"The demolition was divided into 200,000 and a suite, the son said a word, money and house I gave to my daughter"

01.

It's been several days since I came back from the hospital, I am staying at my daughter's house, the doctor said I want to rest more, and my daughter took a few days off to take care of me at home.

The son-in-law saw my uneasiness and spoke to me very seriously, saying that this would be my home from now on, and there was no need to be uncomfortable.

I told my daughter that the house and money that the family had demolished were given to her, and she was silent for a long time, and then said: Mom, I give you a pension, not for these.

I laughed, laughed and laughed and cried.

I said: I know, my mother knows, my daughter, my mother is wrong, you should be your mother to alleviate the guilt in your heart.

The daughter was still unwilling and insisted that I keep it myself first, saying that it should be a way out.

Then she hugged me and said: Mom, I used to be small and ignorant, and I really blamed you. But then when I grew up, I didn't blame you anymore. You gave birth to me and raised me, and I just want to try to give you a happy old age now.

I am more than 60 years old this year, and looking back on the past, the most regrettable thing in my life is to ignore my daughter, spoil my son, and raise him into a white-eyed wolf who does not know gratitude and only knows how to take.

Some people say that parents are double standards, some parents do not know, they feel that they are fair, two children a bowl of water is flat; some parents know, but try to find reasons to find excuses to cover up.

I should belong to the second kind, because I am not good to my daughter, I always take my daughter as the water that is spilled, and the son is the root of the family to excuse my eccentricity.

I have a son and a daughter who is several years younger than my daughter.

I may have been a bit patriarchal myself, plus my son was not in good health since he was a child, and he was sick several times when he was a child, and he almost died, so I hurt my son very much.

Since the daughter began to understand things, she has said many times in the open and in the dark, saying that her mother is too eccentric, saying that she is also a biological child, and cannot be too generous to one or the other.

But I don't admit it, I said your brother is not in good health, and you still say so, it's too ignorant.

02.

When my daughter was admitted to college, I originally wanted her to give up, and I thought that a baby girl graduated from high school very well.

The family conditions are average, and it is better to keep this money for my brother to go to school.

But the daughter cried uncontrollably, begged me in various ways, and then couldn't bear it, so she agreed.

The family undertook her tuition for four years, and the living expenses were paid in addition to a few thousand in the first year, and then there was no more, and it was completely dependent on her own part-time work and scholarships.

I've always felt that my son is better than my daughter, and when did I start to wonder about it, when my son started college.

After my son was admitted to college, he did not want to go home on holidays, except for asking for money to call us.

Later, I secretly ran to school with his father to see him, and my son was very unhappy, I thought he was worried that we were far away.

Later, I learned that he felt that we rural people were not rich and humiliated him.

At this time, my daughter had graduated from college and had a job, and she would give me money every month to let me and her father be nice to themselves and buy something delicious.

I was also stupid, I promised my daughter, and in fact, I saved all the money for my son.

Later, when I thought about it, I was really sorry for my daughter, not only did I not love her, but also failed her filial piety.

Later, the daughter got married, because the family's money was basically spent on the son, so even the dowry was not prepared for her.

I took part of the bride price and bought some at random.

My daughter did not blame me in this matter, but repeatedly stressed to me that she should take care of herself.

My daughter can say that we are very good to her brother, and then my son graduated from college and returned to his hometown, and he had to buy a marriage house when he got married, and he definitely did not have a down payment, and I was far away from my hand, and it was also my daughter who helped this big favor.

In fact, in the past few years, I have never seen my daughter ask my brother for it.

Disappointment in his son begins, which is when he gets married.

03.

Just after talking about marriage, my husband suddenly fell seriously ill.

Then, less than a month later, he died.

In theory, the son's marriage is to be postponed, but the future daughter-in-law is not happy, the son also insists on marriage, and even the father's funeral is irritable.

Even at the time of the wedding, I hoped that I would not attend, saying that it was obscure.

I was dizzy at the time, and I was still caring for me in the hospital by my daughter, and I scolded my brother fiercely. Later, I attended the wedding, but my parents directly skipped me in this part of the speech.

I finally understood that over the years, I had raised a white-eyed wolf, but my daughter, who had not been loved enough, was filial to me.

The days that followed were the same as expected, and after the son got married, he also knew that there was no money in the family, so he never came back.

My daughter came to see me one phone a day, three days and two days, and then kept persuading me to follow her to the pension.

I refused, I felt ashamed, really embarrassed.

After several years like this, the village encountered demolition, and his son rarely returned, and he did not have a phone call for ten days and a half, so he did not know about this matter at all.

There were people from the same village around him, and they didn't look up to his unfilial words and deeds, so no one talked to him.

The demolition of the family was divided into a house and more than two hundred thousand, which may not be too much compared to the rich family, but for us, it is really a lot.

During the time limit of moving out of the house, my daughter also asked me to go to her house, but she was not as eager as before, and I knew that she was worried about me thinking too much.

In fact, in the past few years, I have long seen through it.

However, see through and see through, the son is my son in the end, the daughter's in-laws are well-off, and the younger two are also working hard. So my daughter's life is very happy compared to my son's tight life.

In the end, I still can't bear my son and want to give him a chance one last time.

I found a time to go to my son's house in the city, and it was sad to say that after getting married, I never came back.

04.

The son opened the door and saw that it was my old mother, and before I could speak, he frowned and asked me in a low voice what I was doing.

The daughter-in-law who heard the noise rushed to the scene, with a sneering face, said: This is not the age of not being able to walk, if you don't help your son, it will not be to come to the pension.

These words made my eyes red, and she didn't want to think, who gave the down payment for this house? Who gave the money to have a baby? I don't want me to take care of confinement, and who gave me the money for my sister-in-law? Later, the grandson was full moon, one year old, which time did I not give money?

You can't deny my efforts without letting me go to the wedding feast.

More infuriating people are still behind, I tried to control my emotions, so I stood at the door and asked my son: Can my mother come over for a while?

The son was not happy, and began to say that I caused him trouble, others were helping his son, how to come to me here worried about letting my son retire.

Finally, I let me hurry up and say that my husband and wife are here, and this house can't live.

After saying that, I closed the door directly, how ridiculous, I was shut out of the door by my son and daughter-in-law.

My chest was very congested, and as soon as I walked to the door of the next neighborhood, I felt like I was going to faint, so I quickly called my daughter.

This time I stayed in the hospital for more than ten days, and my daughter called my son, but my son said that he was busy, saying that since he was fine, his sister would take care of it.

My daughter wanted to go to him and I pulled in.

After I was discharged from the hospital, my daughter took me home and said that she would live with her in the future and not think about it too much.

I really regretted it, I really felt guilty, and I decided to try my best to make up for it while I still had time.

This money and the house, I made up my mind to give to my daughter, wait for my son to know about this matter, come to me to make trouble, I want to see how he messed with me.

I'm out there, and I'll see who's more ashamed.

I sincerely advise that patriarchal and eccentric parents are their own children, even if they can't do a bowl of water, don't go too far.

I am considered blessed, and my daughter is still willing to recognize me and filial piety to me.

If your daughter can't put it down, chill your heart, don't care about you.

When you are old, most of the children you are partial to helping, most of them are not filial piety, and it is too late to cry. Because most of them are used to taking, they will not be grateful at all.

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