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People are watching the sky, putting themselves in the right position, and people who are too self-righteous will not have good results
Some sisters-in-law just like to make a mess of their mother's family before they are willing to give up, disgusted with those who do not understand things, others repeatedly tolerate, she also thinks that others do not have temper.
Don't use your own way to ask others, be bold, and be generous. Looking at people first, one's cultivation is to know how to respect. Only when there is love in the eyes can there be a way to go. Only when there is love in the heart can there be something to be done. Look at others first. Those who are sisters-in-law should keep to themselves and do a good job. Don't care about things that shouldn't be done
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The importance of a family is that the role of a mother-in-law is very important, and having a good mother-in-law is stronger than anything
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When you get married, you want to be a good daughter-in-law, and the guidance of your mother-in-law is very important
。 However, many mothers-in-law have lived a lifetime in vain, and they still live a thorough life at the age of dozens. The daughter-in-law was not raised by her mother-in-law, and she did not eat a single grain of rice from her, so she had to be good to her daughter-in-law before she had a time of filial piety.
The elderly are sensible, and the family is certainly harmonious
There are many roles for women in this life
It is a daughter, a daughter-in-law, a sister-in-law, a sister-in-law, each identity to do their part, every step of the way is to learn to be a person, will not be a person half of the parents, half of their own upbringing!
01.
The sister-in-law sat in confinement, and the mother-in-law sent supplements.
The sister-in-law Ning Ning often goes to the mother's house to live, the mother-in-law goes to the daughter-in-law's house to help take care of the daughter-in-law who has just given birth to the confinement, the sister-in-law also goes to the sister-in-law's house to live, living in the sister-in-law Nana's house, the sister-in-law is confinement, and the mother-in-law's family has sent a lot of supplements. After a few days, the sister-in-law was ready to return to her in-laws' house, and she brought out a lot of supplements from her sister-in-law's house, and Nana asked the sister-in-law
"Ning Ning, what are you doing?"
"It's okay, I see that your mother's family has sent so many supplements, you can't finish eating, I'm ready to go back, I'll take some back."
Confinement's sister-in-law looked at the sister-in-law and said so naturally, a little angry, but still suppressed the anger and said
"My mom bought it for me"
The sister-in-law's face was instantly full of disdain
"Sister-in-law, you wouldn't be so stingy, would you?" Usually look at you still hurt me, this time never expected you will actually because of some supplements, so stingy, I came to the mother's house also big bags to buy things, really did not expect, their own return to the mother's home is such a treatment, my brother to earn money is not easy, every day early greedy, you usually spend money lavishly, sooner or later this family failed. ”
At this time, the mother-in-law came and angrily rebuked
"Don't say it, as far as you are?" As for taking your sister-in-law's stuff? ”
The sister-in-law is usually pampered, and her voice has also improved after hearing it
"How come it's not? The eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, it turns out that my sister-in-law is so stingy, my sister-in-law still buys this every time she goes back to her mother's house, buys that and brings it back, maybe she secretly gives his parents money, so how much is enough for her to lose,
My brother only earns a few thousand dollars a month! She doesn't go to work, she doesn't earn money, you make up for her body every day, I didn't have such a treatment when I was confinement.
I take something of little value, what is there to be angry about? I also see that I buy too much, put at home no one eats, wasted, I take it home and don't use it to spend money to buy it, Mom, you want a bowl of water to be flat, you can't have a daughter-in-law to forget your daughter-in-law. ”
02.
Mother-in-law defends daughter-in-law.
The sister-in-law said that she was going to take away the supplements from her sister-in-law's house, and the mother-in-law directly snatched the things in the hands of the sister-in-law, and the mother-in-law directly slapped her
"What did I teach you?" You can't move anything, your sister-in-law's things, take other people's things is still so reasonable, your sister-in-law's mother-in-law sent things, is to let your sister-in-law recover well, how difficult it is to give birth to children for our family, you as a sister-in-law, do not feel sorry for your sister-in-law, even if you want to take things away, you do not have such treatment, you blame your mother-in-law! How difficult it is for your sister-in-law to give birth to a child for our family, a woman who gives birth is a trip through the ghost door, and when people are so vulnerable, you still come out to add to the chaos. ”
The sister-in-law may have been beaten by her mother-in-law for the first time in her life, covering her flushed face and saying angrily
"Mom, how can you do this?" I'm your girlfriend!" After saying that, he covered his face and ran out.
