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I am Wang Ming, an ordinary housewife, and an old man who is over half a hundred years old. I have a son named Xiaoqiang who lives with his wife not far from my house. My husband passed away a few years ago, and I have been living with my son's family ever since.
Our family has always lived an ordinary life, although it is not rich, but it is enough to live. However, things changed after I retired. At the time, my husband and I were both retired and didn't have much income, but we had a house and some savings. Our lives are simple, but they are stable.
It wasn't until after our son got married and his wife gave birth to a lovely daughter that our family was considered complete. My husband and I love our granddaughter and are there for her every day, watching her grow up day by day. I even often took her to my part-time commissary after retirement, where she could play and spend one peaceful afternoon after another with me.
However, everything changed when the granddaughter turned three. That day, I received an unexpected phone call. The voice on the other end of the line was a strange woman who claimed to be my son's wife. She told me that my son had found a company and was going to live with us for a few days.
I was surprised and puzzled. When I asked her why she wanted to move out, she was at a loss and wouldn't explain in detail. I had no choice but to hang up the phone, confused and uneasy. I rushed to my son and asked him what was going on. The son avoided answering, saying only that they needed an independent living space, and hoped that we could understand.
My husband and I were very angry and felt that our son should not have treated us like this. However, in the face of his resolute attitude, we are helpless. In the end, we had to choose to accept this fact silently, although we always felt a little unwilling in our hearts.
In this way, the son and his family moved away. They moved not far from us, but rarely came to visit us. My granddaughter rarely had the opportunity to come to our house, and my husband and I began to feel lonely and lonely. The once lively family has become much more deserted, and we can only rely on each other to comfort each other.
As time passed, our lives slowly became boring. Until one day, I received a notice from the government. The notice says that our community will be demolished, and we will receive the corresponding demolition money and a new title deed.
I was pleasantly surprised and thought it was unexpected good news. My husband and I discussed it and decided to use part of the demolition money to improve our lives. However, I thought of the neighbors who had been with us all those years and who had been an important support in our lives, and I felt that I should repay them.
So, I decided to take out a part of the demolition money every month, and each neighbor gave 5,000 yuan as a thank you. I know that may not be a lot for them, but I hope to be able to express my gratitude to them.
I went to my neighbors' homes with a stack of money and handed them over one by one. They were very touched when they heard my intentions and expressed their gratitude. Some neighbors took the money and said, "Sister Wang, what are you doing here, why are we embarrassed to ask for your money?" I smiled and said to them: "This is my own volition, you can accept it, this is my reward for your care and help over the years." ”
Slowly, the neighbors began to accept my heart, and they felt my sincerity and kindness towards them. After receiving the money, some neighbors hugged me excitedly and said, "Sister Wang, you are so good, we will definitely support you forever!" Hearing these words, I also felt very happy and satisfied. I feel that I have done something worthy of my conscience and has added warmth and harmony to our neighborly relationship.
However, just when I thought everything would continue to be calm, an unexpected situation arose. When my son found out about the 5,000 yuan I gave to my neighbors every month, he started to feel uneasy and worried. He thinks I'm wasting my money by doing so, and he's worried that it will affect us
Relationship with his son's family. He started talking to me a lot, trying to convince me to stop doing it.
"Mom, how can you do this?" Xiao Qiang sat across from me and said with a displeased face, "This money was originally saved by you and your father, how can you just take it and give it to others?"
I looked at my son and felt a little puzzled. I tried to explain, "Son, although we have earned this money for our hard work, we are not lacking it now. Moreover, these neighbors have been selfless in helping us over the years, and I feel that I should repay them. ”
Xiao Qiang listened to my words, and the expression on his face became more serious. He said, "Mom, I know you're kind, but you can't just be soft-hearted. This money is meant to be used to support our family, and it is irrational for you to do so. ”
I listened to his words and felt a little aggrieved in my heart. I don't think I'm doing it irrationally, I just want to repay the neighbors who have been kind to us. But looking at my son's serious expression, I can't continue to persevere.
I sighed, trying to calm myself. I said to my son, "Well, I know you're doing it for our good, I'll think about it." ”
When my son saw me say this, the expression on his face softened a little. He said, "Mom, I know you're kind, but you also have to think about our family's life. We are not young now, and the days to come are still long. ”
I listened to his words and felt a little sad in my heart. I know my son is doing it for our good, but I don't want to give up on what I want to do. I know this may cause some conflicts, but I still want to do my best to help those in need.
So, I decided not to give money to my neighbors for the time being, but to use it to improve our own lives. My husband and I discussed it and decided to use the money to renovate the house and make our lives more comfortable.
I silently told myself in my heart that maybe this was the best option. Although I am a little reluctant, I am willing to make some concessions for the sake of our family's harmony. I hope that this matter will pass as soon as possible, and that our family can return to the simple and happy life we used to have.
