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Falling in love is a matter of two people, two people are together because of a momentary good feeling, get along for a long time, two people have a deep understanding of each other, and also know whether the other party is really suitable for themselves, if two people are really suitable, then it is time to go further in love, that is, marriage.
But marriage is not a matter of two people, when talking about love, you don't have to think about it so much, because two people are not suitable to be separated immediately, marriage is not such a thing, two people marry more on behalf of the marriage of two families, you need to get along with more objects, each pair of relationships are good or bad affect the happiness of marriage.
A sweet love only requires two people to treat each other sincerely, but a happy marriage needs support in many ways, especially in the in-laws, the attitude of the in-laws to you is good or bad, and it determines the quality of your future life.
Young people who are in love
Today is the first month that Wu Qing and Zhao Lin have determined the relationship, from the establishment of the relationship to the present, the two people have never quarreled, the two people only have each other in their eyes at this time, and the two people at this time think that each other is the most suitable person for each other.
Today they planned to celebrate, during the day, the two of them went to the amusement park, at noon, they went to the big mall to buy new clothes for each other, and in the evening, they came to the pre-booked restaurant to eat.
At the dinner table, Wu Qing was burying his head in the meal, he looked up, saw that Zhao Lin did not eat, just looked at himself, Wu Qing smiled and asked, "Why don't you eat?" Zhao Lin also smiled and replied: "I just want to look at you, I feel very happy to see you, we will definitely get married in the future."
Wu Qing touched Zhao Lin's head and said dotingly, "We will definitely get married, when you want to get married, you can just come to me with your household registration book." ”
Zhao Lin said, "Okay, then when I'm in a good mood, we'll both go get the permit, you should always be ready, don't let you drop the chain here." ”
Wu Qing said, "No, you can try it, my mother would like me to get married sooner." Zhao Lin nodded satisfactorily, and her heart had already been calculated.
Later, in the second month of the two people's acquaintance, Zhao Lin took her hukou and held it up in front of Wu Qing and said, "Go, let's get the permit, I have already told my mother that I will go to the wedding after receiving the certificate." “
Wu Qing smiled slightly and said, "Okay, you are waiting for me, I will go home and get my household registration book." “
Later, in the second month of the two people's acquaintance, the two people received the license, but not only did the wedding not take place, but they did not even meet their parents.
Stern mother-in-law
The two newlyweds who had finished receiving the permit sat happily at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, and Zhao Lin said to Wu Qing: "Before the wedding, you have to let me go to my in-laws' house to see it." “
Wu Qing obviously paused when he heard it, and then Wu Qing smiled and said, "It can be, but in a few days, let me tell my mother so that they can have a preparation, otherwise it will be too sudden to go, and the hospitality will not be good." “
Zhao Lin did not know the situation, so she agreed.
On the third day after receiving the permit, Wu Qing said to Zhao Lin: "Are you free today, you can go home with me now, if you are sure, I will tell my mother and let her prepare." “
Zhao Lin directly took a half-day leave and followed Wu Qing to her in-laws' house.
Because it was not far away, Wu Qing arrived after driving for a while, and when she arrived, her mother-in-law came out to greet her, and blamed Wu Qing for saying: "How did it come so fast, the dish has not been fried yet, come and sit first." “
After that, Wu Qing took Zhao Lin into the house, as soon as she entered the house, she looked at her father-in-law watching TV, Zhao Lin took the initiative to say hello, and her father-in-law also nodded slightly to let them sit down, and her mother-in-law also sat down to watch TV, during which she chatted twice from time to time, and the atmosphere was a little awkward.
At this time, Zhao Lin couldn't help but be a little curious, not to say that the dish was not ready, how no one moved, Zhao Lin took the initiative to ask: "Isn't the dish not yet ready, I am idle and idle, I help you make it." “
At this time, the mother-in-law replied: "The first time you come, you don't need to do it, you don't need me to do it, you just wait." Then he turned his head to the kitchen and said fiercely: "Why it is not done yet, the guests are in a hurry, why are you so useless, you can't make a dish well." ”
Zhao Lin looked at her mother-in-law's gaze, at this time there was a middle-aged woman in the kitchen cooking, a person in the kitchen was busy with anxiety, and responded: "Okay, Mom, this is done." ”
"Is this his sister-in-law?" Zhao Lin was surprised, she knew that Wu Qing had an older brother, but not so old, she secretly asked Wu Qing: "How old is my sister-in-law?" Wu Qing said, "I'm the same age as my brother, thirty-one years old." ”
Zhao Lin thought in her heart at this time, how can I look so old, I can't be like her.
Direct divorce
After a while, the meals were served by the sister-in-law, chicken, duck and fish meat, counting up to seven or eight dishes, it is not easy to do it alone, and the mother-in-law does not know how to help, Zhao Lin's heart thinks so.
After that, the mother-in-law said: "The dishes are ready, let's eat." Hearing this, the sister-in-law turned around and entered the kitchen, and Zhao Lin immediately shouted: "Why doesn't my sister-in-law come to dinner?" The sister-in-law did not answer, and the mother-in-law spoke: "Don't worry about her, she still has her work to do, let's eat her and then eat." “
In this way, Zhao Lin's heart was full of curiosity, and after not eating a few bites, she said to go out for a walk, and then came to the kitchen, she saw her sister-in-law peeling peanuts, she took the initiative to say: "Sister-in-law, you don't peel it, hurry up and go to dinner." “
Then my sister-in-law said, "I can't go, the mother-in-law hasn't finished eating, I can't go to the table." Zhao Lin thought in her heart, what age is this, why don't you let your daughter-in-law come to the table, so you ask why.
At this time, the sister-in-law said slowly: "Alas, when I first married into this family, whether it was her eldest son or their whole family, it was very good for me, so I married over, I originally thought I could have a good life, but my mother-in-law asked me to resign at home, at the beginning it was to let her eldest son raise me, I believed, for a long time, my mother-in-law said that I didn't do any work, I knew to spend money, so I was called to do various things, originally I thought it was right to do something, but my mother-in-law was getting more and more excessive. I haven't been looking at me as a person lately. “
Saying that she cried, Zhao Lin's own heart was not very tasteful, she comforted her sister-in-law and returned to the living room, and when the mother-in-law's family had finished eating, she let her sister-in-law come out to clean up the table, and the mother-in-law said to her sister-in-law: "You take these dishes to the kitchen, don't put them on them, affect our speech."
The sister-in-law did not speak, she silently brought the meals to the kitchen one by one, after a while, Zhao Lin looked at the kitchen and found that her sister-in-law was eating their leftovers, and Zhao Lin's heart was even more unpleasant.
Communication with her mother-in-law's family was also absent-minded, and it didn't take long for Wu Qing to send her home
When it came time to go home, Zhao Lin thought a lot, she finally figured it out, now can not get married, the next day she proposed a divorce to Wu Qing, Wu Qing asked for half a day, only to get Zhao Lin's answer, she thinks that the two of them still need to know more, rather than marrying at this time because of a momentary impulse.
From This incident of Zhao Lin, we realized that marriage is not a child's play, this is not just a matter of two people, we need more time to understand each other's family, rather than getting married because of a momentary impulse.
From the encounter of Zhao Lin's sister-in-law, we can know that this is a very obvious example, when she was hastily married because of a momentary good feeling, at this time the other party only exposed her true face, and he did not get the respect he deserved, and treated her like a servant.
I believe that in the near future, Zhao Lin's sister-in-law will also file for divorce, so we must take it as a warning, and we must be responsible for our marriage events, which is related to our happiness for a lifetime, and we must pass the test of time to know whether it is really suitable for marriage between two people.
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