After seeing her son busy, the mother-in-law regretted it: she should not have proposed the AA system with her daughter-in-law and pit her son

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As the saying goes, families have difficult scriptures, and even seemingly very harmonious families will be filled with all kinds of contradictions and misunderstandings, but these appearances will not be known to outsiders. Among them, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the relationship between husband and wife, and the relationship between various members of the family have always been deeply troubled by many people.

Everyone has a different understanding of marriage, as a woman, they will inevitably have many close intersections with their mother-in-law after marriage, and in the process, it is easy to trigger some mother-in-law contradictions that are not necessary, and once the mother-in-law contradictions appear, they will even affect the feelings between husband and wife to some extent.

If at this time the husband is still partial to the mother-in-law, everything is in accordance with the mother-in-law's wishes, but the wife is not ignored, this will inevitably lead to a series of unpredictable consequences.

A harmonious family atmosphere requires everyone's family members to do their best, only with joint efforts, each other will get along harmoniously, if there is a person who deviates from the heart, then the family will also be subjected to more serious turmoil.

There is a saying in "The Severed Queen" that she was too young to know that all the gifts given by fate had been secretly priced.

Perhaps an inadvertent move of his own many years ago will have unpredictable consequences many years later.

01After marriage, the husband implements the AA system with his wife according to the instructions of his mother-in-law

Throughout the life of Grandma Wang, she is a relatively strong woman, perhaps related to her own experience, when she was a child she was the eldest daughter of the family, because the living conditions of the family at that time were not good, so Grandma Wang went out to work early and shouldered the responsibility of taking care of her younger siblings.

Later, after Grandma Wang got married, her husband's temper was relatively weak, so everything in the family, big or small, was decided by Grandma Wang herself, and later until the birth of the child, Grandma Wang went to work in a city far away with her husband in order to subsidize the family, which provided her children until the completion of her studies.

Although The temper of The Princess Is very strong, neither her husband nor her son can deny the contribution of the Mother-in-Law to the family, but perhaps it is a lifetime of hard work, after preparing for the marriage of her son, the Mother-in-law is worried that her son and daughter-in-law have no life experience, so the Mother-in-law will more or less intervene in the lives of the two young.

In the words of My Mother-in-Law Wang: I have worked hard all my life, all for the sake of my children, not to mention, the house and car used by my son and daughter-in-law for marriage are all prepared for them with my savings for many years, and it is also a matter of course for me, as a mother-in-law, to teach them the experience of life after marriage.

Yes, in the eyes of The Princess Wang, all she did was for the good of her son and daughter-in-law, but she ignored a problem, that is, the son was born by herself, how to treat it is OKAY, but the daughter-in-law is married to her own family, some things, some words, or need to weigh more.

And The Wang mother-in-law obviously did not notice this, so in the eyes of the daughter-in-law, this nosy mother-in-law is very disgusted, and there are also many contradictions between the Wang mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.

When the son of the mother-in-law saw this situation, he not only did not show any expression, but also favored his mother in words and deeds, so the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law further escalated until it was irreconcilable.

Wang's mother-in-law saw that her daughter-in-law was so disobedient, plus her daughter-in-law had been at home and did not work, often carrying many things back to her mother's house in large bags and small bags, seeing that her daughter-in-law was so disregarding her family, Wang's mother-in-law was angry, so she let her son and daughter-in-law AA system.

The son also followed the instructions of his mother-in-law and began an AA life with his wife.

02 After seeing his son busy, the old man regretted it

Although the mother-in-law wang is worried about whether the son and daughter-in-law will divorce after the AA system, this concern is obviously more worrying, after all, the husband and wife already have children, it is precisely because of the child's bondage, so even if there is a glimmer of possibility, the husband and wife will reluctantly make it up, after all, the harm of divorce to the child is undoubtedly very huge.

In this way, the son and daughter-in-law of the wang mother-in-law began the AA system life.

Many years later, as The Wang Mother-in-law gradually grew older and her temper gradually became milder, she gradually found that the decision she had made seemed to be a bit excessive, so for a long time, in order to make up for her apologies, the Wang Mother-in-law would always be close to her daughter-in-law, but the daughter-in-law always pretended to turn a blind eye to the wang mother-in-law's overtures, after all, the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law for many years could be said to be solved.

At this time, the physical condition of The Wang Mother-in-law is also getting worse and worse, and the son takes her to the house in order to facilitate the care of the Wang Mother-in-law, and every day the son of the Wang Mother-in-law goes to work during the day, and after returning home at night, he is busy with the Wang Mother-in-law and takes care of her living life.

Looking at the way her son was busy, Grandma Wang couldn't bear it, and she wanted her daughter-in-law to help share some, but the daughter-in-law didn't care about Grandma Wang, in her son's words: The husband and wife AA system for many years has long consumed all the feelings between husband and wife. Now the mode of getting along with his wife is that the well water does not violate the river water, and each takes care of his own affairs.

After hearing this, Grandma Wang regretted it, and she helplessly sighed: I thought that the AA system was for the good of my son, but I didn't expect to pit my son in the end, I thought I had done nothing wrong, but I didn't expect that I was so wrong.

However, no amount of repentance can change any facts, looking at the current life pattern of her son and daughter-in-law, Grandma Wang's heart can be described as mixed.

Conclusion: As the saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, just like the experience of The Queen's mother-in-law, she always interfered too much in the life between her son and daughter-in-law, thus creating such a bad situation in her later years. As a mother-in-law, only by getting along well with the daughter-in-law, the family atmosphere will be harmonious and happy, and letting go at the right time does not mean that you do not care, but at the necessary moment, guide the way forward for your son and daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law will be glad to meet such a wise mother-in-law.

Only in this way will the whole extended family be happy and happy.