However, it's not that simple. Just when I thought everything would settle down, an unexpected situation happened again. I received a call from a neighbor who told me that they had received the money I had given out and were very touched by it. He said, "Sister Wang, you are so good, we really don't know how to thank you." ”
I listened to his words and felt a warm feeling in my heart. I didn't expect that I would cause such a big response by doing so. I said to my neighbors, "You're welcome, this is what I'm supposed to do." I hope you can put this money to good use and live a happier life. ”
Hearing my words, the neighbors expressed their gratitude. They said: "Sister Wang, you are really a good person in our community, we will definitely be more united and help each other in the future." ”
When I heard what they said, I felt very happy and satisfied. I feel that everything I have done is worth it, and I hope that through my own efforts, we can make our community more harmonious and everyone can live a happy and fulfilling life.
However, just when I thought everything was going to be better, an unexpected voice shattered my beautiful illusions again. I received a phone call from my son, and his voice was full of anxiety and concern.
"Mom, how can you do this?" Xiao Qiang's voice sounded a little trembling, "Do you know how much of an impact you will have on our family by doing this?"
When I heard my son's anxious voice, I felt a pang of panic in my heart. I knew he must have found out about my money distribution to the neighbors, and he was very upset and worried about it.
I tried to calm myself and asked, "Xiaoqiang, what's wrong with you?
The son said heavily, "Mom, do you know that you are going to make our family worse by doing this? Don't you know that our life is already very difficult now? How can you be so desperate to help others?"
I listened to his words, and I felt a pang of pain and helplessness in my heart. I know my son is doing it for our good, but I don't want to give up on what I want to do. I tried to explain, "Little Qiang, I know you're looking out for us, but I think I should repay the neighbors who have been kind to us over the years. ”
My son listened to my explanation, and the expression on his face softened slightly. He said, "Mom, I know you are kind, but you also have to think about our family's difficulties. We're having a hard time making ends meet now, and you're going to make it worse for us. ”
I listened to his words and felt very heavy in my heart. I know my son is right, and we are already in a very difficult situation. I tried to comfort him, "Don't worry, Xiaoqiang, I'll think about it." I'll figure it out. ”
My son listened to me, and the expression on his face softened slightly. He said, "Mom, you must know that life in our family is not easy. I know you're kind, but you also have to think about the future of our family. ”
I listened to him and felt very guilty and guilty in my heart. I know my son is right, and we are already in a very difficult situation. I decided to stop giving money to my neighbors for the time being, and instead use the money to improve our own lives. I know that this may cause some contradictions, but I am willing to make some concessions for the sake of our family's harmony.
So, I decided to explain the situation to my neighbors and stop handing out money for the time being. I hope they understand my struggles and don't get angry or misunderstand me. I know this may cause some twists and turns, but I'm sure if I can explain it clearly, everything will be fine.
I picked up the phone and called the neighbors one by one to explain my decision. They listened to my explanation and expressed their understanding and support. Some neighbors said, "Sister Wang, you don't have to feel guilty about this matter, we all understand your distress." As long as you can live a happy life, we are satisfied. ”
I was very touched to hear what they said. I know that everything I do is not meaningless, and the understanding and support of my neighbors makes me feel warm. I decided to cherish everything in front of me and live a simple and happy life.
However, just when I thought everything would slowly settle down, an unexpected situation happened again. I received a phone call from the government informing me that our community was going to be demolished and that we would receive the corresponding demolition money and a new title deed.
When I listened to the call, I felt a wave of joy in my heart. I think it's unexpected good news and an opportunity to start over. My husband and I discussed it and decided to use part of the demolition money to improve our lives and the other part to buy a new house for my son's family.
I felt that doing so would not only solve our own life difficulties, but also help my son's family start anew. I believe that if we work together, everything will be better. I am full of confidence and expectation for the future, and I believe that we will be able to live a happy life.
With the demolition money and the real estate deed, I returned home in a happy mood. I told my husband and son the good news, and they were very happy to hear it and said they wanted to make good use of the money to make our lives better.
My husband and I discussed it and decided to use part of the demolition money to improve our lives and the other part to buy a new house for my son's family. I felt that doing so would not only solve our own life difficulties, but also help my son's family start anew.
We started planning how we could use the money to renovate the house and make our lives more comfortable. I felt like I had rediscovered the direction of my life and felt happy.
However, just as we were planning for the future, an unexpected situation arose again. I received a call from my son, and his voice sounded anxious.
"Mom, how can you do this?" Xiaoqiang's voice came, "Do you know how much impact you will have on our family by doing this?"
I listened to my son's words and felt a fluster. I don't know what he came to me for this time, but from his tone, it seemed to be a little dissatisfied and anxious.
I tried to calm myself and asked, "Xiaoqiang, what's going on? Why are you in such a hurry?"
The son's voice trembled a little and said, "Mom, how can you do this? Do you know that your doing this will make our family even worse? Don't you know that our life is already very difficult now?"
