The sister-in-law returns to her mother's house once a week and returns empty-handed with a full load, mother-in-law: Your sister-in-law does not mind

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The vast majority of women have been troubled by the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage, and even some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be inseparable because of the emergence of certain things.

As the saying goes, there is almost no mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who do not have contradictions in the world, quarrels between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are a very common thing, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law actually has a certain degree of similarity with the mode of getting along with husband and wife, in the end, the two are a family after all, and even if it is a biological mother and daughter, there are times of discord.

However, in the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, once there is an outsider's intervention, such as due to the existence of the sister-in-law, then the problem level between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will develop to a new height, after all, between daughters and daughters-in-law, as a mother-in-law, it is almost difficult to achieve a bowl of water flat.

Emotional master Tu Lei once described the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are originally a different kind of "mother and daughter", and the emotional bond between the two is a man as an intermediary, as long as the man is impartial in his heart, the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will eventually disappear one day.

01 After marriage, the mother-in-law is partial to the sister-in-law, and the husband can only try his best to reconcile

For Xiao Chu, she had thought that as long as she and her husband had a harmonious relationship, the relationship with her mother-in-law would not be far behind.

However, life after marriage gave Xiao Chu a blow.

Xiao Chu has a little sister-in-law, before getting married, Xiao Chu heard that the mother-in-law is very fond of the little sister-in-law, for this, Xiao Chu did not feel anything wrong, after all, as a future sister-in-law, for this only little sister-in-law, Xiao Chu also loves her very much in his heart.

However, an incident that happened after marriage completely subverted Xiao Chu's cognition of her mother-in-law and sister-in-law.

It was during the New Year, because the mother-in-law was old, many relatives came to visit the mother-in-law, and by the way, many gifts were brought, because Xiao Chu was the only daughter-in-law in the family, so when the sky was not yet light, Xiao Chu prepared meals and waited for the arrival of these relatives.

After sending her relatives, Xiao Chu had time to breathe a sigh of relief, but in the face of the gifts brought by these relatives, even as a mother-in-law, she was also worried.

At this time, the mother-in-law said to Xiao Chu: Xiao Chu, you first take away two boxes of gifts, and then leave some for your sister's family, and the rest will be reserved for relatives in the next few days.

Xiao Chu originally thought of resigning, but finally at the suggestion of her husband, Xiao Chu picked two boxes of the cheapest gifts and brought them home.

It wasn't until a long time later that Xiao Chu learned that the original remaining gifts were not disposed of by the mother-in-law in the store, but all of them were given to the sister-in-law.

Until this time, Xiao Chu's impression of the mother-in-law in his heart dropped greatly, and the husband saw that the mother-in-law was like this, and he quickly reacted to the Gu family, but even if there was a husband who reconciled from it, the mother-in-law was still going her own way, and the behavior of favoring the sister-in-law did not have any restraint at all.

In fact, in Xiao Chu's heart, the reason why he has such a big opinion on his mother-in-law is mainly because the mother-in-law has done something too much, Xiao Chu knows very well in his heart that it is very normal for the mother-in-law to love the sister-in-law, but after all, there is a daughter-in-law present, even if you can't do a bowl of water, you can't do such an eccentric.

02 After marriage, the sister-in-law returns to her mother's house once a week, and each time she returns with a full load

Of course, this is just a storm during the New Year, coupled with the fact that the sister-in-law has not been married for a long time at that time, even if the mother-in-law is so eccentric, with the passage of time, Xiao Chu slowly forgot about this matter.

Later, the sister-in-law returned to her mother's house once a week, and Xiao Chu also showed a welcoming attitude. Xiao Chu originally thought that this was because the sister-in-law missed her mother-in-law too much, so she often came back, but later Xiao Chu found that things were not as simple as he thought.

Every time the sister-in-law comes, I don't know if it is the mother-in-law's instructions or other reasons, will not bring any gifts, in the early stage Xiao Chu did not have any opinions because of this, but since the birth of his child, as an aunt, more or less to the nephew should have expressed something, but the sister-in-law does not care about this, every time back to the mother's house is empty-handed.

Not only that, even if the sister-in-law does not bring anything to come, when returning to her own home, the mother-in-law will let the sister-in-law carry the things at home, which can be described as the response to the sentence "come empty-handed, full of loads"

But for the Xiao Chu family, the mother-in-law is obviously not so generous, after the guests at home, the gifts left by the mother-in-law will only let Xiao Chu take home a small part, and most of the rest will be kept for the sister-in-law.

But the number of times, the sister-in-law may be a little embarrassed in her heart, but the mother-in-law said at this time: It's okay, your brother and sister-in-law are generous, they won't mind these small things.

In this regard, Xiao Chu has had a lot of dissatisfaction, and her husband has also done a lot of mother-in-law's ideological work for this, but the mother-in-law has always believed that the situation of Xiao Chu's family is much better than the situation of her daughter's family, perhaps this is the only reason why she prefers her daughter.

But as a child, Xiao Chu also wants to urgently get the care of his mother-in-law in his heart, but the actual situation is that in ordinary life, the mother-in-law's attention is all on the daughter's family, and the attention of the son's family is obviously much less.

Perhaps it is precisely because of the beginning, coupled with the fact that every time the sister-in-law comes to bring home so many gifts, the relationship between Xiao Chu and her mother-in-law has not been too harmonious, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have also spawned many contradictions.

Conclusion: For Xiao Chu, the biggest contradiction between her and her mother-in-law is that the mother-in-law is too biased towards the sister-in-law, and this contradiction, even as a husband, is difficult to reconcile, after all, one party is his own sister, the other is his wife, no matter who he is biased towards, he should not be. Perhaps for Xiao Chu, the only possibility to change this situation is that after many years, there may be a day when the mother-in-law will wake up, hoping that the mother-in-law will realize that the daughter-in-law and daughter are very close to themselves.

Regarding the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, each family has different root causes of problems, but no matter what, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as a family, even if there are many misunderstandings, must always remember that each other is the closest "mother and daughter", perhaps after many years, when recalling the bits and pieces between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I hope that in each other's hearts, all that is left are good memories.