03.
Sensible mother-in-law
Nana watched the sister-in-law cover her face and ran out, anxiously telling her mother-in-law
"Then you go after her, a little thing will not be enough, let her carry it anyway, I can't finish eating, it's okay, the family doesn't have to worry so much." There's something good to say."
Mother-in-law said
"Rest assured, this girl is spoiled by me, spoiled lawlessly, she went out to breathe for a while, blame me for not teaching well, even put my hand on your body, we can't stand you, you don't get angry, sit in confinement."
Nana also expressed her gratitude to her mother-in-law, as long as she is understood, in fact, grievances are not grievances.
"Thank you Mom"
The mother-in-law said with a smile
"They are all family, what is not thankful?" The things that the mother's family bought for you, you yourself are reluctant to eat, the daughter who marries out, the water that is spilled out, she is my girlfriend, I also hurt, you are my daughter-in-law, I also hurt, the two of us are together is fate, you are a sister-in-law, before she tolerated her a lot, but she does not understand things, doing the wrong thing can be changed is a good look, back I have to say about him, Nana, you don't put it in your heart, sit in confinement, you can rest assured, no one can touch the things sent by your mother's family. ”
04.
The sister-in-law apologized to her sister-in-law.
A few days later, the mother-in-law called her sister-in-law, and after a scolding, she explained a lot of reasoning to her
"You are so aggressive, your sister-in-law hurts you a lot, the last time your family wanted to buy a car, you took a hundred thousand yuan from me, you think your sister-in-law doesn't know, your sister-in-law is just pretending to be stupid, don't want to worry about them, if you really plan with us, where do we have any reason?"
Since you go back to your mother-in-law's house to do the duties of a sister-in-law, if your sister-in-law can't tolerate you in the future, you don't want to blame people, originally there was no contradiction between your sister-in-law and your brother, there was no contradiction between our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you picked bones in the egg there, picked and picked, even if there is a small contradiction, it is not your turn to manage, you are also a married person, how can you not understand? You have to have them both divorced, divorced, what good do you have? If you want your parents and brothers to have a good life, they will be less nosy when they go home, close their mouths and be a sister-in-law, and come back to find contradictions and provoke things for us, you are also a piece of meat that fell from my body, how can I not be in pain? What about the people? That is also the little baby of the parents at home, be careful of the liver, how can it not be your sister-in-law's turn to bully? Do you get it? ”
The sister-in-law knew of her mistake and sincerely apologized to her sister-in-law
"Sister-in-law, I'm sorry, you gave birth to a child for my brother, I was pregnant with a child and said so ugly things to you, I'm sorry, I will definitely be a qualified sister-in-law in the future, go back to my mother's house to be nosy, and shut my mouth." I will not chew the root of my tongue again
。 ”
The sister-in-law also generously tolerated the sister-in-law and said that she would not mind.
inclusive.
A good mother-in-law will make a family: family harmony, and a bad mother-in-law will make a family: wife and daughter-in-law.
The distance between the heart and the heart is not far, communication is the best antidote, tolerance is a virtue, it reflects a person's cultivation and self-confidence. An understanding and tolerance is the best gift that people can give each other. Learning to be inclusive is to choose the direction of happiness and happiness.
As a sister-in-law, you must understand how difficult it is for a woman to marry into a strange family, to have children for this family, to take care of family affairs, not to make the family chickens and dogs restless because of their own indulgence, and the last big family is restless.
The sister-in-law should understand that when she goes home to be filial to her father and mother, she cannot morally kidnap her sister-in-law's filial piety, and she should take care of other people's idle affairs less, and if she wants her sister-in-law to be filial piety, she must also pat her own conscience.
I think that good people are kind to every role, and unkind people are not kind to any role. Whether it is an aunt or a sister-in-law, filial piety to parents is their own right, do not in turn let the sister-in-law or sister-in-law be angry, whether it is a son or daughter-in-law, you must do your duty and duty.
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