Be careful about what outsiders say, the words spoken by the elderly not only represent individuals, but may also be closely related to a large family, and it is expedient to speak carefully.
First, do not say bad things about your daughter-in-law to outsiders
Outsiders just look at the hilarity, and even read jokes, the more vigorously you talk, the more outsiders coax, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become a hot spot that others are waiting for, and others will listen to the jokes. Even if there is a contradiction with the daughter-in-law, it is also an internal contradiction within the family, and there is no need to let outsiders hear hearsay. If you don't say bad things about your daughter-in-law with your front foot to outsiders, the outsiders' back feet will say it to more outsiders, and after word of mouth, it will not take long to reach the daughter-in-law's ears. Not only does it not help to resolve the contradiction with the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law will sound uncomfortable, and the more she tastes it, the more it feels like it is not a taste, which will stimulate a greater contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law. If you don't control your mouth as soon as possible and go out to keep your mouth shut about the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will fall into a vicious circle.
Second, do not tell outsiders about the fall of the past and the glory of the past
The things of the past should pass forever, as a dusty memory, at best to take care of themselves, not to casually tell outsiders. If you say that you have been depressed, outsiders will think that your starting point is low, even if it is high now, it is not high, and even outsiders will talk about your past downfall, and it is bittersweet to say it from your mouth, but from the mouth of outsiders, it is not only a change of taste, it is simply a deterioration, especially after being falsely rumored, your past fall will be spread beyond recognition. If you say that you were brilliant in the past, outsiders will take it for granted that you are not satisfied now, and can only use the past achievements to brush the sense of existence, not to mention that outsiders have not personally experienced it, seeing is impossible to talk about, it is very likely that you are bragging, although you are not afraid of the shadow oblique, but have to admit that people are fearful.
Third, do not tell outsiders about the current state of the economy
The economic well or bad of the individual, or the economic strength of the family, strive to be silent at the right time. After all, how much money you have has, and there is no stake in outsiders, but it will either cause ridicule or ridicule from outsiders who have more money than you, or it will cause jealousy or jealousy from outsiders who have less money than you. Law-abiding outsiders are better to say that in addition to the fact that there will be more or less imbalance in their hearts, they will often resign themselves to it. However, the outsiders who plot against the wrongdoing are different, revealing the economic status quo is tantamount to the rhythm of the tree's big move, and the false mouth is simply contrary to the ancient precept of not revealing the wealth and not revealing the wealth, even if you can prevent outsiders from stealing for a while, it is impossible to prevent outsiders from worrying about it. To talk to outsiders about the current state of the economy is to try to create hidden dangers when there are no hidden dangers.
Conclusion: If you shouldn't say something, try not to say more, after all, it is useless to say more. In the first three years of life, it is difficult to learn how to speak, but in the second half of life, it is difficult to shut up at the right time, and it is even more difficult to shut up at the right time than to open your mouth.
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