenly took the initiative to come to my home. He lowered his head and looked gloomy.
"Dad, I was wrong. "I knew I was doing something wrong, but I was just too confused and greedy." "
"It wasn't until you took me to court that it dawned on me that everything you did was for my good. You are using this way to teach me a hard lesson and punish me, so that I can change my mind and become a new person from now on. "
Xiao Ming said and finally couldn't help choking. Looking at my son in front of me, my heart felt as if it had been crushed alive, and it hurt my heart.
Through this harrowing experience, I finally realized the weight of family affection.
Family affection is heavy, and it needs to be cherished little by little with actions and responsibilities. Parents should not condone all the faults of their children, but dare to punish them harshly and make them pay the due price for their actions. Only then can they really grow up and understand what is right and wrong.
I took Xiao Ming to court, which is a punishment, but it is more of an education and guidance. I hope that through this process, Xiao Ming can truly realize his mistakes, so that he can completely correct them and get back on the right track in life.
"Xiao Ming, I'm doing this for your own good. I said, "You are my most beloved son, how can I watch you fall?" I would rather push you into the abyss with my own hands than see you lost in no direction." "
After listening to this, Xiao Ming finally fully accepted and understood my good intentions. He lowered his head, tears of remorse welling up in his eyes.
This experience also made me deeply aware of the value of legal justice. Before the law, everyone is equal, even if it is your biological father and son, as long as they violate the law, they must also be punished.
It is precisely because of this solemn law that our society can function in an orderly manner and the relations between people can coexist in harmony. If even the most basic rule of law is not maintained, the whole society will be in chaos.
"Children, you must remember that the law is the bottom line of our survival. In the final hearing, the judge said, "It protects the rights and interests of each of us and ensures the normal functioning of society." Once this bottom line is crossed, it is doomed to severe punishment. "
"So, whoever you are, if you break the law, you will be punished accordingly, without exception. Even biological fathers and sons are equal before the law. "
The judge's words fell like a heavy boulder on the hearts of our father and son, and made us extremely ashamed. Yes, we all did something wrong and deserved to be punished, and this is the price we deserve.
After this cruel lesson, Xiao Ming finally fully understood what is right and wrong, what should be done and what should not be done. He came to me again and solemnly bowed and apologized to me.
"Dad, I'm sorry, I know it's wrong. He said, "You punished me harshly and made me realize my sin." From now on, I will definitely abide by the law and be a fair and honest person again. "
I looked at my son in front of me, and my heart was mixed. Although this experience broke our hearts, I knew that it was an extremely valuable life lesson for Xiao Ming. I believe that if he truly repents, he will be able to get back on the right path in life.
"Good boy, let it pass. I said, "You have grown up, and you will be fully responsible for your actions from now on." I believe you can do better. "
So, we embraced each other again, determined to start all over again, and start a new life.
Although through this painful lesson, Xiao Ming finally realized his mistake and got back on the right path. But as a father, I often feel guilty and blame myself for what I did.
I personally sent my own flesh and blood to court, which is so painful and tormenting for a father. Every time I think of that verdict, Xiao Ming's helpless and sad eyes will come to my mind, making me extremely remorseful and sad.
"How can I do it? Am I going too far?" Whenever I'm alone, I ask myself this question over and over again.
Sometimes I even hate my decision, feeling that I am a cruel father, a terrible parent who doesn't know how to love my children. If I were given a chance to do it all over again, I would rather forgive Xiao Ming than push him into such a catastrophic situation.
I sincerely hope that Xiao Ming can be punished and taught a lesson, instead of conniving at his illegal behavior and watching him fall. That's why I decided to break with him and make that difficult decision.
My wife has been silently supporting and understanding me throughout this process. Although she was shocked and saddened by my decision at one point, she ultimately chose to trust me and support my approach.
"You're doing this for the good of your children. She said, "I know how you feel, you hate Xiao Ming's illegal behavior, so you have to do this." You are punishing him and educating him in your own way. "
I lowered my head, my eyes moist. My wife's words poured into my heart like a warm current, and my guilt and self-blame eased a little. Yes, everything I do is out of good for Xiao Ming.
In addition to my wife, some of my friends also expressed their understanding and support when they learned about this.
"You're doing the right thing, everyone is equal before the law. An old friend said, "Even if you are your own flesh and blood, as long as you break the law, you will also be punished." Not only is it not wrong for you to do so, but it is a terrific decision. "
The affirmation and support of my friends finally lifted the heavy burden in my heart. I realized that I didn't do anything wrong, on the contrary, everything I did was for Xiao Ming's good, so that he could guard against arrogance and rashness, so as to get back on the right path in life.
Xiao Ming was sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment, although the sentence was not long, but it was a heavy blow to him. After he was released from prison, he changed from his previous flamboyance and arrogance, became extremely taciturn, and often lived alone in a daze.
I knew he must be guilty at the moment. He realized how traumatized his actions had been for our family, and he realized that he would live with a heavy guilt on his back.
But it is precisely because of this painful lesson that Xiao Ming will truly realize his mistake and make up his mind to start a new life.
"Dad, I've realized my sin. One day, Xiao Ming took the initiative to come to me and said solemnly, "I know that I once fell and lost and embarked on the road of breaking the law." But you punished me harshly, so that I finally came to my senses and saw the direction of my life again. "
I looked at my son in front of me with mixed feelings. Yes, we all fell at one time, but because of this, we know how to cherish everything in front of us more and know how to live it correctly.
Since then, Xiao Ming has become extremely hardworking and diligent. He gave up all the previous pretensions and pompousness and devoted himself to his work. His career gradually improved, and he also saved a lot of savings.
Soon after, he bought a new house in the city and started a new life. Only this time, he was extra cautious in the process of buying a house, everything was legal and there were no irregularities.
One day, he took me to his new home and showed me his own nest. As I looked around at the brand new house, I couldn't help but think of that scene a few years ago. At that time, we were like this, and the family happily visited Xiao Ming's new home. It's just that behind that joy, there is a earth-shattering conspiracy buried.
"This time, you can rest assured. Xiao Ming smiled and said to me, "I bought this house with my hard-earned money, everything is legal, and there is absolutely no problem." "
I nodded and smiled. I looked at my son in front of me and was filled with relief. Yes, he has finally really grown up and is back on the bright path of life. And that painful experience between us will always be a valuable lesson in his life.
Since then, I have been visiting Xiao Ming and his new home from time to time. Every time I see his life getting better day by day, I am very happy. Yes, all the pain and suffering was worth it, because it finally brought our mother and son back on the right path.