I listened to his words, and I felt a pang of pain and helplessness in my heart. I know my son is doing it for our good, but I don't want to give up on what I want to do. I tried to explain, "Little Qiang, I know you're looking out for us, but I think I should repay the neighbors who have been kind to us over the years. ”
My son listened to my explanation, and the expression on his face softened slightly. He said, "Mom, I know you are kind, but you also have to think about our family's difficulties. We're having a hard time making ends meet now, and you're going to make it worse for us. ”
I listened to his words and felt very heavy in my heart. I know my son is right, and we are already in a very difficult situation. I tried to comfort him, "Don't worry, Xiaoqiang, I'll think about it." I'll figure it out. ”
My son listened to me, and the expression on his face softened slightly. He said, "Mom, you must know that life in our family is not easy. I know you're kind, but you also have to think about the future of our family. ”
I listened to him and felt very guilty and guilty in my heart. I know my son is right, and we are already in a very difficult situation. I decided to stop giving money to my neighbors for the time being, and instead use the money to improve our own lives. I know that this may cause some contradictions, but I am willing to make some concessions for the sake of our family's harmony.
So, I decided to explain the situation to my neighbors and stop handing out money for the time being. I hope they understand my struggles and don't get angry or misunderstand me. I know this may cause some twists and turns, but I'm sure if I can explain it clearly, everything will be fine.
I picked up the phone and called the neighbors one by one to explain my decision. They listened to my explanation and expressed their understanding and support. Some neighbors said, "Sister Wang, you don't have to feel guilty about this matter, we all understand your distress." As long as you can live a happy life, we are satisfied. ”
I was very touched to hear what they said. I know that everything I do is not meaningless, and the understanding and support of my neighbors makes me feel warm. I decided to cherish everything in front of me and live a simple and happy life.
However, just when I thought everything would slowly settle down, an unexpected situation happened again. I received a phone call from the government informing me that our community was going to be demolished and that we would receive the corresponding demolition money and a new title deed.
When I heard the news, I felt a burst of joy in my heart. I think it's unexpected good news and an opportunity to start over. I immediately told my husband and son, and they were very happy to hear it and said they wanted to make good use of the money to make our lives better.
My husband and I discussed it and decided to use part of the demolition money to improve our lives and the other part to buy a new house for my son's family. I felt that doing so would not only solve our own life difficulties, but also help my son's family start anew.
We started planning how we could use the money to renovate the house and make our lives more comfortable. I felt like I had rediscovered the direction of my life and felt happy.
However, just as we were planning for the future, an unexpected situation arose again. I received a call from my son who sounded anxious.
"Mom, how can you do this?" Xiaoqiang's voice came, "Do you know how much impact you will have on our family by doing this?"
I listened to my son's words and felt a fluster. I don't know what he came to me for this time, but from his tone, it seemed to be a little dissatisfied and anxious.
I tried to calm myself and asked, "Xiaoqiang, what's going on? Why are you in such a hurry?"
The son's voice trembled a little and said, "Mom, how can you do this? Do you know that your doing this will make our family even worse? Don't you know that our life is already very difficult now?"
I listened to his words, and I felt a pang of pain and helplessness in my heart. I know my son is doing it for our good, but I don't want to give up on what I want to do. I tried to explain, "Little Qiang, I know you're looking out for us, but I think I should repay the neighbors who have been kind to us over the years. ”
My son listened to my explanation, and the expression on his face softened slightly. He said, "Mom, I know you are kind, but you also have to think about our family's difficulties. We're having a hard time making ends meet now, and you're going to make it worse for us. ”
I listened to his words and felt very heavy in my heart. I know my son is right, and we are already in a very difficult situation. I tried to comfort him, "Don't worry, Xiaoqiang, I'll think about it." I'll figure it out. ”
My son listened to me, and the expression on his face softened slightly. He said, "Mom, you must know that life in our family is not easy. I know you're kind, but you also have to think about the future of our family. ”
I listened to him and felt very guilty and guilty in my heart. I know my son is right, and we are already in a very difficult situation. I decided to stop giving money to my neighbors for the time being, and instead use the money to improve our own lives. I know that this may cause some contradictions, but I am willing to make some concessions for the sake of our family's harmony.
So, I decided to explain the situation to my neighbors and stop handing out money for the time being. I hope they understand my struggles and don't get angry or misunderstand me. I know this may cause some twists and turns, but I'm sure if I can explain it clearly, everything will be fine.
I picked up the phone and called the neighbors one by one to explain my decision. They listened to my explanation and expressed their understanding and support. Some neighbors said, "Sister Wang, you don't have to feel guilty about this matter, we all understand your distress." As long as you can live a happy life, we are satisfied. ”
I was very touched to hear what they said. I know that everything I do is not meaningless, and the understanding and support of my neighbors makes me feel warm. I decided to cherish everything in front of me and live a simple and happy life.
However, just when I thought everything would slowly settle down, an unexpected situation happened again. I received a phone call from the government informing me that our community was going to be demolished and that we would receive the corresponding demolition money and a new title deed.
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