1. After becoming a woman
De Beauvoir said: "A woman is not born a woman, but later becomes a woman." ”
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Today's era is too harsh on women, and they also play the role of "daughter, employee, wife, daughter-in-law, mother", not only to be considerate of the husband, filial piety to the parents and in-laws, but also to love the post and dedicate themselves to earning money to support the family, but also to raise children and teach children.
From cardamom to twilight, the saddest thing about a woman is not that youth is no longer there, but that she loses herself in trivial life.
If I remember correctly, a woman's life has become busier and busier from becoming a wife and a mother.
No time to go shopping, no time to party, even chasing dramas has become a luxury;
When reading a book, read the commentary directly, eager to absorb all the knowledge in a second;
On the way to work, rely on listening to books to draw energy and keep up with the pace of the times.
So that when the night is quiet, they rely on mobile phones to heal loneliness and hug themselves.
We are desperately running forward, stuffing more things into the gap of time, and have long forgotten what life is.
As the poet Gibran said, "We have gone so far that we have forgotten why we set out." ”
2. Although the past has been lost, the future will be exquisite
20-year-old us, as pure as the morning sun, smart and clear;
30-year-old us, as brilliant as the rainbow, amorous and hot;
When the wind that swept through the treetops no longer stirred up ripples in our hearts, we were 40 years old.
Although as quiet as the night sky, idyllic and elegant......... But there is no street look back that was once proud, and there is no pet of green leaves and red flowers;
Let us not worry about the fading of red face, the frost of the two hairs,
Let us not worry about physical diseases and health decline,
We must grasp the present, control the future, and live exquisitely.
3. The highest way for women to live
The most advanced way for a woman to live is not to become a hero behind whom, but to live as her own. It's about being nice to yourself.
Instead, it is necessary to slow down the pace of busyness, clear the distractions in the heart, and live every day happily.
The faster the pace of society, the more you have to slow down. After all, the purpose of our hard work is not for endless overtime, nor for the warning on the medical examination sheet, but to have a healthy body and enjoy the steaming fireworks.
I like a sentence that Dong Qing said in "Readers":
Women's eyes can gaze tenderly at pain, or they can sharply overlook the prosperity;
Women's hands can cook the delicious food that flows, and can also direct the ship on the move;
Women can infiltrate a cultivation in art, and they can also experience a demeanor in science.
As women, we can have countless ways of living, without having to limit ourselves or look ahead.
From now on
Let go of trivia, walk around, and slow down the fireworks of the world;
Take advantage of the excitement, return with pleasure, and watch everything grow over time;
Occasionally, sitting in front of the flowers, it is a good time in the world.
Having a idle heart that is "willing to be old with the seasons", slowly enjoying life, eliminating distractions, and quiet without dispute, is the most advanced way for women to live...
5 Messages:
The glitz of the world is like a dream, and it is a blessing to look down on the floating clouds;
Fate sometimes has to have it, and fate must not demand it at any time.
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