There have been many people who have persuaded that between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is nothing more than love and duty. But where the love and duty are in place, all problems will be solved.
Mother-in-law to help you is a love, not to help you is the duty, mother-in-law is not a mother, never expect too much. And the daughter-in-law to support the mother-in-law is the love, not to support is also the duty, the daughter-in-law is not a daughter-in-law, never expect people who are not related by blood, to give you a pension to the end.
In fact, there is no discordant mother-in-law relationship in this world, only grievances that you can't stand. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, ten years to see the mother-in-law, ten years to see the daughter-in-law. Most of the mother-in-law relationship table, the problem is to see the mother-in-law in the previous ten years.
People are all mutual, you treat others wholeheartedly, and others will return you wholeheartedly.
01, "Whoever gives birth to a daughter carries, I am not obliged"
Zhong Qing did not expect that the mother-in-law, who has always been hard-mouthed and will never accept verbal defeat, actually asked for a pension with her son ten years later and said that her daughter-in-law had to support her mother-in-law, which was her obligation.
When she first got married, the relationship between Zhong Qing and her mother-in-law was not so tense. Zhong Qing did not want to embarrass her husband, so she tried every means to please her mother-in-law, hoping to please her mother-in-law and live a harmonious life for the family.
But the mother-in-law is obviously not such a good person, even if Zhong Qing whispers and asks for perfection, but the mother-in-law still has to be unforgiving. He even instigates his son from time to time and provokes the relationship between his son and daughter-in-law.
In the final analysis, the mother-in-law did not look at Zhong Qing, the daughter-in-law. In her opinion, her son has a family background and academic qualifications, while Zhong Qing's family is generally well-off, although the education is comparable, but overall, Zhong Qing's family is still some distance away from her in-laws.
When Zhong Qing was pregnant, her mother-in-law did not come to take care of her, on the grounds that she was not in good health. When Zhong Qing gave birth to her daughter, her mother-in-law only came to the hospital to take a look at it and left, on the grounds that whoever gave birth to the daughter was brought by whom, and I was not obliged.
As soon as the mother-in-law's cruel words were uttered, Zhong Qing's tears could not stop falling. In the end, it was the mother's parents who arrived, and Zhong Qing avoided the fate of taking care of her own confinement and children.
02, 10 years later, the mother-in-law asked to live with her son
After that, the parents were distressed by their daughters, and they also stayed at their daughter's house to help pull up their granddaughters. But fortunately, Zhong Qing's sister-in-law was generous, and after her parents helped her bring up two children, she was also very grateful, and did not stop her in-laws from taking care of the sister-in-law who was married.
In the past few years, Zhong Qing had to go to work again, and asked her mother-in-law to help, so she had to continue to leave her parents at home to help, and also took the initiative to give her parents a monthly hard fee of 2,000 yuan. Parents can not want, but Zhong Qing can not not give, otherwise the most generous sister-in-law will also have complaints.
And the parents have been in this area for 10 years, if it were not for the mother-in-law's sudden request to live with her son for the elderly, the parents would not have been driven away. Zhong Qing was furious, but her mother-in-law was righteous.
In the words of your mother-in-law, your mother-in-law's parents help with the children, that is what they are willing to do, no one forces them. But Zhong Qing's husband is her only son, and it is a matter of course for her son and daughter-in-law to support their parents.
The mother-in-law's righteousness made Zhong Qing dumbfounded. She turned to her husband, hoping that he would stand up and say a few words for herself and her parents. But the husband has been keeping his head down and not speaking, he is forced to be anxious, and he is helpless to throw out, your parents also have their own sons, and the pension is originally the obligation and responsibility of the biological son.
03, the mother-in-law is triumphant: the daughter-in-law has the obligation to support the mother-in-law
The son has opened his mouth to support himself, and the mother-in-law's confidence is even stronger. She triumphantly said to Zhong Qing: Daughter-in-law has the obligation to support her mother-in-law, and if you marry my son, you will naturally fulfill your obligation to be a wife and daughter-in-law.
The arrogance of the mother-in-law made Zhong Qing eager to quarrel with her mother-in-law. But she also knows very well that she quarrels with her mother-in-law no matter how badly she quarrels, if her husband is not partial and does not condone her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law will not be so arrogant. In the final analysis, it is still the husband who favors his own parents, rather than her and her parents.
Zhong Qing wanted to understand this and immediately woke up. She did not continue to argue with her mother-in-law, but directly took the child and parents back to her mother's house. After that, her husband came to intercede many times, and she did not waver.
Watching her mother-in-law live in her own home, Zhong Qing did not want to live with her husband for a long time. A man, even his wife and children can not protect well, how to talk about the pension for his parents-in-law?
It's just that Zhong Qing is also very unwilling for her parents, her parents have worked hard for 10 years, but in the end, they were driven away by their mother-in-law, and even her husband was biased in favor of his parents, thinking that it was natural for his parents-in-law to pay for and help raise his grandson, but it was ridiculous to let him have a son-in-law retire to the end.
Many times, Zhong Qing wanted to divorce her fiercely and leave the house alone with her children. But she thought about it, she and her husband have worked hard for so many years, it is not easy to have a house and a car, how can she give it to people and let her mother-in-law enjoy its success?
Today's Topic:
Do you support Zhong Qing's divorce in time to stop the loss?